3 children under 10. 3 different dads. AMA

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Incase it changes any stereotypes or makes anybody feel better in the same situation,

I'm a lovely person, good natured and kind, I'm educated and I work full time.

I have 3 (under 10) by 3 different partners. AMA

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Were all 3 planned? How long were you with each of the dads before falling pregnant?

Are you still with the youngest's dad? Do you want any more children? Would you rule out a 4th by a 4th dad?

Have you ever been married?

Me too! Although mine range from 9-21.

I remember being worried about having 3 by 3 and talking to my midwife about it. She said "Don't you go worrying about that, you live in XXXXXX now, there's women here with 6 by 6!!!"

How do you organise everything e.g access, child maintenance for each child?

Are you embarrassed?

Are you Stacey Solomon? 😂

Jokes aside, are you ever judged openly for this? How do mothers at the schools gates treat you?

I have no judgement, personally. My sister and I have different dads and my mum decided against having a 3rd child as they’d have to have yet another dad. I would have preferred another sibling!

Do you often get referred to as 3 by 3? I genuinely find it very hurtful.. A friend of a friend has 3 children by 3 different fathers and there's no reason other than a silly stereotype to think she's anything less of a decent person than anyone else.

Do you feel people judge you?

How old were you when your had them?

Do you work?

How old were you when you had your first?

What is your relationship like now with each of their fathers?

Would you change anything?

How do you manage contact with the three different Dads?
Do the children act as though they are half siblings?

How much do you earn ballpark?

This always baffles me a bit because having a kid with someone is a big thing and lots of people can’t make that decision with one person, let alone three!

But I don’t know what my question is. I suppose it’s...did you really feel like having a child with each of those people, over a relatively short period of time? And if so, why?

Are the 3 dads good dads? Do they financially support their child?

How do you balance their dads treating them differently? Or doesn't that happen?
My friend has 3 by 3 and is always complaining that one of them gets foreign holidays and expensive gifts and the other 2 don't.

Where any of the dads the one that got away?
Which is the most loving dad?
Does any one of them spend more at xmas?
Any future with any dad?
Which Dad best looking?!

I assume child 1 had a relationship with child 2s dad. And then both child 1 and 2 with child 3s......do they still have contact with their siblings dad? Do they want to the child and the siblings dad? Of course I could be assuming wrongly and they didn't have a relationship with your partner at the time.

@nimbuscloud

Are the 3 dads good dads? Do they financially support their child?

What do you think?

Do your DC get jealous or compare notes on their parenting from different dads? If not, I think this is quite a good option for women!

Christmas arrangements must be a nightmare. How do you sort stuff like that?

Do you think you need to learn to be more responsible?

Are you going to answer any of these questions?

Ever been marri3d?