I've just sent a message to my crush asking him out and now I'm panicking!

[TiredPony]

Oh fuck. I pressed send on my message, I've had too much wine and now I want to take it back!

Whatdidyousaywhatdidyousay?!

Well done OP!

And also, have you flirted a bit previously? Has he flirted back?

Ah - sod it, either way it’ll sort itself out, you never know, you might get the answer you want 😉

Well done!
Just don't send him a dick pic and you're already ahead of the game ime

Love it. Life's too short.

Well it's done now. It'll go one way or t'other.

I'm so tipsy! Please don't judge. I got divorced last year and have been terminally single since. But I met this guy a few times through friend groups and he is the only person that I've been interested in since. We were talking tonight and turns out there's a thing that is going on locally that he didn't know about so I sent him the link.
And I've just followed it up with a message saying if you're going on your own (which I think he is) then let me know and to let me know if he wants company.

Oh I love that first feeling of having a crush and being unsure about everything.

Please do let me live vicariously through you keep us updated.

That message is fine, don't panic! Friendly, gives him the option to respond (or not) and not flirty at all.

Hope it works out for you!

Ah that's fine. And if he's not receptive you still save face, as it could be construed as friendly matey stuff.
Hope he responds positively

Ugh Buzz, I'm the opposite of you, I hate the insecurity of crushes.

I hate the integrity too but you haven't made a fool of yourself with that. It's an easy out for him if it's not interested, with your dignity very much intact! Stop worry. But obviously so let us know what he says!

Integrity = insecurity

How exciting. Good luck 😁

Your text is fine, no cringe factor at all. Let us know how he responds. Life's too short for "what if's" - you seized the day! Good for you.

That's a really sensible message to send, hopefully he is single and interested but if for any reason he isn't you aren't going to be embarrassed.

Your text sounds fine. Sounds quite matey so I wouldn't worry.
Did he respond?

You have just offered him a booty call as I read it?

Perfectly reasonable and ordinary message.

No need to be embarrassed or to panic - either he responds or he doesn't.

"Booty call ? WTAF?

That’s not a booty fall offereimg. It’s a would you like to spend some time with me message. Good luck tired

Booty call??
I don't know what booty call texts you've sent or received Catching but OP doesn't read bootyish in the slightest.

A booty call?

A booty call would be do you want to come over to mine tonight. What OP sent is nothing like that!

Let us know what he says OP.

Booty call? 😂😂😂 Not in the slightest. I certainly would be having a panic attack if that’s what I had sent.
No reply as yet.

Ooh I did this with my hot AF neighbour, stuck a note through the door asking him out for a drink
5 months on were still dating

Good luck op and well done for having the balls

He said yes.