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Facebook is random as fuck?

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Mintyy · 24/07/2015 22:01

ianbu

am I?

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MistletoeBUTNOwine · 24/07/2015 22:02

Are you very bored ?
What are you referring to in particular?

YouTheCat · 24/07/2015 22:03

It's a total bugger when you've been scrolling down for 5 minutes to catch up and then realise the bloody, stupid arsing thing has set itself to 'top sodding stories' again.

GemmaTeller · 24/07/2015 22:05

No, its getting on my nerves at the moment.

I have to keep resetting to 'most recent'.

Someone started a conversation in a fb group I'm in and her post didn't show up in general on the fb page for two days Smile

scarlets · 24/07/2015 22:05

Bloody advertisements! They drive me crazy. Weird newsfeed too - I missed an old schoolfriend's pregnancy announcement. i know these are first world gripes though.

FarFromAnyRoad · 24/07/2015 22:07

I hate FB at the moment too. I reserve special contempt and loathing for this new thing where every single thing liked, looked at or posted on by a friend has to be shown to me as if I give a shiny shit.
I so wish there was an alternative.

Mintyy · 24/07/2015 22:17

Mistletoe - what am I referring to in particular?

Well, 1. On my news feed today I've had a notification that a friend of mine liked a mutual friend's photo from 10 days ago. I didn't "like" the original photo btw.

No 2. A friend of a friend (so very definitely NOT my friend, I have no idea who this person is) thanking everyone for her HB wishes. I have seen this because my F commented on her F's timeline.

BUT if it were the case that you could see everything on your newsfeed that a fof liked or commented on, then you would see hundreds or thousands of status per day? I only have a tiny amount of friends (70 something) but if I could see ALL that they all liked or commented on then I would be swamped surely?

So why do we see some and not all the others?

Its fucking RANDOM I tell you.

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milliemanzi · 24/07/2015 22:21

I remember when this whole seeing non-friends photos/statuses that your fiends had liked in your newsfeed started and it really freaked me out, now it's just the norm, scary how quickly I acclimatised, it's INCREDIBLY annoying though.

YouTheCat · 24/07/2015 22:21

You see some things from fofs because they have got crap security settings.

honeysucklejasmine · 24/07/2015 22:21

Anyone use the app and know how to set it to most recent? Mine seems to be mostly "crap someone liked three weeks ago". I'm on Android Lollipop, if it matters

emwithme · 24/07/2015 22:30

All I want from FB is what my friends (or those pages I've liked) have posted. In chronological order. Without any hiding of messages or adverts sponsored posts or shit like that.

Just baby pics and stealth boasts and cats, all in a row row row.

MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig · 24/07/2015 22:42

I reserve special contempt and loathing for this new thing where every single thing liked, looked at or posted on by a friend has to be shown to me as if I give a shiny shit.

Oh good god, soooo this. Hmm

velouria · 24/07/2015 22:45

Ahh is the having things people have liked show up in your news feedback new thing? Thought it was, is very annoying

cardibach · 24/07/2015 22:49

honeysuckle - click on 'more' at bottom right and there's an option on that page for most recent.

FarFromAnyRoad · 24/07/2015 22:52

It's awful isn't it Ms - I don't even know what the point is. The absolute worst thing about Facebook is the certain knowledge that they hold their users in absolute contempt. That I really hate.

Elledouble · 24/07/2015 22:57

I'd noticed I'd been getting a lot more stuff people I know have liked or conversations they're having with people I don't know. Does not make me want to use FB.

honeysucklejasmine · 24/07/2015 23:02

Cardi I'm sorry, I don't get it. I don't have any buttons at the bottom. I tried to look through the settings menu and didn't see anything more there either.

Just going to check it doesn't need updating. Maybe it'll pop up. Smile

Samcro · 24/07/2015 23:04

did you know
mn has a fb topic?

MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig · 24/07/2015 23:04

You spend more time flicking past the random crap liked by your friends than you do reading the stuff you're actually interested in.

honeysucklejasmine · 24/07/2015 23:05

Nope, all up to date. Sad

Thank you for your help though. Smile

Gymbob · 24/07/2015 23:10

I don't get when someone posts their grandma has died and people 'like' it. I hate Facebook.

I'm just a silhouette on it, but still people find me and send friend requests. I accept out of politeness, but have never posted anything. I don't want anyone knowing my business.

EthelDurant123 · 24/07/2015 23:21

It's fudging terrible and no longer cool. The kids have moved to pastures new. I now use it for the messaging with colleagues (Can you swap a shift?) or to keep in touch with the more mature members of the family (aunts, uncles, older cousins my mother etc). Sometimes if an aunt hasn't posted for a while she is quietly dropped from my friends list Sad. The ads get on my tits, the constant scrolling for something interesting to read does my head in, and all those fudging game requests Angry. It's a necessary evil.

EthelDurant123 · 24/07/2015 23:24

I asked Mum to use Twitter. I don't understand Twitter she replies.

Exactly.

BathtimeFunkster · 24/07/2015 23:27

It's anything but random.

But the latest feed algorithm is very clunky.

Kitsandkids · 24/07/2015 23:28

What annoys me is when I look through the most recent posts on my news feed and there's ones telling me about stuff going on that has already happened. So there's a post, for example, telling me about a fun day in the local park , which my kids would have loved, and FB says it was posted 12 hours ago, but it's only just shown up on my feed and so we missed it! What's that all about?!

irie · 24/07/2015 23:31

I'm not getting notifications when people reply to my comments or tag me in comments or comment on my stuff but I am getting other useless notifications, very annoying