What if they don't gush but say things that you or I would say about a marriage. "Work at it, ups and downs, have arguments etc"
Would you believe them or are they just trying to be "normal" to relate to us ordinary folks?
I know I don't make sense but I hope you get where I am coming from.
Weddings -- people usually gush about their spouses so I don't get too excited about it. Its their "BIG DAY." Its all the other times that grosses me out.