But this thread is largely about why women feel the need to look a certain way and the often unsettling or alarming results of that. I don't think there's a lot of Renee-bashing, there's a lot of wondering how it is that she looks so different, discussion of what might have made her do it, and discussion of cosmetic surgery in general and why people (not just women) do it. Are you saying we're not allowed to discuss that?
*Woman does not get plastic surgery "SHE'S OLD!!!"
Woman gets plastic surgery "SHE'S A WAXWORK!!!"*
In some DM sectors, yes, but I think this is also a massive oversimplification that underestimates people's intelligence. There are actually plenty of older female public figures who do not look obviously or unnaturally injected/botoxed, who also do not get slagged off for looking old. Charlotte Rampling is one, Helen Mirren, the Queen, Mia Farrow, etc etc. (I'm not saying they've had nothing done as you can't tell, but they don't have that weird non-human look) Lauren Bacall went on into old age looking good in a clearly older, wrinkled way. All of these women are lauded for their achievements and their looks. I think that happens when someone knows they have talent and doesn't succumb to fears of ageing.
It's like saying young female pop stars have to look a certain way, be skinny and strip off. In general, there are many who fall into that samey category, but actually, no, you can be massively successful looking like Adele (for example) and not stripping off at all, if you have the talent and the guts to be who you are.