I’m an escort, AMA.

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hi,

been an escort since February now and doing rather well. I have lots of strange stories and experiences so think I’m able to answer some questions lol!

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@Tweetrepeat how is he a high earner when you claimed up thread he’s no longer the high earner?
If he was a high earner why would you feel the need to relieve his burden by selling your body to men for £150? I’ve just spent that on food for a few days in sainsburys. Do you really not feel ashamed at all?

Have you ever had a female client or being asked to do a threesome?

@Templanza you definitely can’t. No regular job is so degrading or as potentially physically damaging.

I'm here to ask why you are here, pet. What is it you're hoping to achieve from this?

Is this all about bolstering your self esteem? Are you looking for people to validate your life choices?

I'm sorry for the difficult experiences you've been through. I suggest counselling and therapy is going to help you more than posting on anonymous internet forums. It's not easy, it can be hard going, but ultimately it will probably be more likely to bring you happiness and peace.

Be well, be safe.

What are the men like? I guess most of us assume they are all ugly, weird, creepy, smelly, etc. How would you break them down? I mean, if you had to divide them into percentages: what percentage are charming/good-looking etc, what percentage just ordinary/average and what percentage ugly/weird/ repellent?

Also, what would you say is the main reason they visit you? Is it because they can't get sex, or because they don't want the hassle of relationships?

Oh the santimony

Do you ever orgasm?
Have you ever had negative feedback?
Do men not mind you not having a 'perfect' body?

'We don’t have a sex life (haven’t for 2 years) due to health reasons with Dh. He is 10000% supportive because I have taken a huge weight off his shoulders for being the main earner and paying for everything and 3 children'

As a pp said, which is it?

Op. Stop trying to normalise and glamorous sex work. It is a bit weird tbh.

I think you’ve just jumped the shark love.

So many things are degrading. I do not understand how it is so difficult to understand other peoples choices.

I know a person who is into bondage, really gross stuff, because she was abused and has worked out that she can't let go of pain to feel "normal" at tines. She does it in a very safe environment and allows her to not self harm and have healthier relationships in her day to day life.

Human psyche is amazingly complex.

I've never had a customer ask if the can masturbate while I shit myself so you make a fair point there.

Do you ever think about the women who are trafficked into prostitution and how by pushing the happy hooker narrative you might be helping to fuel the demand for those women who don’t have a choice? You only have to have a quick look on punternet to see most men who use prostitutes don’t give a shit about the women they’re using

What is your rating on those vile sites like punting UK etc?

Do you genuinely not mind being discussed as merely an oriface?

I've never had a customer ask if the can masturbate while I shit myself so you make a fair point there.'

Your husband is living off immoral earnings - nice .

I don't care if you find it empowering or you do it for your own fun - you are selling a service .

But , IMO , an Escort is someone who accompanies a client for dinner etc , The Girlfriend Experience .( with/without sex)

You are not going anywhere with them , so Prostitute / Sex Worker / Whore .
Call it what it is .

How can you go through with having sex with unattractive men ? Not trying to be rude but for me my body is sacred, I just can’t ever imagine renting it by the hour!

I'm a former trafficked sex worker, forced into it by an abusive ex.

I agree with this completely, although when I was active it was the line I span myself in attempts to convince myself and others that its not all bad and the money was brilliant etc.

Now I'm well out of it I look back with such sadness.

Please look after your mental health OP. No amount of money is worth the toll sex work takes on your soul in the long run.

I can think of worse things!

how much do you tip the housekeepers who have to come in and clean up after you?

Clearly most posters feel very threatened by the OP.
Not a job I would do but no point in denying it is going on everywhere, all the time.

IMO Tinder, much of OLD etc is just (married) men trying to get it for free,

Interesting AMA OP, thank you. You sound like you approach it all as safely as possible.

It makes me very sad that your husband is OK with you doing this. If I did it and my husband didn't mind I would think that he would have a very low opinion of me.

'Clearly most posters feel very threatened by the OP.'

I dont feel threatened just sounds like a recruitment drive and I really doubt sex work is anything like she has portayed.

I'm still waiting for clarification on the whether the op's dh is a high earner as she said, or a low earner/non earner and very relieved she's earning 3k a month as she also said.

Sounds like OP's DH is getting a free ride in a different sense ...

‘will do almost anything that men want’

Well, that’s a recipe for disaster. One of the first rule of sex work is to establish your boundaries and refuse/kick out anyone who tries to push them. You sound incredibly naive and think you might be rather underestimating what some men do try and the lengths they will go to get it.

One thing I would advise is if you are seriously considering sex work, go somewhere and look at every single man who walks past and ask yourself if you could have sex with each and every one of them. And I mean all of them, particularly the unattractive ones as not every client is attractive and in good shape. Also, research, go and read SAAFE as some of the threads are eye-opening.

OP, you have been very lucky so far. Good luck for the future and be sure to save as much as you can because once your newbie shine wears off, things will drop off.