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Can we talk about Laura Gallacher

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Ineversaidthatactually · 22/10/2026 10:15

Recorded 4 days ago, a youtube video with the 2 of them sitting in dressing gowns, chatting about their week, complimenting each other on their court appearance outfits and telling each other how good they looked in court, quoting a friend who complimented them on dressing well in court, sharing a laugh together about the week they've had (in court). Laura smiles and laughs.
Something I picked up on, at 3 mins 50 secs, RB says "On Sunday blah blah blah". Laura corrects him and says "Monday". RB says "Did I say Sunday?" Laura says "You did, yeah" RB says "But didn't I say you're watching this on Sunday" Laura says "Oh, maybe you did, sorry" RB says "I'm a pro" Laura laughs and says "ok".
But he DIDN'T say "you're watching this on Sunday". He said "On Sunday" and she was right to correct him.
So here we have a recorded dialogue between the 2 of them where we see RB tell Laura that he just said something completely different to what he actually just said, and she instantly pacifies him by saying "oh maybe you did" (but he didn't) and then she quickly apologises to him and he reminds her that he's the pro. Yet he has just blatantly lied about what he said on film in front of everyone viewing it but cleverly covers his mistake up in a nanosecond and makes her believe that she made a mistake, she is wrong, and she should be reminded that he is the pro (thereby asserting his power over her). This exchange all happened so fast that I had to rewind it and watch again because I thought "Hang on a minute, you did say Sunday, you didn't say what you're telling her you said, you're lying in a split second response, and she's going along with you saying something you didn't say!".
RB covered his mistake up so fast and turned it round on his wife and made her look stupid for getting it wrong and then reminded her he's better than her ("I'm a pro" subtext "You're not"). If he can lie and cover and confuse and coerce this quickly whilst he knows he's being filmed, then no wonder he is easily lying about his crimes.
As females, can we have a discussion about Laura?
Personally, I have been upset and confused to see her walking in to court hand in hand with RB, or with his arm around her shoulders as they walk in. Her display of loyalty is huge. How can she put on such a display of belief in him when he's on trial for rape and sexual assault of 6 women?
Whilst watching this video this morning (filmed on Sunday), I felt a rising anger at her for laughing about the week in court and flattering him with compliments about his court outfits and how good he looked.
But that quickly turned to concern when I saw her accept him telling her she'd mis-quoted him when she hadn't, and then swiftly apologised to him.
So now I don't know what to think about her but I do think there needs to be a discussion on a female forum about this woman supporting her husband on trial for alleged sexual crimes against women.
Even if you can't watch the whole video, please watch the first 4 minutes:

'youtube russell brand sunday service' https://share.google/QuLjCQqsVy0kb3H54

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Klippin · Today 14:30

Allthebookszerofucks · Today 14:24

This is so fucked up, what were they thinking!!
Her adoration for her rapist husband is being prioritised over the safety and protection of her own children. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

in the decade that they’ve had children - they’ve managed to successful hide their faces from the media.

and then they decide to show them during the rape trial? they must be so desperate. The jury won’t be able to see them anyway as they have to avoid going online

nomas · Today 14:42

wfhinpjs · Today 14:03

He has the gift of the gab. I hope he doesn’t get his chance in the witness stand and they all just stick to the facts, so the correct justice is served.

He just uses long words that gullible people fall for. He’s a charlatan.

Klippin · Today 14:42

nomas · Today 14:42

He just uses long words that gullible people fall for. He’s a charlatan.

If he does her on stand. He won’t do that. He’ll just have to be himself and speak his truth. Whatever that looks like.

CoworthWentworth · Today 14:51

colouringindoors · Today 00:18

I thought similarly re her childhood... I'd be surprised if there wasn't someone then, that makes Brand feel familiar.

I was at primary school with her, also with Beatrice and Eugene and others. She lived on the Wentworth estate, that area was very wealthy sports and business people. I think there was a lot of rot. It's grotty, makes me sick to think about.

LoudSnoringDog · Today 14:58

Pair of insufferable wankers

JLou08 · Today 15:15

I think you've over analysed that conversation, she says "maybe" you did say that. People can think they said something different, people can misshear things.
As for a woman supporting him, there are strangers supporting him. It can't be so difficult to believe that his wife believes him and supports him.
I don't believe him. However, I do think there are things about him that have changed. I do think men can be different versions of themselves with different women and I think they quite often are different with different women. This is a woman he chose to marry, he may have respect for her that he hasn't had for other women, she may see him as a good, respectful man who respects her boundaries and consent.
I've seen several posts on here of women finding out their H has seen a prostitute and they have been in absolute shock because they thought they had a man who respects women and would never do something so seedy. It works the other way too, there are men who put on the charm for women and seem like great men but when they have a wife where they want her they abuse her.
I doubt we will ever really know the ins and outs of their relationship, maybe she is standing by him knowing or at least believing he sexually assaulted other women. Maybe she is another one of his victims. Maybe she is naive. Maybe she believes that this is a witch hunt from the media and the allegations don't match what she knows of him. I do think she looks quite comfortable in the video so I lean towards the latter.

swimsong · Today 16:34

JLou08 · Today 15:15

I think you've over analysed that conversation, she says "maybe" you did say that. People can think they said something different, people can misshear things.
As for a woman supporting him, there are strangers supporting him. It can't be so difficult to believe that his wife believes him and supports him.
I don't believe him. However, I do think there are things about him that have changed. I do think men can be different versions of themselves with different women and I think they quite often are different with different women. This is a woman he chose to marry, he may have respect for her that he hasn't had for other women, she may see him as a good, respectful man who respects her boundaries and consent.
I've seen several posts on here of women finding out their H has seen a prostitute and they have been in absolute shock because they thought they had a man who respects women and would never do something so seedy. It works the other way too, there are men who put on the charm for women and seem like great men but when they have a wife where they want her they abuse her.
I doubt we will ever really know the ins and outs of their relationship, maybe she is standing by him knowing or at least believing he sexually assaulted other women. Maybe she is another one of his victims. Maybe she is naive. Maybe she believes that this is a witch hunt from the media and the allegations don't match what she knows of him. I do think she looks quite comfortable in the video so I lean towards the latter.

That whole fraudulent American religious trip they're on absolutely loves redemption arcs. The worse someone has been in their past, the better their testimony on stage sounds. Evangelical churches were falling over each other in the 70s getting converted gang leader Nicky Cruz, who stabbed 16 people, to speak to their abject congregations. So thrilling!

LaidOnYourBackWithTheBoyWithTheArabStrap · Today 16:47

Klippin · Today 13:38

I do hope he goes down but I’m concerned about some the defense or jury picking holes in the testimonies.

Eg. Woman 5 said he flipped her over, removed his condom and the anally raped her. And her head was in pillows and she couldn’t breathe.
as horrifying as this is. How did she know he removed his condom at this point if her head was face down in the pillows. ?

she also said she cleaned up the blood and excrement with wipes which actually isn’t possible…

Hmm I don’t think it’s fair to pick holes in what this victim has said. She was there, you were not. More or less accusing a victim of lying about a violent crime is so harmful as it continues to perpetuate harmful myths and stereotypes about victims of rape and how they “should” behave and react.

Klippin · Today 16:56

LaidOnYourBackWithTheBoyWithTheArabStrap · Today 16:47

Hmm I don’t think it’s fair to pick holes in what this victim has said. She was there, you were not. More or less accusing a victim of lying about a violent crime is so harmful as it continues to perpetuate harmful myths and stereotypes about victims of rape and how they “should” behave and react.

I know it’s absolutely abhorrent. im just hoping it doesn’t make the jury question her report.

LaidOnYourBackWithTheBoyWithTheArabStrap · Today 17:54

Klippin · Today 16:56

I know it’s absolutely abhorrent. im just hoping it doesn’t make the jury question her report.

Hopefully the prosecution does a good enough job and the people on the jury don’t think the way you do. Btw the wipes comment is odd. People clean up poo all the time with wipes 😐

Klippin · Today 18:13

LaidOnYourBackWithTheBoyWithTheArabStrap · Today 17:54

Hopefully the prosecution does a good enough job and the people on the jury don’t think the way you do. Btw the wipes comment is odd. People clean up poo all the time with wipes 😐

Sorry. I just usually find wiping poo or blood on fabric just makes it worse. But yeah stupid comment and consideration and totally irrelevant. My mind always questions things when I feel attached to an outcome and because of what’s at stake. Perhaps it’s just anxiety. Apologies for being stupid though.

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