I’m having the best sex of my life in my 50s, AMA

[Middleagedwombat]

I’ve name changed as this is so personal but I’ve been here years and I’m not a troll.

There are a lot of posts about it all being over post menopause but it’s not for me. AMA!

I’m also on my 50’s and still able to have great sex, when DH can manage it (that’s another story!)

I’ve always climaxed through penetrative sex though so no change there for me. No HRT but I do need a little help with lubrication now. I actually wish I had started using this a long time ago.

Mine too. Something definitely changed. Thought it was a fluke at first but then realised I could sort of work out how to manoeuvre 😀

I wonder if that's caused by physical changes/possible thinning of your vaginal walls when you go through menopause so that more nerve endings are exposed?

Anyway, it sounds bloody marvellous 😀

@FAQs

What does your husband think of this

He’s a very happy man!

Just saying me too, OP. Not the non-clitoral orgasms bit, but fantastic sex. For me, it's not worrying about becoming pregnant that is the best bit - (very long term) DP and I can just have lots of sex without thinking about/faffing around with contraception at all. I'm on HRT, so don't know if that makes a difference.

@Grasping

I’m also on my 50’s and still able to have great sex, when DH can manage it (that’s another story!)

I’ve always climaxed through penetrative sex though so no change there for me. No HRT but I do need a little help with lubrication now. I actually wish I had started using this a long time ago.

I’m pleased it’s not just me 🙂

@teaandchocolate1

I wonder if that's caused by physical changes/possible thinning of your vaginal walls when you go through menopause so that more nerve endings are exposed?

Anyway, it sounds bloody marvellous 😀

That sounds plausible. I’ve never heard of it before!

@Vulpius

Just saying me too, OP. Not the non-clitoral orgasms bit, but fantastic sex. For me, it's not worrying about becoming pregnant that is the best bit - (very long term) DP and I can just have lots of sex without thinking about/faffing around with contraception at all. I'm on HRT, so don't know if that makes a difference.

🙂 we have only just stopped using contraception

It's often down to the thinning of the vaginal walls and a mild bladder prolapse bringing the G spot into a position that creates more friction.

Do you find you have more body confidence as you've gotten older?

@HashtagSexy

It's often down to the thinning of the vaginal walls and a mild bladder prolapse bringing the G spot into a position that creates more friction.

Do you find you have more body confidence as you've gotten older?

Urgh, oh no!

I’ve never been body confident but I’ve been with dh a long time and he loves me so I’m body confident with him.