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Lindsay Clancy case: was it evil, or severe mental illness?

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KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 16:50

Lindsay Clancy, what do we all think? Pure evil or mentally ill?

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Clarenewme · Yesterday 18:17

Mazouzasou · Yesterday 09:52

Where was she supposed to go? She tried to get help. Multiple times. Family was aware of how she was feeling. I don't think a drive up the road to stay at family's house would have fixed them

She had warning signs. If I had thoughts of harming my daughter I’d stay as far away as possible. I wouldn’t need someone else to tell me that. Where could she go? Hmmm literally anywhere away from her children until her condition was stable. Even if that takes a year or so.

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:21

StraightTalkingTina · Yesterday 18:16

Actually the issue is not whether she was psychotic, it’s whether she was too unwell to appreciate the criminality or wrongfulness of her conduct, OR to conform her conduct to the requirements of the law.

it is convenient that you exclude ‘killing your children’ on the list of acceptable behaviour or evidence of a mentally unwell woman achieving 1 or 2 above, when it is that action that precisely determines just how unwell she was. That and her own suicide attempt of course.

reminding that she did report thoughts of self harm and causing harm to the children, which everyone brushed off. They didn’t believe she was capable of anything so bad. Because they didn’t understand her condition.

I think, too, that she perhaps wasn’t taken seriously because 1. She was a woman, and 2. She was white, middle-class, attractive and educated. Society doesn’t expect a mother like that to kill her children. But if a man expressed thoughts of wanting to kill himself and harm his kids and had checked himself into a psyche ward a couple of weeks prior, I wonder if anyone would think he should be left alone with the kids? I think if she was male people would be thinking how the hell did he get to stay at home with the kids and not be receiving 24/7 care. I don’t think any mother on here would want their male partner around their children if they knew what the doctors and family members knew about LC.

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BruachAbhann · Yesterday 18:24

StraightTalkingTina · Yesterday 18:16

Actually the issue is not whether she was psychotic, it’s whether she was too unwell to appreciate the criminality or wrongfulness of her conduct, OR to conform her conduct to the requirements of the law.

it is convenient that you exclude ‘killing your children’ on the list of acceptable behaviour or evidence of a mentally unwell woman achieving 1 or 2 above, when it is that action that precisely determines just how unwell she was. That and her own suicide attempt of course.

reminding that she did report thoughts of self harm and causing harm to the children, which everyone brushed off. They didn’t believe she was capable of anything so bad. Because they didn’t understand her condition.

She should still be criminally responsible for the crime of killing her kids. If we are to excuse murder because someone might not have known it was wrong given their state of mind, couldn't everyone claim they were psychotic and literally get away with murder?

Disappointed100 · Yesterday 18:26

Clarenewme · Yesterday 18:17

She had warning signs. If I had thoughts of harming my daughter I’d stay as far away as possible. I wouldn’t need someone else to tell me that. Where could she go? Hmmm literally anywhere away from her children until her condition was stable. Even if that takes a year or so.

No. The way your rational mind is right now, you think you would leave.

If you were suffering immensely, AND you were being told by professionals that this medication would help, AND you believed your kids would suffer if you weren't there, then you have no idea what you'd do.

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:26

BruachAbhann · Yesterday 18:24

She should still be criminally responsible for the crime of killing her kids. If we are to excuse murder because someone might not have known it was wrong given their state of mind, couldn't everyone claim they were psychotic and literally get away with murder?

But according to the law, yes, it isn’t murder if their judgement is greatly impaired due to a mental health condition. It’s not excusing it, it’s still a crime but it’s not murder.

And plenty of people try to claim insanity, very few people have the mountain of evidence that LC has.

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MissMoneyFairy · Yesterday 18:27

Maybe she wasn't taken seriously if she denied suicidal thoughts, changed doctors, didn't take meds, told everyone she was feeling better. I don't think she told any health workers she had thoughts on harming her children according to the prosecution final closing argument.

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:30

MissMoneyFairy · Yesterday 18:27

Maybe she wasn't taken seriously if she denied suicidal thoughts, changed doctors, didn't take meds, told everyone she was feeling better. I don't think she told any health workers she had thoughts on harming her children according to the prosecution final closing argument.

Her husband testified that she told him that she had thoughts of harming the children. Let that sink in. Imagine if a man told his wife that he had thoughts of harming their children and she left him alone with the kids, what do you think society would think of the woman? They would think she’s irresponsible for leaving the kids alone with a man who, weeks prior was in a psyche ward, and had told her he wanted to kill himself and harm the children.

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BingoJingo · Yesterday 18:31

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:21

I think, too, that she perhaps wasn’t taken seriously because 1. She was a woman, and 2. She was white, middle-class, attractive and educated. Society doesn’t expect a mother like that to kill her children. But if a man expressed thoughts of wanting to kill himself and harm his kids and had checked himself into a psyche ward a couple of weeks prior, I wonder if anyone would think he should be left alone with the kids? I think if she was male people would be thinking how the hell did he get to stay at home with the kids and not be receiving 24/7 care. I don’t think any mother on here would want their male partner around their children if they knew what the doctors and family members knew about LC.

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Are you trying to blame Patrick for going out on an errand and leaving her alone with the children for 40 minutes? I really hope not as he testified that he was never told that he could not leave her alone with the children because she was a) not diagnosed by any of the psychiatrists she saw as having post partum psychosis and b) was not deemed to be a danger to them.

It sounds like you are trying to frame LC as the victim of her wealthy, white and middle class status... She did not take her medication as prescribed, she was never diagnosed with PPP, she never heard a voice until the convenient time frame when Patrick was out of the house, the voice did not tell her what to do, what method to use to kill the children, the order of death, the means of death. None, nada. She held onto those exercise bands until she took the life out of her children. The last thing those sweet children saw was their own mother strangling them. It is pure horror.

On the anniversaries of their deaths and their birthdays she was observed in Tewkesbury as being absolutely fine and dandy. Six months after my brother died to the day I was in absolute bits. Do you not find this strange? If you were in psychosis you would wake up in absolute horror, she did not did she? She asked if she needed a lawyer.

Wake up will you, the mental gymnastics in play to retrospectively diagnose her with PPP, like some form of barrack room collective of psychiatrists, is sickening.

Aluna · Yesterday 18:31

BruachAbhann · Yesterday 16:09

Do you live in America? If not, you are indulging in 'misogynist telescopic philanthropy'.

I don't expect women to bring their babies along to marches and hold them up and say 'same Lindsay' as if to say there but for the grace of god go I. I don't expect women to say that men are not 'allowed' have an opinion on this case because they can't suffer from PPP. I also don't expect women to shut down the debate on the case and say that only someone who has watched the entire trial is allowed to talk about it, which I've seen a lot, on this thread too. I don't expect women to have copycat killings.

'This case is being heard to determine whether she ends up in prison or psychiatric hospital. And clearly I favour the latter. She has a full life sentence anyway'.

And what if she's allowed out after a 6 month review? Would you be ok with that?

My perspective is not misogynist: ie focused solely on the children and PC to the exclusion of the woman at the centre of the tragedy. In fact I’d include the wider family and grandparents.

If you have a problem with Europeans discussing an American case you’re free to report the thread.

You have a lot to complain about women I wonder why that is. If you simply don’t like them, this may not be the forum for you.

(Not clear what the ‘it is convenient’ para refers to)

BingoJingo · Yesterday 18:33

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:26

But according to the law, yes, it isn’t murder if their judgement is greatly impaired due to a mental health condition. It’s not excusing it, it’s still a crime but it’s not murder.

And plenty of people try to claim insanity, very few people have the mountain of evidence that LC has.

Mountain of evidence? What an absolute joke. You have fallen for this woman's lies hook, line and sinker.

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:35

BingoJingo · Yesterday 18:31

Are you trying to blame Patrick for going out on an errand and leaving her alone with the children for 40 minutes? I really hope not as he testified that he was never told that he could not leave her alone with the children because she was a) not diagnosed by any of the psychiatrists she saw as having post partum psychosis and b) was not deemed to be a danger to them.

It sounds like you are trying to frame LC as the victim of her wealthy, white and middle class status... She did not take her medication as prescribed, she was never diagnosed with PPP, she never heard a voice until the convenient time frame when Patrick was out of the house, the voice did not tell her what to do, what method to use to kill the children, the order of death, the means of death. None, nada. She held onto those exercise bands until she took the life out of her children. The last thing those sweet children saw was their own mother strangling them. It is pure horror.

On the anniversaries of their deaths and their birthdays she was observed in Tewkesbury as being absolutely fine and dandy. Six months after my brother died to the day I was in absolute bits. Do you not find this strange? If you were in psychosis you would wake up in absolute horror, she did not did she? She asked if she needed a lawyer.

Wake up will you, the mental gymnastics in play to retrospectively diagnose her with PPP, like some form of barrack room collective of psychiatrists, is sickening.

I’m not blaming Patrick at all, I think the entire system let LC down. However, if my DH was on multiple different types of medication, had recently been in a psyche ward, and had expressed to me that he had thoughts of harming himself and the kids, guess what? I’m getting him sectioned. I wouldn’t even wait for him to tell health professionals, I’d be telling them for him because my first priority is the safety of my children and, also, his safety. You seriously cannot tell me that if someone expressed to you that they had thoughts of harming your kids you wouldn’t report it?

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LVPLVT · Yesterday 18:35

If we are to accept at a societal and legislative level that a certain state of mind voids you of your criminal responsibility, we must accept that that can apply even in the most deplorable and devastating circumstances.

I am satisfied having seen the evidence in this trial that there is reasonable doubt around her criminal responsibility. It is undeniable to me that she was very, very poorly.

I think her actions were pure evil, but I don’t think she is criminally responsible for them.

As an aside, if it is true and provable that the hold out juror admitted he had reasonable doubt but refused to return a not guilty verdict in spite of his instruction, I think he should have been removed from the jury at best and prosecuted at worst.

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:37

LVPLVT · Yesterday 18:35

If we are to accept at a societal and legislative level that a certain state of mind voids you of your criminal responsibility, we must accept that that can apply even in the most deplorable and devastating circumstances.

I am satisfied having seen the evidence in this trial that there is reasonable doubt around her criminal responsibility. It is undeniable to me that she was very, very poorly.

I think her actions were pure evil, but I don’t think she is criminally responsible for them.

As an aside, if it is true and provable that the hold out juror admitted he had reasonable doubt but refused to return a not guilty verdict in spite of his instruction, I think he should have been removed from the jury at best and prosecuted at worst.

Absolutely. Totally agree with this.

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BingoJingo · Yesterday 18:40

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:35

I’m not blaming Patrick at all, I think the entire system let LC down. However, if my DH was on multiple different types of medication, had recently been in a psyche ward, and had expressed to me that he had thoughts of harming himself and the kids, guess what? I’m getting him sectioned. I wouldn’t even wait for him to tell health professionals, I’d be telling them for him because my first priority is the safety of my children and, also, his safety. You seriously cannot tell me that if someone expressed to you that they had thoughts of harming your kids you wouldn’t report it?

According to this article, Patrick told the court of his former wife’s statement and said she told him she had no plans to hurt the kids.

It came down to her saying something but her then denying she had any plans - they would not section her unless she had plans. You need to listen to the testimony, this came out in evidence several times.

Jurors have heard testimony from Patrick that his wife told him after the killings, while in hospital, that she’d “heard a man’s voice telling her that if she didn’t do it now, she would lose her chance, or something like that”.

She heard a man's voice telling her she would lose her chance and she then took it upon herself to strangle those precious babies to death with individual exercise bands holding them to choke the life out of them. She needs to be locked up for life.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/aug/17/lindsay-clancy-trial-mother-witness-testimony

Daisywhatsyouranswer · Yesterday 18:42

I find it odd she didn’t kill herself. The cuts on her throat were so superficial they didn’t even need stitches, the wrist ones did, but were far from going to be fatal and the windo she jumped from also not likely to be fatal

in my view anyone who murders is mentally unwell. But does that always mean no criminal responsibility, no.

both things can be true, she can be mentally unwell and also plan to kill ner kids and know it’s wrong. I beleive that to be the case and the failed suicide attempt a useful way to back up her insanity alibi.

do I think she had no idea what she was doing, wasn’t in control no.i think she knew, she planned it,she gave her self a justification. But she was also very unwell.

as said, these two things can be true.

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:43

BingoJingo · Yesterday 18:40

According to this article, Patrick told the court of his former wife’s statement and said she told him she had no plans to hurt the kids.

It came down to her saying something but her then denying she had any plans - they would not section her unless she had plans. You need to listen to the testimony, this came out in evidence several times.

Jurors have heard testimony from Patrick that his wife told him after the killings, while in hospital, that she’d “heard a man’s voice telling her that if she didn’t do it now, she would lose her chance, or something like that”.

She heard a man's voice telling her she would lose her chance and she then took it upon herself to strangle those precious babies to death with individual exercise bands holding them to choke the life out of them. She needs to be locked up for life.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/aug/17/lindsay-clancy-trial-mother-witness-testimony

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She did tell him she had intrusive thoughts about harming the kids. She went back on it, sure, but so what? She said it, that would be enough for many reasonable parent to report it. And imagine if he had reported it? What if it could’ve saved those babies’ lives. I am damn sure that if any mother didn’t report their partner for saying the same thing people would be furious at her.

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EasternStandard · Yesterday 18:44

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:30

Her husband testified that she told him that she had thoughts of harming the children. Let that sink in. Imagine if a man told his wife that he had thoughts of harming their children and she left him alone with the kids, what do you think society would think of the woman? They would think she’s irresponsible for leaving the kids alone with a man who, weeks prior was in a psyche ward, and had told her he wanted to kill himself and harm the children.

Was the feeling there that she said it but dipped in and out of being in a bad way?

So on the day it was meant to be a ‘good day’ with snow man building etc.

Idk hard to know, maybe sectioning is appropriate. Is everyone with similar thoughts sectioned here? Or other help instead.

BingoJingo · Yesterday 18:48

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:43

She did tell him she had intrusive thoughts about harming the kids. She went back on it, sure, but so what? She said it, that would be enough for many reasonable parent to report it. And imagine if he had reported it? What if it could’ve saved those babies’ lives. I am damn sure that if any mother didn’t report their partner for saying the same thing people would be furious at her.

Why did her mother not report it?
What if he reported it, she is sectioned, and then let out because she denies any plans?
What if she then killed them?

This would not have saved them would it? Because ultimately they will not hold her if she denies any plans of self harm or harm to others, which is what was testified to. So we are back at square one aren't we

Stop making these outlandish speculative leaps to defend a child killer.

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:50

EasternStandard · Yesterday 18:44

Was the feeling there that she said it but dipped in and out of being in a bad way?

So on the day it was meant to be a ‘good day’ with snow man building etc.

Idk hard to know, maybe sectioning is appropriate. Is everyone with similar thoughts sectioned here? Or other help instead.

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I put myself in Patrick’s shoes and thought what would I do if my DH (who I love dearly) told me that same information. Like Patrick testified about LC, my DH is a wonderful parent, which would make it very weird and would immediately send alarm bells ringing. Even if my DH backtracked it wouldn’t matter. If he told me that he had thoughts of killing himself and harming the children I wouldn’t be able to just let that go. Patrick isn’t to blame, but I do think the right thing to do would’ve been to inform health professionals so that LC could be helped and to also keep the children safe. And I genuinely do feel like if a mother had been told by her partner that he had thoughts of harming the kids and then later killed the kids, people would be seriously questioning her judgement.

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KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:52

BingoJingo · Yesterday 18:48

Why did her mother not report it?
What if he reported it, she is sectioned, and then let out because she denies any plans?
What if she then killed them?

This would not have saved them would it? Because ultimately they will not hold her if she denies any plans of self harm or harm to others, which is what was testified to. So we are back at square one aren't we

Stop making these outlandish speculative leaps to defend a child killer.

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You’re saying don’t make outlandish speculations when that’s all you’ve done in that comment. Most parents would report it if someone said they had thoughts of harming their children. I would personally want health professionals to know if my partner had expressed those thoughts to me so that they could be treated accordingly.

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StraightTalkingTina · Yesterday 18:58

BruachAbhann · Yesterday 18:24

She should still be criminally responsible for the crime of killing her kids. If we are to excuse murder because someone might not have known it was wrong given their state of mind, couldn't everyone claim they were psychotic and literally get away with murder?

People Do claim it, but if there is no evidence of these claims prior to the incident then it is often disingenuous.

This case has the opposite clearly.

CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 18:59

StraightTalkingTina · Yesterday 18:16

Actually the issue is not whether she was psychotic, it’s whether she was too unwell to appreciate the criminality or wrongfulness of her conduct, OR to conform her conduct to the requirements of the law.

it is convenient that you exclude ‘killing your children’ on the list of acceptable behaviour or evidence of a mentally unwell woman achieving 1 or 2 above, when it is that action that precisely determines just how unwell she was. That and her own suicide attempt of course.

reminding that she did report thoughts of self harm and causing harm to the children, which everyone brushed off. They didn’t believe she was capable of anything so bad. Because they didn’t understand her condition.

Actually the issue is not whether she was psychotic, it’s whether she was too unwell to appreciate the criminality or wrongfulness of her conduct, OR to conform her conduct to the requirements of the law.

Yes, I agree. I am using psychotic to mean psychotic enough to not appreciate the criminality or wrongfulness of her conduct, OR to conform her conduct to the requirements of the law as I believe is everyone else in this conversation.

it is convenient that you exclude ‘killing your children’ on the list of acceptable behaviour or evidence of a mentally unwell woman achieving 1 or 2 above, when it is that action that precisely determines just how unwell she was. That and her own suicide attempt of course.

It’s not a matter of convenience. It’s that people seem to be saying (and you are doing the same) that murdering her children is evidence enough of psychosis. Unless we are going to say that any mother who kills her child is in psychosis without any further evidence being required (which I would be surprised if people would agree with but perhaps that it what people think?) it is not reasonable to accept this as the only evidence. It is a completely circular argument and assumes no mother could ever murder her child unless in psychosis. Do you believe that to be the case?

I don’t accept that a suicide attempt is in itself evidence of psychosis. People attempt suicide for many reasons outside of psychosis.

reminding that she did report thoughts of self harm and causing harm to the children, which everyone brushed off. They didn’t believe she was capable of anything so bad. Because they didn’t understand her condition.

Again, people self harm and hurt others and have thoughts of doing so for other reasons than psychosis.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 19:00

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:50

I put myself in Patrick’s shoes and thought what would I do if my DH (who I love dearly) told me that same information. Like Patrick testified about LC, my DH is a wonderful parent, which would make it very weird and would immediately send alarm bells ringing. Even if my DH backtracked it wouldn’t matter. If he told me that he had thoughts of killing himself and harming the children I wouldn’t be able to just let that go. Patrick isn’t to blame, but I do think the right thing to do would’ve been to inform health professionals so that LC could be helped and to also keep the children safe. And I genuinely do feel like if a mother had been told by her partner that he had thoughts of harming the kids and then later killed the kids, people would be seriously questioning her judgement.

Idk it’s hard to imagine but I’d probably tell people I live (ie my own family) to get advice on what to do next.

Perhaps I’m more wary of men hurting families because it’s more frequent too.

Viviennemary · Yesterday 19:05

It doesn't matter whether or not she thinks it's wrong. Murder is wrong. End off. A lot of folk commit serious crimes and don't think they're doing anything wrong. Is that the new bar. Terrifying.

BingoJingo · Yesterday 19:07

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 18:52

You’re saying don’t make outlandish speculations when that’s all you’ve done in that comment. Most parents would report it if someone said they had thoughts of harming their children. I would personally want health professionals to know if my partner had expressed those thoughts to me so that they could be treated accordingly.

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I am responding to your disgusting and unedifying attempts to place the blame on Patrick and to clarify that, even if he did report it, she had denied to Jennifer Tufts, her psychiatrist, having a plan to take her own life or harm anyone else and never revealed that she had thoughts about harming the children.

Jennifer Tufts also testified that LC never told her about manic episodes, nor about hearing voices or having other signs of psychosis.
She felt close to feeling suicidal, hopeless or like she was going to die.

None of this would rise to the level of a section even if PC had reported it - or her mother whom testifed that she had reported thoughts of harming the children. Stop victim blaming and if you are going to victim blame, do it to her mother as well as Patrick Clancy who lost his entire family.