Tell me not to do it

[Kissel]

Hi need a bit of a hand hold and some sense knocked into me!
Single parent to 4 week old DD. Split from ex before my booking in. He’s not been in touch apart from a couple of texts since. He’s not on her birth certificate and we have everything we need and a completely new life.
I am confident if me and ex had stayed together I would have been miserable.

However, this week I’ve had to text him to sort out a couple of child maintenance bits. We have both been totally formal and have exchanged less than 50 words between us. He did not ask about DD at all he has however agreed to pay for her.
Since then I have wanted to send him a picture of her. I know I have no reason to. He has made it clear he doesn’t want to be involved and deep down I know I can and will be doing this without him.

Also my whatsapp display picture is DD so he has seen her and that hasn’t prompted him to ask about her, so it’s a case of no message being the message.

I guess what I really need is someone to tell me not to send a picture and forget about trying to engage with him.

Don’t do it. He doesn’t deserve it and he doesn’t seem to want it.

Don’t send it.
Feel free to show us though, I bet she’s yummy. We’ll all coo over her more than he would.
He’s not interested. His loss by far

Sleeping beauty!

Cutie. She's gorgeous.

I knew it, utterly delicious
What a little beauty 😍
Congratulations, you can do this all by yourself and you know it.

Your dd and you will be just fine. You have got this

He doesn't deserve anything from you my love

she looks really clever. a secret smile to herself over some lovely dreams.

She’s beautiful OP. My youngest had a full head of hair like that. Gorgeous. Don’t message him. You’re wasting your time. Xx

Awwwwww so cute!!!! Her hair 😍

Don’t hurt yourself by sending it. If he wanted to comment on her he would have :(

Beautiful baby, congratulations. Don't give him a second thought, his loss

Gorgeous little girlie. So much hair!!

You will be fine. Don't message him.

Oh she is so beautiful. Congratulations. You and she will be fine.

Beautiful 😍

Stunning and he doesn't deserve her. Your going to do amazingly.

Gorgeous!

Definitely don't do it.

Congratulations! She's gooooorrrrrgggeeeeooouuusssss! Dick head ex doesn't deserve her

She is beautiful.

DO NOT DO IT.

Do it and I’ll bring my steel capped boots around and kick you up the bum!

He doesn’t want her in his life.

Look at that statement. He doesn’t want her in his life

What kind of a wank badger wouldn’t? The kind who would just let her down time & time again. It’s NOT going to turn into some ‘Happy Ever After’ it’s just going to bring mess and confusion into her life.

You need to be STRONG now for HER and do NOT bring him into her life.

Truly.

She's adorable.

If ex shows enough interest to actually ask about her, then maybe send a photo. Otherwise, stuff him.

She is beautiful!

Don't do it, show her how strong you are. X

Oh lovely! Congratulations on your lovely girl, she is splendid.

He doesn’t deserve a picture of her.

If he hasn't asked about her he does not deserve to see that little beauty!
But ..my god he is missing out , she is adorable. Keep her all to yourself !

Do not send picture, he doesn’t deserve it.

I’m also single I’m having a little girl soon, I’m 38 weeks. Your little girl is beautiful.

Thank you everyone! You have all given me strength!

she is absolutely beautiful.