My marriage is over except it's not. He has now decided that me not packing up immediately is me staying (it's not financially or physically possible for me to just take my kids and leave) and now he's taken to making threats to get me to do what he wants. I won't go into too much detail as it's very outing and he knows I'm on here but an example being deleting people's numbers from my phone who he doesn't like me being friends with - and if I don't cut contact with them he's going to kick off with them so they'll never speak to me again 😩