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Can we talk about Laura Gallacher

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Ineversaidthatactually · 22/10/2026 10:15

Recorded 4 days ago, a youtube video with the 2 of them sitting in dressing gowns, chatting about their week, complimenting each other on their court appearance outfits and telling each other how good they looked in court, quoting a friend who complimented them on dressing well in court, sharing a laugh together about the week they've had (in court). Laura smiles and laughs.
Something I picked up on, at 3 mins 50 secs, RB says "On Sunday blah blah blah". Laura corrects him and says "Monday". RB says "Did I say Sunday?" Laura says "You did, yeah" RB says "But didn't I say you're watching this on Sunday" Laura says "Oh, maybe you did, sorry" RB says "I'm a pro" Laura laughs and says "ok".
But he DIDN'T say "you're watching this on Sunday". He said "On Sunday" and she was right to correct him.
So here we have a recorded dialogue between the 2 of them where we see RB tell Laura that he just said something completely different to what he actually just said, and she instantly pacifies him by saying "oh maybe you did" (but he didn't) and then she quickly apologises to him and he reminds her that he's the pro. Yet he has just blatantly lied about what he said on film in front of everyone viewing it but cleverly covers his mistake up in a nanosecond and makes her believe that she made a mistake, she is wrong, and she should be reminded that he is the pro (thereby asserting his power over her). This exchange all happened so fast that I had to rewind it and watch again because I thought "Hang on a minute, you did say Sunday, you didn't say what you're telling her you said, you're lying in a split second response, and she's going along with you saying something you didn't say!".
RB covered his mistake up so fast and turned it round on his wife and made her look stupid for getting it wrong and then reminded her he's better than her ("I'm a pro" subtext "You're not"). If he can lie and cover and confuse and coerce this quickly whilst he knows he's being filmed, then no wonder he is easily lying about his crimes.
As females, can we have a discussion about Laura?
Personally, I have been upset and confused to see her walking in to court hand in hand with RB, or with his arm around her shoulders as they walk in. Her display of loyalty is huge. How can she put on such a display of belief in him when he's on trial for rape and sexual assault of 6 women?
Whilst watching this video this morning (filmed on Sunday), I felt a rising anger at her for laughing about the week in court and flattering him with compliments about his court outfits and how good he looked.
But that quickly turned to concern when I saw her accept him telling her she'd mis-quoted him when she hadn't, and then swiftly apologised to him.
So now I don't know what to think about her but I do think there needs to be a discussion on a female forum about this woman supporting her husband on trial for alleged sexual crimes against women.
Even if you can't watch the whole video, please watch the first 4 minutes:

'youtube russell brand sunday service' https://share.google/QuLjCQqsVy0kb3H54

OP posts:
SquirrelSoShiny · 22/10/2026 15:48

I hope he goes away for a very long time.

Twogonksandapencil · 22/10/2026 16:07

blankittyblank · 22/10/2026 15:41

Ah that’s interesting. And gives me hope he might be found guilty of at least some of the counts. Thanks.

I hope so too. I used to work in criminal defence and having sat in on a lot of criminal trials, I do think juries are generally sensible and make good decisions, but I am worried about the fact that there are so few women on the jury in this case, and I do think he is less likely to be convicted as a result. Really hope I'm wrong though.

KidsDoBetter · 22/10/2026 16:09

I have a terrible feeling that even if convicted she will stand by him. She seems so deeply deeply brain washed to me. Banging on about the evil mainstream media - all their conspiracies etc. This is all part of the establishment's conspiracy to silence a truth teller doncha know....

Of course one of the compelling aspects of each complainants account is their nuances. If they were each fabricating won't they make it a lot more dramatic - he choked me, I coudn't breathe, I feared for my life etc etc.

But of course the reality of many sexual assaults and rapes is that it can be a lot more "mundane" than that, and the reasons why men liked Brand KNOW they can get away with non-consensual sex acts once they have used their fame to manoeuvre a woman into a vulnerable position. Or indeed the women themselves have a willingly put themselves into a vulnerable position - which thankfully is not a defence to sexual offences .

Sunshineandrainbow · 22/10/2026 16:16

LBFseBrom · 22/10/2026 15:07

Who on earth re RB and Laura Gallacher?

Russell brand and his wife

blankittyblank · 22/10/2026 16:26

Twogonksandapencil · 22/10/2026 16:07

I hope so too. I used to work in criminal defence and having sat in on a lot of criminal trials, I do think juries are generally sensible and make good decisions, but I am worried about the fact that there are so few women on the jury in this case, and I do think he is less likely to be convicted as a result. Really hope I'm wrong though.

I thought that too re the men on the jury. But, men tend to hate him. Hate his look, his swagger and his superiority complex. The fact he carries a bible around won’t generally endear him to most brits. Which I’m hoping will go against him.

Twogonksandapencil · 22/10/2026 16:31

blankittyblank · 22/10/2026 16:26

I thought that too re the men on the jury. But, men tend to hate him. Hate his look, his swagger and his superiority complex. The fact he carries a bible around won’t generally endear him to most brits. Which I’m hoping will go against him.

Fingers crossed

Gengha · 22/10/2026 17:52

EatingSky · 22/10/2026 15:19

And contemporaneous witnesses confirming they told them the same story at the time/they witnesses behaviour aligned to allegations. Photo evidence aligning with victim’s accusations. Medical healthcare professionals confirming victim sought treatment and said she was raped by him etc etc, There is actually loads of evidence beyond ‘their word against his’. I’m curious to see evidence from the defence.

Well exactly. It’s unlikely all these people are going to perjure themselves 🤷‍♀️ I mean I hate RB always have but I wouldn’t lie in court at his trial

thebrowncatisback · 22/10/2026 18:03

Fiver says she leaves him once he’s safely banged up.
i bet she’s in a coercive and controlling marriage

Cheesehound · 22/10/2026 18:09

I gave video this a few seconds of my time and even that was too much. He is horrendous, and she is too. They both deserve what is headed their way. It’s their children that deserve the sympathy.

SerafinasGoose · 22/10/2026 18:22

Rule #1 of misogyny: 'women are responsible for what men do'.

Allthebookszerofucks · 22/10/2026 18:23

blankittyblank · 22/10/2026 15:27

Yeah this is all true. And good to know.

I suspect the defence will be gaslighting the women, saying they don’t remember, they wanted it. They’ll bring up inconsistencies in their stories to discredit what they’re saying. I’m keeping up with the trial on a podcast, but I’m actually dreading the defence. It’s going to make me so angry.

The misogynistic tactics of the defence are nauseating, I'm surprised that it's even allowed nowadays. Although without it, what defence do they have I guess..desperate measures and all that

I've been thinking about it alot today (mostly because its all I keep seeing in my newsfeed 🤦‍♀️), and if the tables were turned and a man went to meet a woman for consensual sex, and she then flipped him over and anally raped him with a sex toy/strap on with no warning and left him in pain and bleeding..would anybody say he asked for that? That he should have expected that when he turned up for sex??
Its crazy when you look at it like that

Also, sidenote, the amount of men sticking up for him in the comments on social media and saying they asked for it is enraging me!!

thebrowncatisback · 22/10/2026 19:03

The women sticking up for him on social media is driving me mad

theyre after compo
they waited 20 years to speak up
there’s no evidence/ innocent until proven guilty etc
they are trying to silence him

user1464187087 · 22/10/2026 19:11

thebrowncatisback · 22/10/2026 19:03

The women sticking up for him on social media is driving me mad

theyre after compo
they waited 20 years to speak up
there’s no evidence/ innocent until proven guilty etc
they are trying to silence him

I hope they do silence him. His voice drives me mad. And he talks utter drivel.

Darkershadeofpink · 22/10/2026 19:46

Her sister has said something like shes keeping a close eye on her. Which feels like we know you know, but Laura doesn’t. Family sometimes hsve to tread carefully because otherwise they will me cut out for raising any concern.

i was a victim of domestic abuse. Hard to say that out loud. But I don’t see it until after he’d gone. Not on this scale, but it’s really possible shes been brainwashed and is in too deep for her to see it (3 kids, coercive controlling etc)

FiloPasty · 22/10/2026 21:25

Allthebookszerofucks · 22/10/2026 18:23

The misogynistic tactics of the defence are nauseating, I'm surprised that it's even allowed nowadays. Although without it, what defence do they have I guess..desperate measures and all that

I've been thinking about it alot today (mostly because its all I keep seeing in my newsfeed 🤦‍♀️), and if the tables were turned and a man went to meet a woman for consensual sex, and she then flipped him over and anally raped him with a sex toy/strap on with no warning and left him in pain and bleeding..would anybody say he asked for that? That he should have expected that when he turned up for sex??
Its crazy when you look at it like that

Also, sidenote, the amount of men sticking up for him in the comments on social media and saying they asked for it is enraging me!!

Exactly this and I hope that one of the jurors puts this to the room when they are deciding his fate.

I’ve done jury service, I think cases like this must be horrendous, really feel for them all.

JanBlues2026 · 22/10/2026 22:19

SerafinasGoose · 22/10/2026 18:22

Rule #1 of misogyny: 'women are responsible for what men do'.

I think most people are saying she’s been brainwashed and needs help

EveningSpread · 22/10/2026 22:24

Lamelie · 22/10/2026 10:17

Have a glass of water, touch grass, talk to a human. This is bonkers.

What’s bonkers?

RB definitely bonkers. OP’s analysis is sound.

Though bothering to do the analysis is maybe a bit wacky!

Klippin · 22/10/2026 23:12

and now his kids are appearing in the show.

Can we talk about Laura Gallacher
PinkMagpie · 22/10/2026 23:22

He is so dead behind the eyes. He is chilling

AlonsoMosley · Yesterday 00:46

researchers3 · 22/10/2026 14:02

People love to blame a woman or examine their role in proceedings.

Depressing.

Edited

Maybe.

But maybe not.

Last week, a Northern Irish politician who was found guilty of raping two young girls. His wife came across him doing the crime and ... closed the door.

Unfortunately, many of these men use as a cover the "family man" thing. Or, maybe they are family men and also that man. The wife/woman in the relationship does bear scrutiny as people try and injure out what was/is going on.

Edited for spelling.

Sober23 · Yesterday 01:00

I met him in 2023, at the festival they put on. He is a character. Larger than life and believes his own hype. I think he's probably different now to the earlier period of his fame.

KidsDoBetter · Yesterday 09:37

Sober23 · Yesterday 01:00

I met him in 2023, at the festival they put on. He is a character. Larger than life and believes his own hype. I think he's probably different now to the earlier period of his fame.

I think the underlying belief system is the same. That he is smarter than just about everyone and can produce something that the public want to buy into.

He’s the most phenomenal grifter. Before he decided to monetise his mish mash of Christianity - he was selling a repackaged twelve step recovery programme via a paid membership website.

This goes against the absolute fundamental tenets of twelve step recovery - that they are free to users and other recovered addicts give their time and guidance for free. He’s deeply odious.

cattussuperior · Yesterday 11:08

She was fairly young when she first met him but much older when she actually got together with him and started a family and there’s no way anyone on earth could not know what he was like by then. He’d been very open about his addictions, his disgusting sexual practices and his attitude to women.

I think she totally believes all the Sunday service stuff and the social media stuff they do together. If he gets convicted and sent to prison she’ll see him as a martyr Jesus figure, it’ll be the equivalent of the crucifixion and I honestly think she’ll stand by him.

Poor kids though.

Ineversaidthatactually · Yesterday 11:49

That selfie photo posted by @Klippin at 23:12 hrs yesterday - just a bit upthread from here.
If you enlarge the photo and look at both his eyes, then cover one of his eyes with your hand and look at each left and right eye on its own, what do you see?
When I did this, before any words came to my mind, my instant reaction was to feel nervous by what I see in his eyes. I had an instant instinctive feeling in my chest of hating what his eyes show, before any words kicked in to my brain. I think his eyes look utterly chilling. And that's for a supposedly happy, smiling family selfie.
You can tell so much from someone's eyes.

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LillianGish · Yesterday 13:28

I suspect the defence will be gaslighting the women, saying they don’t remember, they wanted it. They’ll bring up inconsistencies in their stories to discredit what they’re saying. I’m keeping up with the trial on a podcast, but I’m actually dreading the defence. It’s going to make me so angry. The defence are cross-examining the women as they give their evidence for the prosecution. They won't be recalling them @blankittyblank . The defence don't actually have to produce any evidence - RB can choose not to testify and may well be advised not to. He doesn't have to prove anything - the defence may just give a closing speech saying the testimony of these women proves nothing.