I'm an ex prostitute ask me anything

[missescort]

Go ahead- for reference I worked in nz

@Lostalldirection yup a couple of times, they gave good tips as well!

So similar to Amsterdam then, women can earn a fair amount when the workers are legal.

Thank you,

Did you enjoy finding out what your clients various fetishes and fantasies were? Did a client ever come to you and say "I'd like to act out a roleplay, but it's so bizarre I came to you instead of asking my wife" or anything along those lines?

• Why is kissing an extra and something one might not do? Isn't kissing someone easier than having your genitals penetrated?

• Do you find it difficult to relax and enjoy sex now afterwards, since you spent all the time pleasuring clients (and not getting anything back yourself)?

• How was quitting? Could you easily find another career?

• Isn't it difficult to protect yourself against violent men?

I would imagine that penetrative sex with a condom is safer than kissing.

I enjoyed finding out about them, didn't always overly enjoy participating though 😂 yea we had a few like that, most liked ddlg or humiliation (to themselves)

What if the client had gone over the time he had paid for and still hadn't cum and insisted on finishing before he left?

Shockers DUH of course, it's just so strongly connected to having sex in general for me so I forgot about the risk.

Because to me kissing makes it more intimate. A lot of clients I had actually enjoyed pleasuring as well as being pleasured. I took 3 years out to have baby's and am now very successful in a different career path. Security were I worked was very good so wasn't difficult. If a guy went over his time and wouldn't pay for an extension then security would throw them out.. some girls deliberately held of on getting them off to try and get an extension but I was never to bothered about that

And yes there's a lot of risks with kissing as well

Did you work on K Road?

Because to me kissing makes it more intimate

What is wrong with that though? Isn't touching someone's genitals/penitration etc already as intimate as it gets?

I'm really curious as how the security worked, btw? Guessing you have to be alone with the client.

Several times I didn't tend to work in Auckland though- but I had a good relationship with the chows so sometimes worked in Auckland for them.

There's intercoms in every room just hit a button and they'll come, or you can just walk out and get them

How will you feel if your DD wants to work in the industry?

Do you think it does lasting emotional damage?

When you had finished your first shift and went home to bed. What was you thinking?

Chows? lol Have they taken over the Road?

I wouldn't be thrilled but I also wouldn't go nuts- Thankfully I only have two boys though 😂

Tbh all I was thinking about was food 😂

Nope but they opened a second splash club on K road... they're the most famous brothels owners in nz

@TheQueef Amsterdam pays really poorly; these days at least. Did it use to pay well?

Did you ever get asked and agree to do several men at once? A group thing.

And did you ever or were you tempted to have sex without a condom for more money?

No group things with all guys but several groups that wanted sever girls as well... once, he was an ex who I knew really well (and should of refused the job as a whole) otherwise hard no, it's to risky

Anchor I know a lass who started in Amsterdam a few years ago, worked her way up to a 'good' window but then became addicted to drugs.
The drugs bit hard and she now works in a sauna in the UK.
Based on her experience she was well looked after in Amsterdam and well paid.
She compares her work here to a zoo.
Only anecdotal I know. I wonder why we don't legalise in the UK, hence my interest.

Miss Based on NZ do you think the stigma of sex work follows you through life or are people less judgmental where it's regulated?

I'm a prostitute in NZ too, I'm wondering what your motivation is for starting this thread? It seems to be to promote brothel owners - you said although you'd wish there werent fines or shift fees you do understand the argument for them. What argument? What is good about them at all?