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Rich Housewife - AMA

983 replies

Iho · 06/03/2026 15:39

Ask me anything.

OP posts:
EasternStandard · 06/03/2026 17:36

Iho · 06/03/2026 17:33

Because I don't have to and never enjoyed the corporate world when I was a part of it. Quitting was one of the best days of my life.

Op what was your corporate job?

Ik you’re getting loads of flack but this interests me.

mellicauli · 06/03/2026 17:36

Do you and your husband have a plan to entrench your wealth so that is intergenerational? Or are you happy for your grandchildren and their grandchildren to make their own way? If you do have a plan, what is it?

MissApplejack · 06/03/2026 17:36

answersonly · 06/03/2026 16:04

I'd suggest marrying better next time so you can afford something comparable in zone 1 or 2 and Rock instead of IOW. x

Rock ? Of Gibraltar?

LondonPapa · 06/03/2026 17:37

BestBefore2000 · 06/03/2026 17:30

What is the saying that wealth whispers?

Money talks, wealth whispers… you typically won't hear extremely wealthy people talking about how rich they are, or how many assets they have, if they do… they probably have a fear of not being seen as significant.

Bang on. OP isn’t rich, and certainly has no class. A £2m house and second home (mortgaged) on IoW does not pass muster.

Iho · 06/03/2026 17:37

SleeplessInWherever · 06/03/2026 16:35

@Iho

Do you think they view working women as positively?

It’s possible, likely in fact, that they’ll meet future partners who want to work. I’d be interested in if they’d be accepting of that, particularly as they’re boys so would fall into your husband’s role here?

Edited

Absolutely they view working women positively. They have come from working class families on both sides.

I think the boys would be happy with whatever choice their future wives decide upon. I think it's nice that these women will have the option of being a SAHM if they wish to as so many women don't have the choice.

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goz · 06/03/2026 17:37

lol at all the people trying to claim they would stick their kids in childcare and slave away at a 40k job to be ‘fulfilled’ if their DH earned 15 times their salary and they had substantial joint assets.

Iho · 06/03/2026 17:38

overthinker97 · 06/03/2026 16:35

What does your DH do for a living?

Property developer.

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BestBefore2000 · 06/03/2026 17:39

@goz I did just that. Thank God I did because when I left him I needed my career.

FreshInks · 06/03/2026 17:40

Iho · 06/03/2026 17:38

Property developer.

How does he mostly work from home then?

mixedcereal · 06/03/2026 17:41

Breadcat24 · 06/03/2026 17:24

not bitter not jealous- just could not define my worth in this way.
I went back to a do a job after retirement as I wanted to make a contribution
I enjoyed rising to a good level in my career and helping to mentor others
It is natural to talk about your outside interactions in a couple, cannot think what I would say if it was instead of "got a Belgian trade mission coming in next week" it was "I cleaned out that cupboard today"

Not having a job doesn’t make you void of conversation or interests and things to talk about

answersonly · 06/03/2026 17:41

Breadcat24 · 06/03/2026 17:29

@LuckyAmy1986 Plenty of stuff to talk about apart from work -we have an allotment, go to the theatre, read a lot, have animals. I just think you need some outside input.
My life is not defined by my career but working in the field I do I make a societal contribution.

Ah, so you talk to your husband about your own societal contribution a lot? I'd assume that, since you say that's what defines you, and the only thing you can imagine someone who doesn't work talking about is cleaning out their cupboards.

If you can't get someone else to talk interestingly, regardless of their position in life, it makes me suspect you're a bit of a bore yourself. Everyone's got something interesting to say, if you're listening.

Iho · 06/03/2026 17:41

keepwakingup · 06/03/2026 16:37

@Iho do you think your DH would earn similar today if started out now because it’s so much harder to build wealth via property now?

Perhaps. Though with the current government stance of build build build it may be swinging back the other way. The red tape is still ridiculous though.

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mixedcereal · 06/03/2026 17:41

Such jealous bitter responses on this thread 😆 how sad!

whymadam · 06/03/2026 17:42

Iho · 06/03/2026 15:45

£2M mortgage free home.
Water front holiday home on the IOW.
2 Mercedes.
DH earns £600k pa.

Sounds wonderful apart from IOW. Can't have it all, I guess.

Aluna · 06/03/2026 17:44

Iho · 06/03/2026 16:49

Both DH and I grew up working class.

Ah right that’s why you think you’re rich. £2 million is a London semi.

DN earns well but I’d say you’re comfortably off not rich.

tachetastic · 06/03/2026 17:44

Iho · 06/03/2026 15:39

Ask me anything.

Do you not have anything better to do than set up a thread designed wholly for people to talk about you, and then sit by your phone/laptop waiting for another chance to talk about you?

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 06/03/2026 17:44

BillieWiper · 06/03/2026 15:52

Where I live a 2 million mortgage free home is just a normal three bedroom house. It wouldn't make you seem especially rich.

To me rich is hundreds of millions. Not just a few. But that's just my opinion.

Do you feel like you'd like to work or volunteer just to do something to occupy your time?

I agree. My PIL's four bedroom house is £900k in Herts, but most Home Counties detached houses are average of around that price in naice parts of Bucks and Herts ie Amersham/the Chalfonts/Croxley etc. It doesn't mean people there are rich. Just very comfortable or middle class.

AnAppleAWeek · 06/03/2026 17:44

What’s your favourite pasta shape?

DeanStockwell · 06/03/2026 17:44

dancingredshoes · 06/03/2026 15:48

If you’re that rich and have such a fabulous life WTF is missing in your life that you felt the need to start this thread on Mumsnet?

Because she posted on AMA so people can ask about the lifestyle hobbies dcs work or whatever.

@Iho you are getting a unreasonably hard time here , mn must not of had its afternoon nap !

Do you still think you are fairly grounded when it comes to buying things or have you bought daft stuff like gold leaf toilet roll and have diamonds on tbe soles of your shoes ( thank you Paul Simon)

user1476613140 · 06/03/2026 17:46

Iho · 06/03/2026 15:45

£2M mortgage free home.
Water front holiday home on the IOW.
2 Mercedes.
DH earns £600k pa.

£600k - is that all?!

novalia89 · 06/03/2026 17:46

Have you got separate finances? what would happen if you split? did you sign a prenup?

Tablesandchairs23 · 06/03/2026 17:46

Showing off your wealth or what.

goz · 06/03/2026 17:46

Aluna · 06/03/2026 17:44

Ah right that’s why you think you’re rich. £2 million is a London semi.

DN earns well but I’d say you’re comfortably off not rich.

Did that make you feel better?

Iho · 06/03/2026 17:47

Delatron · 06/03/2026 16:42

Do you have equal access to money? Is your DH generous? Does he resent you being at home or is he supportive and did he value you being around for the kids?

Yes I have equal access, I would never have quit work if I thought he would be financially abusive in any way and I'd have got a job pronto if he had proven to be.

I've asked him this question before and he said he loves me being home. We get to spend a lot of time together, I'm not stressed out from work, I can keep the house lovely and cook the type of meals there wouldn't be time to cook if I were working.

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Tablesandchairs23 · 06/03/2026 17:47

Im working class. AMA.