I've just sent a message to my crush asking him out and now I'm panicking!

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Oh fuck. I pressed send on my message, I've had too much wine and now I want to take it back!

Whoop!!

He didn’t want a get out clause though! Ah all the best OP, hope it all goes very well!

Is he planning on taking the following day of work....in case you want a lengthy breakfast together????

Now ask if he wants to meet up for pre drinks before the event!!!

Oh well done you! That’s fantastic news although it’s a really long time away 😂😂😂

Ooh he’s planning it all already!
Great way to ask him out.

Will you see him in the in between weeks?

Oh OP this is very exciting for an old married bore like me

Totally shameless placemark

Oh, and just to mention there's a lovely MN poster who had to be encouraged to do what you've so wisely done. Last time we heard they were married and had just had a little boy

No pressure of course

I LOVE these threads. Living vicariously through this thread.

Me too !

lovely.

Well done OP, as a stranger on the internet I'm proud of you!

This thread is making me smile so much and lifting my hopes for a future Yes, we are meeting for pre-drinks as the friend group that we met through are meeting that night. So we'll have a few drinks in us before we go off to the event. This is so outing, I'm trying not to give too much away because I have told EVERYONE in real life today
Nothing like tempting fate hey?

How exciting. You are going to be part of s bigger group at the event?

@MozzchopsThirty I remember your thread, delighted things are going well

OP I hope he replies

We’re meeting the group first then just the two of us going to the event.
Mozzchops, I remember your thread too!

We’re meeting the group first then just the two of us going to the event

A really brilliant balance ... if you go on handling your marriage relationship as well as this I can see it being a huge success

Have you thought what you're going to wear yet?

Woo hoo

Have you thought what you're going to wear yet?

Jeans and a nice top. Pretty standard for me!

I had a guy ask me out at work once. He was lovely but had to turn him down as I was in a emotionally abusive relationship at the time. That was 9 years ago and work crush guy and I have been married 6 years now

Goodluck!! Hope it all goes well.

Thanks both
Hope things go just as well for you OP

Date night was tonight. It was really good fun. We kissed. God I feel like such a teenager saying that.

Happy Days OP !

Oooh! Further details needed please OP. How thrilling!

So glad to hear it went well.

Ooh, didn't realise the thread was started two weeks ago until I saw the update - talk about instant gratification!

Glad it went well!!