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I’m having the best sex of my life in my 50s, AMA

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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 20:32

I’ve name changed as this is so personal but I’ve been here years and I’m not a troll.

There are a lot of posts about it all being over post menopause but it’s not for me. AMA!

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Toottooot · 30/01/2022 20:33

With the same or different men?

LeifSan · 30/01/2022 20:33

Who are you having this sex with? And how is it better than in previous years?

Muckymaisonette · 30/01/2022 20:34

Which end of the 50s are you? Born in the 1960s or 1970s?

Scottishflower65 · 30/01/2022 20:34

Younger or new lover (s)? Or same old but you have taught them well?

Muckymaisonette · 30/01/2022 20:34

Do you take HRT?

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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 20:35

@Toottooot

With the same or different men?
With the same man, we’ve been together for 25 years
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CassieJumped · 30/01/2022 20:35

@Muckymaisonette

Do you take HRT?
Beat me too it! But also testosterone
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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 20:37

@LeifSan

Who are you having this sex with? And how is it better than in previous years?
It is better because I orgasm very easily and through penetrative sex. This is fairly new as an experience to me, the past 2/3 years. It feels as if something physically changed.
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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 20:37

@Muckymaisonette

Which end of the 50s are you? Born in the 1960s or 1970s?
60s
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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 20:37

@Scottishflower65

Younger or new lover (s)? Or same old but you have taught them well?
Husband of 25 years
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Idolovetrees · 30/01/2022 20:38

Jealous!

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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 20:38

@Muckymaisonette

Do you take HRT?
Oestrogen and progesterone but no testosterone
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Mum2jenny · 30/01/2022 20:38

It’s not working for me, but I’m glad at least one person is having fun!!

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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 20:39

@Scottishflower65

Younger or new lover (s)? Or same old but you have taught them well?
I definitely didn’t need to teach him! It has always been great between us but has significantly improved in the past few years.
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teaandchocolate1 · 30/01/2022 20:40

How do you orgasm through penetrative sex? 34 here, not menopausal and would love to experience that 😂

blyn72 · 30/01/2022 20:41

Good for you! It does get better as you grow older, you're at your best now, long may it last.

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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 20:42

@teaandchocolate1

How do you orgasm through penetrative sex? 34 here, not menopausal and would love to experience that 😂
It was hugely surprising to us both. I’ve only ever managed orgasm before with clitoral stimulation. I do wonder if there is a physical explanation.
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Imissmoominmama · 30/01/2022 20:43

Have you started yoga?

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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 20:44

@Imissmoominmama

Have you started yoga?
No! I used to do pilates but haven’t for about 5 years.
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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 20:45

@blyn72

Good for you! It does get better as you grow older, you're at your best now, long may it last.
Thank you 😊
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Handsdirty · 30/01/2022 20:51

Mind if I ask exactly which HRT product it is? And also whether the clitoral element is still necessary as a part of it all or whether you now suddenly find it's not needed at all?

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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 20:57

@Handsdirty

Mind if I ask exactly which HRT product it is? And also whether the clitoral element is still necessary as a part of it all or whether you now suddenly find it's not needed at all?
It’s Elleste solo patches and I’m not sure what the progesterone are

There seem to be 2 types of orgasms. 1. the normal ones, which are as a result of direct clitoral stimulation and 2. The ones I didn’t believe existed until a while ago, which are I think as a result of some other stimulation, it might be my G spot or maybe indirect clitoral stimulation but deeper down if that makes sense? Not direct pressure on the clitoris anyway.

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NameChangesforNoman · 30/01/2022 20:59

Happened to me following birth of my second. Who knows what changed but long may it last! Grin

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Middleagedwombat · 30/01/2022 21:01

@NameChangesforNoman

Happened to me following birth of my second. Who knows what changed but long may it last! Grin
I’m sort of glad it’s not just me, it’s not the kind of thing you discuss with pals! It feels like a physical change in my body.
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FAQs · 30/01/2022 21:04

What does your husband think of this Grin