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[missescort]

Go ahead- for reference I worked in nz

What do you think about while you're on the job? Shopping list? What's on the telly tonight?

Any nasty clients?
Do they ever ask for a refund ? (I've read Tumblir Invisible Man

I started a few months before the end of high school so used to study, and then once there was nothing to study for it was music/tv and food 😂😂 only ever had one person ask for a refund, he'd booked an hour but 'finished' almost as soon as he was touched. Nasty clients yea you do get a few of those but most places I worked had good management that stepped in. I left Because I was pregnant and then it just didn't really fit with life

How did you get in to it?

Did you work in a brothel or advertise online etc?

Did you enjoy the sex?

What was it like sleeping with clients you found extremely unattractive?

Did you have regulars?

Did many of your clients have wives/girlfriends etc?

Does it not hurt?

I worked beside the brothel and then ended up agreeing to do one shift at the brothel, which turned into 5-7 nights a week. Only worked in brothels I didn't mind sex wouldn't say I loved it but was good money! 99% of people you met you could find SOMETHING you liked about, so just focused on that and imagine they're someone else. I had 5-10 regulars I'd imagine most were married but made a point not to look or ask

It can but only on super busy nights and lube helps

Were you pregnant by one of the punters?

Ever enjoy the sex to the point of orgasm?

Did you enjoy it?

Were you forced into it?

Why not another more :"regular" job...why prostitution?

How/Why did you turn to prostitution?

Anyone you refuse to sleep with?

How did you get out?

What would be helpful to those trying to exit the industry now?

What was your previous job?
You agreed to do 1 night shift at the brothel- who asked you, and why?

Did you have a pimp? Were you hassled by any pimps wanting you to work for them?

How is the law in NZ does it offer any protection to the women?

What could be improved to further protect the women?

Is there anything you wouldn't do, service wise?

@HollowTalk nope I was seeing someone at the time and a dna test confirmed he was the father.

@Lostalldirection yes many times

@Whisky2014 on the whole yes I did enjoy it. No force, I worked in the takeaway next door and kept joking with them I'd have to a shift. One night they were short so one of them messaged and asked if I would actually consider going in.. I stuck with it because it was easy and good money plus there wasn't any commitment- didn't want to go to work? Then don't go.

At the beginning I would be weird about it but after a few months I never really refused.

To get out- MAKE SURE YOU HAVE SAVINGS!! that's the biggest reason I've seen people go back Is lack of money.

Do you know how things worked out for other women you worked with? Good or bad?

Did you pay tax on your earnings?

If so, what were your allowable expenses?

Ever meet women who were forced in to it?

How did you start?

The law in nz is actually pretty good tbh there have been prosecutions under it. I'd like to see an end to shift fees and fines completely, however I also understand the argument for. Only think I wouldn't do Is anal although some stuff like kissing was extra and wouldn't agree all the time