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Lindsay Clancy case: was it evil, or severe mental illness?

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KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 16:50

Lindsay Clancy, what do we all think? Pure evil or mentally ill?

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whippersnapper55 · 04/09/2026 17:41

Littlebitpsycho · 04/09/2026 17:39

I don't think being mentally ill excuses her to be honest. Many women suffer post partum depression. Some women suffer post partum psychosis. Very very few of them MURDER their children.

She knew she was unwell. She had thought previously that she was capable of hurting them. She could have walked away and didn't

Well this shows a fundamental lack of understanding of what psychosis actually is 🙄

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 17:42

Littlebitpsycho · 04/09/2026 17:39

I don't think being mentally ill excuses her to be honest. Many women suffer post partum depression. Some women suffer post partum psychosis. Very very few of them MURDER their children.

She knew she was unwell. She had thought previously that she was capable of hurting them. She could have walked away and didn't

She fully admits to killing her children BUT legally a person cannot be found guilty of murder if they were in a state of psychosis when the killings happened. That’s why I think people need to put their own personal opinions aside and just focus on objective and legal fact. If you believe that she was mentally unwell she isn’t guilty of murder.

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Sacredbirman · 04/09/2026 17:43

I think you can be mentally ill and still plan something. Look at people that die by suicide. They plan over a long time and look ok to many others on the outside. I don’t think she is evil at all.

I also don’t believe that looking at things on the internet proves it was planned. She maybe had these feelings before, looked it up and then did nothing at that time.

I believe there are evil people that do these things to their children, such as mothers or fathers that kill their children because of custody battles but this was not the case.

Plus who would want to paralyse themselves, I believe she had a real suicide attempt because it was all too much.

I had seen she was on many tablets at the same time and health care givers were not talking with each other and maybe she did not give the information either but if you are overwhelmed you can forget these things.

UniquePinkSwan · 04/09/2026 17:44

Evil. Im not going to defend her just because she’s a woman. Women do bad stuff as well

TwisterSister208 · 04/09/2026 17:49

She didn't want to walk away. She was practically begging for help and everyone, including members of her own family, let her down. I truly believe she loved her family. In most other filicide cases the prosecution could find a reason that the mother wanted the children gone: most prominently is that they had fallen for a person that did not want children. There has been no mention of any reason Lindsay would have wanted her children dead. The idea that she wanted out from under the responsibility is BS.

Shellityhorn · 04/09/2026 17:50

Littlebitpsycho · 04/09/2026 17:23

This. Everyone seems to talk about poor HER, how awful for HER. Nobody seems to be talking about the poor children she MURDERED.

If she had been ill for a long time, and had thoughts previously of hurting her children, why the fuck didn't she walk away while she could?

No one is talking about them because there's no doubt that she killed them. That appalling fact is not up for debate. The kernel of the trial is whether she was sane or insane when she killed them, and hence whether she's guilty of murder or not. Hence the focus is on her state of mind, not her victims.

I believe I had postnatal psychosis after DS was born, but I hid it so well, that not only did no one else realise, but I didn't really realise myself until much later. I remember the shadows on the floor were talking to me and telling me to do things -- fortunately, none of the things were murderous towards my baby. I appeared in full possession of my senses to DH, visitors, HV, GP, NCT people etc.

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 17:52

TwisterSister208 · 04/09/2026 17:49

She didn't want to walk away. She was practically begging for help and everyone, including members of her own family, let her down. I truly believe she loved her family. In most other filicide cases the prosecution could find a reason that the mother wanted the children gone: most prominently is that they had fallen for a person that did not want children. There has been no mention of any reason Lindsay would have wanted her children dead. The idea that she wanted out from under the responsibility is BS.

I know. And every bit of evidence has pointed to the fact that she wanted to die. Even after she came round, she was demanding that doctors bring her a DNR because she didn’t want to be resuscitated. There isn’t a motive and she was clearly unwell. To find her guilty would be to put her in the same category as someone like Chris Watts who had a clear motive and had his facilities and then tried to cover it up.

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Sewingbeedamned · 04/09/2026 17:55

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 17:05

If it was mental illness, it was a strangely carefully planned case of loss of control, with the unusual ability to talk calmly to her husband in the middle of the murders and know she shouldn’t tell him what she was doing. I find it very hard to understand how people can read the details and still believe she didn’t chose to murder her poor children.

Do you know anything about psychosis and how it presents? People can look incredibly logical, rational and sane - not all psychosis presents as people raving and ranting in the corner.

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 17:57

Londonmummy66 · 04/09/2026 17:13

Clearly never seen anyone in the throes of psychosis then.

That the question though, isn’t it? Was she in the throes of psychosis? She certainly wasn’t before, or after. So what’s the evidence she was when she murdered her children? That she murdered her children? It’s all very circular reasoning. That she said so? Well, she would, wouldn’t she?

Sparrowsandbudgies · 04/09/2026 17:59

There are many threads about this case already. Do a search.

Sewingbeedamned · 04/09/2026 17:59

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 17:57

That the question though, isn’t it? Was she in the throes of psychosis? She certainly wasn’t before, or after. So what’s the evidence she was when she murdered her children? That she murdered her children? It’s all very circular reasoning. That she said so? Well, she would, wouldn’t she?

What is your assertion of her mental state before and after? Were you there? Did you assess her? Unless you were, you cannot possibly comment on whether she was psychotic or not. As far as I can see she was not assessed properly - certainly not before, and I havent seen anything to show she was assessed after either. You are clearly very ignorant about psychosis.

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 18:01

Shellityhorn · 04/09/2026 17:50

No one is talking about them because there's no doubt that she killed them. That appalling fact is not up for debate. The kernel of the trial is whether she was sane or insane when she killed them, and hence whether she's guilty of murder or not. Hence the focus is on her state of mind, not her victims.

I believe I had postnatal psychosis after DS was born, but I hid it so well, that not only did no one else realise, but I didn't really realise myself until much later. I remember the shadows on the floor were talking to me and telling me to do things -- fortunately, none of the things were murderous towards my baby. I appeared in full possession of my senses to DH, visitors, HV, GP, NCT people etc.

This. I remember after having my child (which was an emergency c-section after a long labour) I didn’t sleep for 3 nights after surgery because my DH wasn’t allowed to stay and my baby was cluster feeding at my breast. I remember hallucinating on the last night and I thought I saw a midwife that wasn’t there. I ended up shining my phone light in my eyes just to try and stay awake so that I didn’t drop my baby. I think as well as extreme sleep deprivation I also suffered from PTSD after my section as there were many nights afterwards where I experienced sleep paralysis and heard voices. I remember one night I woke up and I swore I heard someone say ‘aww baby, baby’ and I was struck with fear and shook my husband awake and said to turn the light on so I could check that the baby was ok as I thought someone was in the room. I believed it was real and I was too scared for my baby to be in that room without me being there. It was terrifying. But I was totally functional during the day so nobody would’ve known. I don’t believe it was postpartum psychosis but I do believe it was the result of PTSD and sleep deprivation and that was scary enough.

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ThunderThunderThunderThunderCats · 04/09/2026 18:01

She was mentally ill, she was literally begging for help! Kept being put on increased medication. Tried being admitted to a specialist post partum mental health unit and was turned away. Tried ringing a suicide hotline and was turned away because she didn’t have a specific plan, TWICE! Saw numerous health professionals who just kept prescribing medication. Medication it turns out she shouldn’t have been prescribed because she has now been diagnosed with Bipolar and the benzos and SSRIs increased the likelihood of her becoming manic. She told each mental health professional she was suicidal. She told both her mum and Patrick she was scared she’d harm the children. I’m failing to see what else the poor woman could have done!

She begged her parents to stay with her, which they did. She climbed into bed with her mum because she was afraid of being alone with her thoughts. Her husband tried to get her help, her mum tried to get her help, her MIL tried to get her help.

The prosecution for 1st degree murder feels like a witch hunt. Massachusetts doesn’t have the best reputation for treating women well, does it?

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:02

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 17:28

I feel absolutely horrible for the children but I think she wasn’t mentally with it. The fact that she was put on 13 different types of drugs prior to the killings, had asked multiple professionals for help, and that even her in-laws and ex husband said that she was mentally unwell speaks volumes. She recorded in her diary about not being able to sleep and her ex husband reported seeing her sat on the sofa rocking back and forth with a pillow over her head. That’s not normal. And neither is slitting your wrists, trying to slit your throat and jump out of a window. My concern is, that if she is found guilty, more children and women will suffer as postpartum psychosis will not be taken seriously.

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Thousands of women have these symptoms and worse. They are not diagnostic of being so psychotic you are not responsible if you kill your children. There’s a bit of a danger here of implying that all women with mental illness are a danger to their children.

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:05

Totaldramallama · 04/09/2026 17:31

Well obviously not evil. No one has three kids, spends years raising them then suddenly turns evil and kills them.

So nobody who kills their children should ever be prosecuted for murder? Or people who kill one or two children can be justifiably prosecuted for murder, but not if they kill three? I’m not sure what point you’re making.

ModernV · 04/09/2026 18:05

I think it can be both. I don't doubt she had mental illness but I'm not convinced that's the reason for her actions. Millions of people suffer mental illnesses but we're not all out there killing children.

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 18:05

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:02

Thousands of women have these symptoms and worse. They are not diagnostic of being so psychotic you are not responsible if you kill your children. There’s a bit of a danger here of implying that all women with mental illness are a danger to their children.

I don’t believe that to be true. As I said, my symptoms were no where near as severe as Lindsay Clancy’s and they resolved on their own without medical intervention. Unlike her, I had no feeling of wanting to harm my child (which she admitted to and also expressed to medical professionals prior to committing the act). She literally asked to be institutionalised. I think if people think that all mothers experiencing mental health issues are the same that than speaks more about their lack of knowledge around the complexities of mental health.

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Becuriousnotjudgemental1980 · 04/09/2026 18:08

What I find odd is that people are so nasty about her husband remarrying. It happened 3 years ago is he not allowed to move on and find some peace? I know there are a lot of people that say he did it. I don’t believe that. I think she’s a very sick woman who masked how she was truly feeling. They have just declared a mistrial haven’t they so she’ll have to go through another trial. I think she’ll just end up in an institution for the rest of her life.

CatMouseandmaybeDog · 04/09/2026 18:08

I don’t think she was let down by doctors, she had access to a lot of medical professionals and medication. I was trying to imagine the same scenario with the NHS, having to fill in a econsult then having to wait up to 48h for a phone call that might or might not offer you a face-to-face consultation…

FergussSingsTheBlues · 04/09/2026 18:09

I struggle with the fact that it was definitely planned.

Sewingbeedamned · 04/09/2026 18:10

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 18:05

I don’t believe that to be true. As I said, my symptoms were no where near as severe as Lindsay Clancy’s and they resolved on their own without medical intervention. Unlike her, I had no feeling of wanting to harm my child (which she admitted to and also expressed to medical professionals prior to committing the act). She literally asked to be institutionalised. I think if people think that all mothers experiencing mental health issues are the same that than speaks more about their lack of knowledge around the complexities of mental health.

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Absolutely spot on - a lot of ignorance on this thread. The fact she had the insight to recognize something was wrong is heartbreaking for those children, her and her whole family. We know womens health is often poorly served and what they say about their health is often dismissed - this is another example of this, albeit one which where that kind of misogyny had catastrophic results.

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:11

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 17:42

She fully admits to killing her children BUT legally a person cannot be found guilty of murder if they were in a state of psychosis when the killings happened. That’s why I think people need to put their own personal opinions aside and just focus on objective and legal fact. If you believe that she was mentally unwell she isn’t guilty of murder.

If you believe that she was mentally unwell she isn’t guilty of murder.

This is not factually correct. You can be mentally unwell and still guilty of murder. I have depression, currently well controlled. If I had murdered someone whilst unwell that would still be murder, and not automatically not just because I was mentally unwell. The test for not guilty of murder by reason of insanity is more complicated than you are suggesting.

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 18:12

CatMouseandmaybeDog · 04/09/2026 18:08

I don’t think she was let down by doctors, she had access to a lot of medical professionals and medication. I was trying to imagine the same scenario with the NHS, having to fill in a econsult then having to wait up to 48h for a phone call that might or might not offer you a face-to-face consultation…

But she did report to a medical professional that one of the drugs she was taking was making her worse and, instead of listening to her, the doctor upped her dosage of it. Her ex husband attested to that and said that she didn’t not want to be on medication, but she wanted to be on a medication that worked for her. No NHS doctor would put someone on that amount of mental health medication without close supervision. But I think this trial has also spoken about the lack of care of Big Pharma as they make a lot of money from people being on drugs and, in the US health system, the doctors financially benefit from prescribing it.

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CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:14

Sewingbeedamned · 04/09/2026 17:59

What is your assertion of her mental state before and after? Were you there? Did you assess her? Unless you were, you cannot possibly comment on whether she was psychotic or not. As far as I can see she was not assessed properly - certainly not before, and I havent seen anything to show she was assessed after either. You are clearly very ignorant about psychosis.

Like everyone else on this thread, no, I wasn’t there and I am basing my opinions on what I have read about the case and trial.

Marycontrarygarden · 04/09/2026 18:15

bigboykitty · 04/09/2026 17:09

Ask Patrick...

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