Sorry, had an internet dropout!
It was a fraud related offence. Yes I did it, I planned it meticulously, executed it perfectly. Although there were mitigating circumstances that the bench wouldn't consider. I was sent for pre-sentencing and spent 10 hours with a probation expert who went all through the crime, my reasons, what I was expecting.
Back in court, it was again adjourned for another report regarding sentencing, with all options including prison to be considered. Upon sentencing I was told I had come very close to prison and was hit with a massive fine and 240 hours community service.
Yet, over 20 years on, I have no regrets about what I did, and I would do exactly the same again.
I haven't re-offended, no, and my children haven't been affected.
Regarding life. Try getting a bank account, a credit card, a loan with a fraud offence. Declined for jobs because despite being an "outstanding candidate", the moment the criminal record check came back offers were withdrawn, one for a job with a £150,000 salary.