Goodness, seems the ops experience is very different to most. I was followed and by that I mean trailed, he literally followed me everywhere I went, spat in my, broke my bedroom
window as he sat outside my bedroom all night on an off for months. He was aggressive towards me, my family, my friends, any dates I had. He applied to the same college as me (an hr away) purely so he could see me. I know this because he told me. Thankfully he didn’t get in as I spoke to staff after having police reports, solicitor advice etc.
He locked in his flat several times , for hours , once I jumped out of a first floor window to get out.
I could go on and on. He done this because I broke up with him. In the end I moved house and managed to shake him off then he died of a drug overdose a year or so later.
worst 6-8 months of my life, he absolutely terrorised me.