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Madhatter24 · 05/12/2018 20:21

This is quite a long thread but I want you to get all the information as I am really confused and want to give my friend the best advice.

A friend of mine who was returning from holiday, she was travelling with her brother, his wife, their two young children and my elderly mother in law who is age 70+. They were seated separately on the plane, my friend was seated upstairs and everyone else was seated downstairs together. The niece was crying for my friend and she was becoming agitated as she is very attached to her and she is always with her, however as she was seated upstairs she couldn't sit with her. My friend asked the stewardess it was it possible for her to sit near her family and they said once everyone is boarded, if there's a way they can swap her with another passenger they will. She accepted this and was waiting patiently for the flight to board and take off. Another passenger on the plane complained to the steward and said that my friends niece is ill and should be checked over by a doctor before being allowed to fly (she was crying quite loudly and my friends sis in law was trying desperately to calm her).

The stewardess then goes over to the sister in law and asks if the child is ill. The sister-in-law explained that she's not ill and she is crying for her auntie and who is seated upstairs.

Another stewardess then goes upstairs and said that My friend need to go downstairs (she didn't say why and my friend thought it was because they found a seat for her near her family).
In the meantime My friend was not aware of this but the stewardess that was in charge was asking her family to get off the flight and get the child checked by a doctor within the airport. The sister-in-law and brother were saying that the child is not ill and that she is crying because she wants to be seated with her auntie. However they were refusing to listen and said that they must all get off the flight and get the child checked by the doctor within the airport. They were absolutely refusing to listen. They were trying to explain to them that they are travelling with an elderly person and to young children.

As they kept on trying to explain the situation to the stewardess and explain that the child is not ill and she is only upset because she wants to be seated with her auntie, they started getting increasingly rude and saying get out of this plane now. Eventually they had no option but to leave the flight. They went to the medical room and the doctor checked the child and said that there is absolutely no reason why the child cannot fly. They then went back to the check-in desk And they said that as they have missed their flight and that they need to pay a penalty of £200 each. Again they tried to explain the situation to the check in staff and said that they were removed from the flight due to no fault of their own and it was only because a another passenger complained that the small child was ill when she wasn't she was only crying because she wanted to be sat next to her auntie. However once again they were not being reasonable and would not listen to our side. They eventually had to pay £100 per person as a penalty for missing the flight.

When they arrived back at Heathrow, a few pieces of luggage arrived however the reminder of the luggage arrived in dribs and drabs over the next few days delivered to the home address.

My friend has been completely and utterly broken by this whole experience. It has caused her to become ill and she is unable to work because the of the stress this whole situation caused. What would you do in this situation? I was thinking of tagging the airline (emirates) on a Facebook page, however thinking a bit deeper was thinking maybe write to them and see what their response is.

She saying it's not just about the financial loss that they incurred, it's about the stress and ordeal they had to go through with two young children and elderly mother-in-law. All because another person just said that the child was ill. This has completely ruined her holiday and she has just become a recluse and feels like a complete failure for not having managed the situation better at the time. I'm sorry this is such a long post but I just want to get all the details in.

WWYD.

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TwiceMagic · 05/12/2018 20:30

I'd chalk it up to experience, frankly.

I'm not sure I quite understand why the niece was crying so inconsolably for her aunt when she was seated with her sibling, parents and grandparent though. It just doesn't make sense.

And even if only the aunt could have consoled her, why didn't one of the other adults swap seats with her?

Gazelda · 05/12/2018 20:33

I agree with everything TwiceMagic said.
How old is the niece? How long ago did this happen? It seems quite an overreaction for your friend to be so distraught and ill though.

CrimpBrunette · 05/12/2018 20:33

This was a shitty situation but to be "utterly broken" and stressed to the point she can't work as a result, really? Either she's totally dramatic or may have other health issues that need seen to.

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GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat · 05/12/2018 20:33

Was it you? Because you said your mother in law- no need to fib, it’s anonymous!

mycatplotsdeath · 05/12/2018 20:34

One of the adults should have swapped places if the child was that bad.
But I really can't understand the hysteria from being sat with her parents.

ihatethecold · 05/12/2018 20:36

Sounds a bit over dramatic

It’s not life changing that they had to leave the flight.
Why would she become a recluse over it??

I get what happened was crap and she should complain but to be ill over it seems a bit much.

LIZS · 05/12/2018 20:36

Does seem an overreaction to feel so devastated afterwards. Why did you they all have to get off, surely friend and mil at least could have travelled. Was friend in business class ?

Conventicle · 05/12/2018 20:38

This doesn’t make any sense. How old was the child? Why was she crying unconsolably for her aunt, despite being sitting with the rest of the family? Why the overreaction from your ‘friend’ to an annoying, expensive but hardly catastrophic situation?

TokyoSushi · 05/12/2018 20:39

Sounds weird. Why didn't one of the adults swap with the person upstairs if the child was so keen to sit by the Auntie? Which country were they in? Are you one of the people? It seems like you might be...

Aaaahfuck · 05/12/2018 20:39

I feel not being able to work because of the stress of this is a bit dramatic tbh. Could another family member not have swapped with the friend the little girl was crying for?

Also FYI they're called cabin crew not stewardesses.

Wetdressinggownsleeve · 05/12/2018 20:40

Broken, ill and unable to work? because of a difficult flight? Fuck me Hmm

champagneplanet · 05/12/2018 20:40

It all sounds very over dramatic. Are you sure you have been 'told' the whole story? Emirates are usually very good when it comes to customer service.

ShatnersBassoon · 05/12/2018 20:42

Sounds like you made a mess of a slightly difficult situation. Sister- or mother-in-law could have swapped with you if you were the only person who could have settled the child. The trauma of it can't have been so great that you now can't function.

gamerchick · 05/12/2018 20:43

One of the other adults could have swapped. Utterly ridiculous situation where an indulged child got you all thrown off. Instead of showing the kid their own way could could happen (I can imagine the aw she wants to sit with her aunty bless her bollocks) distracting the kid as a priority would have been better.

Ill and unable to work indeed Confused

zeeboo · 05/12/2018 20:43

Oh the melodrama!! No child spends that amount of time glued to an Auntie, unless Auntie is their childminder. This isn't like a small child being separated from their Mother.
This is so not worth being 'broken' and sick over for goodness sake. It was a bad experience, possibly the airlines fault, possibly your 'friend's' but there were no wrecks and nobody drownded as an old saying goes.

champagneplanet · 05/12/2018 20:44

I think someone is after a bit of compo.

Stress caused, loss of earnings, money back for extra flights equals another holiday....

Figgygal · 05/12/2018 20:44

Unless that child had some SEN issues the parents should have got her under control. What a ridiculous situation and reaction from your friend

TheFairyCaravan · 05/12/2018 20:45

It's all a storm in a tea cup isn't it really?

The most sensible thing would have been for one of the other adults to have swapped with you your friend so the child stopped screaming. I can't understand why this incident has left anyone broken and unable to work tbh.

Prestonsflowers · 05/12/2018 20:45

Economy on Emirates is on one level, upstairs is business and first class.
I would tell your friend that their plan for the whole family to be upgraded didn’t work.
I would wish her better luck next time or suggest maybe they pay to be upgraded

DewDropsonKittens · 05/12/2018 20:45

Why did no-one downstairs swap with auntie upstairs to calm niece??

CrookedMe · 05/12/2018 20:46

It was a shit situation, badly handled.

But utterly broken and unable to work? Surely you get up the next day and get on with life. It was a stand-alone incident. Put in a complaint and forget about it.

ItWentInMyEye · 05/12/2018 20:46

I 100% think this is your personal experience 🙄

choli · 05/12/2018 20:46

I'd work on that child's behaviour before taking another holiday and pre book seats if she can't be taught that she can survive a flight without your friend.

dun1urkin · 05/12/2018 20:47

What a fucking drama. Easily solved as pp said.
I’m sure the Fail might do you - sorry your friend- a sad face story. Can’t wait for the photos and the reader comments if they do.

KitKat1985 · 05/12/2018 20:48

My friend has been completely and utterly broken by this whole experience. It has caused her to become ill and she is unable to work because the of the stress this whole situation caused.

I can see why the experience would have been stressful at the time, but this is bordering on ridiculous.

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