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Madhatter24 · 05/12/2018 20:21

This is quite a long thread but I want you to get all the information as I am really confused and want to give my friend the best advice.

A friend of mine who was returning from holiday, she was travelling with her brother, his wife, their two young children and my elderly mother in law who is age 70+. They were seated separately on the plane, my friend was seated upstairs and everyone else was seated downstairs together. The niece was crying for my friend and she was becoming agitated as she is very attached to her and she is always with her, however as she was seated upstairs she couldn't sit with her. My friend asked the stewardess it was it possible for her to sit near her family and they said once everyone is boarded, if there's a way they can swap her with another passenger they will. She accepted this and was waiting patiently for the flight to board and take off. Another passenger on the plane complained to the steward and said that my friends niece is ill and should be checked over by a doctor before being allowed to fly (she was crying quite loudly and my friends sis in law was trying desperately to calm her).

The stewardess then goes over to the sister in law and asks if the child is ill. The sister-in-law explained that she's not ill and she is crying for her auntie and who is seated upstairs.

Another stewardess then goes upstairs and said that My friend need to go downstairs (she didn't say why and my friend thought it was because they found a seat for her near her family).
In the meantime My friend was not aware of this but the stewardess that was in charge was asking her family to get off the flight and get the child checked by a doctor within the airport. The sister-in-law and brother were saying that the child is not ill and that she is crying because she wants to be seated with her auntie. However they were refusing to listen and said that they must all get off the flight and get the child checked by the doctor within the airport. They were absolutely refusing to listen. They were trying to explain to them that they are travelling with an elderly person and to young children.

As they kept on trying to explain the situation to the stewardess and explain that the child is not ill and she is only upset because she wants to be seated with her auntie, they started getting increasingly rude and saying get out of this plane now. Eventually they had no option but to leave the flight. They went to the medical room and the doctor checked the child and said that there is absolutely no reason why the child cannot fly. They then went back to the check-in desk And they said that as they have missed their flight and that they need to pay a penalty of £200 each. Again they tried to explain the situation to the check in staff and said that they were removed from the flight due to no fault of their own and it was only because a another passenger complained that the small child was ill when she wasn't she was only crying because she wanted to be sat next to her auntie. However once again they were not being reasonable and would not listen to our side. They eventually had to pay £100 per person as a penalty for missing the flight.

When they arrived back at Heathrow, a few pieces of luggage arrived however the reminder of the luggage arrived in dribs and drabs over the next few days delivered to the home address.

My friend has been completely and utterly broken by this whole experience. It has caused her to become ill and she is unable to work because the of the stress this whole situation caused. What would you do in this situation? I was thinking of tagging the airline (emirates) on a Facebook page, however thinking a bit deeper was thinking maybe write to them and see what their response is.

She saying it's not just about the financial loss that they incurred, it's about the stress and ordeal they had to go through with two young children and elderly mother-in-law. All because another person just said that the child was ill. This has completely ruined her holiday and she has just become a recluse and feels like a complete failure for not having managed the situation better at the time. I'm sorry this is such a long post but I just want to get all the details in.

WWYD.

OP posts:
gamerchick · 05/12/2018 20:48

I think someone is after a bit of compo

Ah come on, that story would look mint with a sea of sad faces for the papers Grin

Yes your plan for an upgrade failed OP. Move on and get over it.

fleshmarketclose · 05/12/2018 20:48

I can imagine it was stressful on the day but becoming a recluse and unable to work? Is she always such a drama queen? Petition for refunds on the penalties by all means but claiming for the supposed after effects of this would be ridiculous.

VivaDixie · 05/12/2018 20:48

What @champagneplanet said

All the drama

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greendale17 · 05/12/2018 20:49

Also FYI they're called cabin crew not stewardesses.

OP can call them whatever she wants

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 20:50

You messed up OP when you said 'my MIL'. We all now know it's you.

How are you this fraught over £100?

My friend has been completely and utterly broken by this whole experience. It has caused her to become ill and she is unable to work because the of the stress this whole situation caused.

Seriously? Have you ever actually experienced real stress in your life?

BentNeckLady · 05/12/2018 20:50

Fucking hell if we all packed in work every time we had a shitty experience on public transport the economy would collapse 😂

Pinotwoman82 · 05/12/2018 20:51

Goodness me! Is she really broken and unable to work?? I totally get this would be a very frustrating situation and if this is what happened I would be very cross and contacting them about it, but I can’t see why she is so broken about it, what about the other members of the party? The brother, the wife and the elderly MIL how are they doing?

Notacluethisxmas · 05/12/2018 20:51

Clearly this is about you.

Why would your friends family take your mother in law.

You also said & However once again they were not being reasonable and would not listen to our side.

You weren't there. You don't have a side.

Anyway whoever this is about is being entirely pathetic and they need to grow up.

Doyoumind · 05/12/2018 20:51

Yes, strange that you refer to 'my' MiL.

I don't understand why the brother or sister in law didn't swap. Why would a child behave like this?

It sounds OTT but not quite as OTT as having to take time off work to get over it. Unless your 'friend' has serious existing anxiety issues this sounds totally out of proportion.

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 20:53

I've actually never heard such an overreaction in my life. What is it that traumatised you so much?

SavoyCabbage · 05/12/2018 20:54

You have to behave yourself when you fly. Follow the countless rules. You can't just do what you want. Especially with emirates. Someone in the family should have handled the situation. I've told my two dc to do what they are told in airports. Stand in the cross. Look at me. Take off your shoes. Put your toy in this tray. There is no indulgence for being a child.

Flying with a child or a person over seventy is not an unusual situation.

EdWinchester · 05/12/2018 20:56

This is all ridiculous and hysterical.

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 20:58

Normal reaction:

Annoyance
Anger
Frustration

Abnormal reaction:

My friend has been completely and utterly broken by this whole experience. It has caused her to become ill and she is unable to work because the of the stress this whole situation caused.

This has completely ruined her holiday and she has just become a recluse and feels like a complete failure for not having managed the situation better at the time.

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 21:00

Broken, ill, unable to work? Because you were rescheduled onto another flight?
Seriously woman! Get a grip!

Hwory · 05/12/2018 21:00

The Op says £100 per person and that they ‘all’ had to get off the flight.

So it looks like it’s more than £100 the person (whoever it may be) had to pay just because the stewardess made them get off the plane to see a doctor when a child wasn’t ill.

SillyMoomin · 05/12/2018 21:01

Errr why didn’t husband or wife swap with auntie upstairs??!

And being unable to work due to the trauma- fuck me.

If your “friend” -–you-– is that much of a wet blanket they probably shouldn’t fly again anyway

Prometheus · 05/12/2018 21:01

I would be livid with the niece - crying so badly that your family is thrown off a flight is not acceptable behaviour.

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 21:02

And if the child's own mother couldn't pacify the child, what makes you think that you could have?

dippledorus · 05/12/2018 21:02

Lesson to not pander to a child and actually discipline them.

Suck it up.

PotteryLady · 05/12/2018 21:02

Definitely an over reaction - will lose their/your job next then the stress will begin.

PersonaNonGarter · 05/12/2018 21:03

This is a strange situation. It sounds as though there is a lot of drama queening going on.

Valasca · 05/12/2018 21:04

They didn’t swap because cabin crew won’t allow it until after take off. The OP already explained the cabin crew said no swapping seats until after take off.

I don’t think we have the full story here. Was the complaining passenger was a medical professional and that’s why the cabin crew deferred to his opinion?

Was she really just crying? Or was she thrashing about and parents were struggling to restrain her in her seat? If the cabin crew thought she couldn’t stay calmly seated during take off they could kick you off for that...

I think there’s a lot you’re leaving out OP

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 21:04

This surely has to be a wind up. I can't imagine anyone being broken having been told to leave an airplane.

dippledorus · 05/12/2018 21:04

That’s a time to speak severely to the child and tell them to stop with the histrionics.

Seriously. What a load of nonsense. Someone else in the party should have swapped with the aunt upstairs. Or pay to sit together at check in.

Grow up.

Thejezebel · 05/12/2018 21:06

I'm surprised they threw the entire party off too. Surely just the mother and child and maybe the Dad? Or the Dad and child?

I too think there is a lot more to this story.

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