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Madhatter24 · 05/12/2018 20:21

This is quite a long thread but I want you to get all the information as I am really confused and want to give my friend the best advice.

A friend of mine who was returning from holiday, she was travelling with her brother, his wife, their two young children and my elderly mother in law who is age 70+. They were seated separately on the plane, my friend was seated upstairs and everyone else was seated downstairs together. The niece was crying for my friend and she was becoming agitated as she is very attached to her and she is always with her, however as she was seated upstairs she couldn't sit with her. My friend asked the stewardess it was it possible for her to sit near her family and they said once everyone is boarded, if there's a way they can swap her with another passenger they will. She accepted this and was waiting patiently for the flight to board and take off. Another passenger on the plane complained to the steward and said that my friends niece is ill and should be checked over by a doctor before being allowed to fly (she was crying quite loudly and my friends sis in law was trying desperately to calm her).

The stewardess then goes over to the sister in law and asks if the child is ill. The sister-in-law explained that she's not ill and she is crying for her auntie and who is seated upstairs.

Another stewardess then goes upstairs and said that My friend need to go downstairs (she didn't say why and my friend thought it was because they found a seat for her near her family).
In the meantime My friend was not aware of this but the stewardess that was in charge was asking her family to get off the flight and get the child checked by a doctor within the airport. The sister-in-law and brother were saying that the child is not ill and that she is crying because she wants to be seated with her auntie. However they were refusing to listen and said that they must all get off the flight and get the child checked by the doctor within the airport. They were absolutely refusing to listen. They were trying to explain to them that they are travelling with an elderly person and to young children.

As they kept on trying to explain the situation to the stewardess and explain that the child is not ill and she is only upset because she wants to be seated with her auntie, they started getting increasingly rude and saying get out of this plane now. Eventually they had no option but to leave the flight. They went to the medical room and the doctor checked the child and said that there is absolutely no reason why the child cannot fly. They then went back to the check-in desk And they said that as they have missed their flight and that they need to pay a penalty of £200 each. Again they tried to explain the situation to the check in staff and said that they were removed from the flight due to no fault of their own and it was only because a another passenger complained that the small child was ill when she wasn't she was only crying because she wanted to be sat next to her auntie. However once again they were not being reasonable and would not listen to our side. They eventually had to pay £100 per person as a penalty for missing the flight.

When they arrived back at Heathrow, a few pieces of luggage arrived however the reminder of the luggage arrived in dribs and drabs over the next few days delivered to the home address.

My friend has been completely and utterly broken by this whole experience. It has caused her to become ill and she is unable to work because the of the stress this whole situation caused. What would you do in this situation? I was thinking of tagging the airline (emirates) on a Facebook page, however thinking a bit deeper was thinking maybe write to them and see what their response is.

She saying it's not just about the financial loss that they incurred, it's about the stress and ordeal they had to go through with two young children and elderly mother-in-law. All because another person just said that the child was ill. This has completely ruined her holiday and she has just become a recluse and feels like a complete failure for not having managed the situation better at the time. I'm sorry this is such a long post but I just want to get all the details in.

WWYD.

OP posts:
lauryloo · 05/12/2018 21:08

How old is the child

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 21:08

Was your 'friend' aggressive and arrested and deported by any chance?

BrightStarrySky · 05/12/2018 21:08

OP

If it was you then I’m sorry to hear about the impact it’s had and hope you can find a way to put it behind you.

To the other posters- perhaps OP is struggling with some things you aren’t aware of which could explain her reaction. No need to be so horrible.

Interested in this thread?

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Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 21:09

Struggling with what exactly?

LizzieBennettDarcy · 05/12/2018 21:09

Frankly I can't imagine anything worse than a crying child.... especially one who is disturbing other passengers even before take off.

Next time, if who you are sat by is such a massive issue, pre book your seats like everyone else.

GinIsIn · 05/12/2018 21:10

Why couldn’t one of the other adults just swap with the auntie if it was that important? If a scene was being made to the extent the plane couldn’t take off then the airline was completely correct to deplane the family.

BestestBrownies · 05/12/2018 21:10

Damn. Kudos to the other passenger who told the cabin crew that the annoying screaming brat child was 'ill' to get them chucked off the flight.

Will have to remember that one next time I do long-haul.....

DaffydownClock · 05/12/2018 21:11

Child sounds like a spoilt brat, certainly old enough to know better, and the adults were obviously incapable of swapping seats for whatever reason.

GhostSauce · 05/12/2018 21:11

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Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 05/12/2018 21:12

I’ve no idea how to get an upgrade, but I’m pretty sure that a child playing up is way way down the list.

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 21:12

Certainly not struggling financially if flying Emirates from Heathrow. You're talking serious money for a flight to Dubai for a holiday. So a £100 is fuck all as a percentage of the overall cost per flight.

What is it that upset you so much?

Why were you all booted off the flight?

Nicknacky · 05/12/2018 21:12

Why did everyone get off?

BrightStarrySky · 05/12/2018 21:13

@Thejezebel

Obviously the reaction described is not normal for a person in good mental health. Maybe the person is struggling with depression or mental health issues that are causing her to fixate on this. I have no idea, but it seems fairly possible given the OP’s description.

So letting her know her reaction is disproportionate could be helpful but there is no need for the nasty tone of some posters here.

Bombardier25966 · 05/12/2018 21:13

Emirates have an upstairs economy section on the A380.

All this fuss and still no upgrade!

Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 05/12/2018 21:14

I’m also sure that Emirates would have incurred costs associated with removing the group from the plane, and that it’s not a decision they would have taken lightly.

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 21:14

Apparently OP, Brother, sister in law, crying child and elderly MIL were booted off. They didn't get off willingly.

LegoAdventCalendar · 05/12/2018 21:14

I think you're all a load of chancers after money. Why didn't one of the other adults swap seats with you/the aunt?

It has caused her to become ill and she is unable to work because the of the stress this whole situation caused. What would you do in this situation?

Get a fucking GRIP!

Hope a tabloid gets hold of this story and the whole world makes me realise how utterly grasping, grabby, melodramatic and foolish you have all been.

AccidentallyRunToWindsor · 05/12/2018 21:16

It's upset her to the point she can't go to work? Seriously?

We were offloaded from a flight due to our own mistake over timings- it's a funny story now told over dinner. I wish I had known I could get time off work for it!

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 21:16

OP you say you could have handled it better.
What is it that you did wrong?

Klobuchar · 05/12/2018 21:16

If this actually happened then it sounds entirely like it was your, sorry your friend’s fault.

No compo claim here, OP

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 21:17

OP was it your behaviour that got y'all booted off the flight?

PrincessConsuelaBannanaHammock · 05/12/2018 21:17

I don't understand why someone else didn't just switch with the auntie Confused

choli · 05/12/2018 21:17

That’s a time to speak severely to the child and tell them to stop with the histrionics.

I think we know where the child learned the histronics.

Effendi · 05/12/2018 21:17

I've never been on a plane that has an upstairs....

jay55 · 05/12/2018 21:18

Why did they all have to get off and not just the child and one adult?

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