Ah, so you talk to your husband about your own societal contribution a lot? I'd assume that, since you say that's what defines you, and the only thing you can imagine someone who doesn't work talking about is cleaning out their cupboards.
If you can't get someone else to talk interestingly, regardless of their position in life, it makes me suspect you're a bit of a bore yourself. Everyone's got something interesting to say, if you're listening.