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To think everything will be unrecognisable in 50 years

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CurdinHenry · Today 11:38

Just thinking about how different the UK was in the 70s and how change is supercharged now by tech and mass migration and the loss of shared cultural reference points in TV and newspapers and radio.

I live in Glasgow and many parts of it are no longer at all Scottish-seeming apart from the old sandstone tenements. What even is Scottish any more? It's hard to imagine Scottish independence being taken up by the new communities. But what's next?

I think human societies are programmed to self destruct every so often in the absence of external numbers control pressures and I think that's what's starting now across Europe. We have never had it so good in the history of time yet rage flourishes

What can we do as individuals, I'm just not sure

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ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:47

ThePerfectStormBird · Today 14:45

There we go. You heard it here. Much like the Labrador and the pint in an English country boozer. That never existed, so stop acting like it did. Maybe we can be provided with little pills that wipe out long-term memory for convenience .

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This morning I’ve seen several black labradors, had ice cream on a freezing beach, stopped for a cup of tea with relatives and now my roast dinner is in.

British culture alive and well over here ☺️

ThePerfectStormBird · Today 14:47

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:46

I agree, this faux ‘what is British culture?’ while in the next breath happily acknowledging another country’s culture is laughable.

It’s part of the plan. If we can be convinced English culture never existed then there’s nothing to preserve and nothing to miss.

BoredZelda · Today 14:48

KWaldron · Today 14:32

She clearly means that whole areas are occupied by people who are not Scottish and do not wish to respect or assimilate with Scottish culture. This is simultaneously happening in every European country, and it's disingenuous to pretend that it isn't.

There are vigilante gangs in Glasgow targetting anyone not white they see out at night. There are people verbally and physically attacking anyone who isn’t white. They are being told they are not welcome in Glasgow. If they move in to white areas, they are accused of dragging house prices down. Would you want to assimilate and integrate if every attempt you make has you being abused?

We celebrate areas like Chinatowns in cities everywhere. We love it when “little Poland” pops up with its supermarkets and craft shops. But when certain groups of people live in areas with like minded people, they are attacked for not “assimilating”. We all do it. We all choose to live in areas where people are like us. In the U.K. generally that means splitting by class. How many people do you see on here worrying about sending their children to the local comp when it has a high number of kids from poorer backgrounds? Complaining when affordable housing is built down the road? Look at the expat areas of places overseas where we flock together and open English pubs. How well did we assimilate when we took over entire countries?

What’s disingenuous is pretending lack of assimilation and integration is the real problem people have.

ThePerfectStormBird · Today 14:48

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:47

This morning I’ve seen several black labradors, had ice cream on a freezing beach, stopped for a cup of tea with relatives and now my roast dinner is in.

British culture alive and well over here ☺️

Labour’s rural minister says you don’t exist.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:48

Figtreegirl · Today 14:39

God this is so true. Ask any of your plastic patriots what British culture means and they'll probably say things like the Royal Family (German/Greek), fish and chips (invented by Jewish immigrants less than 200 years ago), the Beatles (didn't exist 65 years ago), the Blitz spirit (obviously didn't exist pre-Blitz).

If you asked someone in 1926 they'd have said different things. 1826 different things again. 2126 will be different things again I'm sure. Culture moves on all the time.

What people miss is the familiarity of their childhoods and the recent past. But it all moves on, always has always will.

What the plastic patriots really mean is brown people, of course.

So in your view nobody has a culture because they can probably all be traced back to somewhere different?

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:49

ThePerfectStormBird · Today 14:48

Labour’s rural minister says you don’t exist.

😂 she wishes I didn’t exist! Meanwhile the smell of roast chicken and parsnips is filling my house. I plan to twine some roses in the garden later.

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 14:50

ilovesooty · Today 14:40

If you've answered it I'm afraid I haven't been able to see where. As for your question, any country can be multicultural and be open to a range of influences, I would have thought, but I've only lived in the UK and experienced other countries on holiday.

But you haven't answered my question at all. Is there such a thing as an indigenous culture, anywhere in the world? We all know any country can be multicultual. But Britain wasn't multicultural in any significant sense for a very long time and some countries/regions still have never been. So are you just definining the entire world now as a homogenous multicultural mass? Or do you think each race and country has its own distinct traditional culture? Or only some cultures? Poland isnt a very multicultural country, neither is Mexico or turkey. Do they have traditional cultures that can be defined?

ThePerfectStormBird · Today 14:50

’Plastic Patriots’ is a new one.

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 14:50

Figtreegirl · Today 14:39

God this is so true. Ask any of your plastic patriots what British culture means and they'll probably say things like the Royal Family (German/Greek), fish and chips (invented by Jewish immigrants less than 200 years ago), the Beatles (didn't exist 65 years ago), the Blitz spirit (obviously didn't exist pre-Blitz).

If you asked someone in 1926 they'd have said different things. 1826 different things again. 2126 will be different things again I'm sure. Culture moves on all the time.

What people miss is the familiarity of their childhoods and the recent past. But it all moves on, always has always will.

What the plastic patriots really mean is brown people, of course.

It's really interesting to hear my immigrant - sorry, we are all professionals so ex-pat - colleagues' perspective on British culture.

They say: our education system that promotes creativity, our creative/can do aproach to business, engineering and innovation, mostly stable politics and respect for law, by which they mean we don't have corrupt bodies that demand bribes to do their jobs or allow their cronies to seize and keep other people's property.

The Americans think we expect too much state protection and regulations. But they think that about Europe as a whole. They have a "give me the freedom to take my own risks and make my own mistakes" culture.

None of them mention the Royal Family, pubs, cricket, village greens or any of that stuff. They do talk about tea but only to tease me.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:50

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 14:36

ETA: The quoted post has been missed off. This is in reply to a PP who says the melting pot won't happen, just sectarianism and Sharia law.

The melting pot already is happening. I see it every day.

What will create the dystopia you fear is headlines and protests and laws that tell people "We don't like you, we don't trust you, we don't accept how you live, you have to choose between your community and participating in our wider evolving British culture"

That creates a bunker mentality. The people you fear won't say "ok, fair enough, we are an awful culture and we'll stop doing all the things you say", they will say "This isn't us. They are lying about us because they hate us. Our most extreme voices were right. We need to look after ourselves in our own ways".

If you worry for the freedom of a woman in a veil, don't rip off her veil, give her opportunities, whatever she feels safe to accept for her or for her children. People who feel safe will be part of change organically.

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How will she have freedom and opportunities if Sharia flourishes?

blondeseaside · Today 14:51

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 14:41

So if it is genuinely not about skin colour, why are we being given a breakdown of the percentages of city populations which are white British, and why are some posters suggesting that it would be a problem if white people cease to be a majority in those areas?

Also, could you clarify why you are lumping "non-Western culture" into one homogeneous group?

Do you think all "Western cultures" are identical? And are you including Japanese culture as "western" now? On what grounds?

I never gave any statistics based on colour. If I were to look at stats, I would look at who was born here, and who has arrived recently illegally.

No, Japanese culture is not Western culture, however, we know that they are generally a law abiding, respectful cohort of people, and they don't class women as sub-humans.

I guess I would need to split the world's countries into two categories -

A) Countries where women are equal to men and can do everything that men can.

B) Countries where women are treated as a sub human class, have very few rights, and in some cases are not educated, allowed to sing, enter parks, show their faces, go out without a chaperone etc, etc.

Unfortunately, the men who are entering Britain illegally right now tend to come from pot B. This scares the shit out of me, and it would scare me just as much if they were white. This is not a colour thing, it's a culture thing.

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 14:51

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:50

How will she have freedom and opportunities if Sharia flourishes?

If we create the right opportunities, it won't flourish. Rigid ideas about "who we are" are a fear reaction. On both sides.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:52

blondeseaside · Today 14:51

I never gave any statistics based on colour. If I were to look at stats, I would look at who was born here, and who has arrived recently illegally.

No, Japanese culture is not Western culture, however, we know that they are generally a law abiding, respectful cohort of people, and they don't class women as sub-humans.

I guess I would need to split the world's countries into two categories -

A) Countries where women are equal to men and can do everything that men can.

B) Countries where women are treated as a sub human class, have very few rights, and in some cases are not educated, allowed to sing, enter parks, show their faces, go out without a chaperone etc, etc.

Unfortunately, the men who are entering Britain illegally right now tend to come from pot B. This scares the shit out of me, and it would scare me just as much if they were white. This is not a colour thing, it's a culture thing.

Agree. I would be just as concerned if white, ‘repeal the 19th’ MAGA men were flooding the country, but that isn’t happening.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:53

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 14:51

If we create the right opportunities, it won't flourish. Rigid ideas about "who we are" are a fear reaction. On both sides.

And what of previously fairly liberal Muslim countries that did offer opportunities, that fell to extreme Sharia?

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 14:53

Figtreegirl · Today 14:39

God this is so true. Ask any of your plastic patriots what British culture means and they'll probably say things like the Royal Family (German/Greek), fish and chips (invented by Jewish immigrants less than 200 years ago), the Beatles (didn't exist 65 years ago), the Blitz spirit (obviously didn't exist pre-Blitz).

If you asked someone in 1926 they'd have said different things. 1826 different things again. 2126 will be different things again I'm sure. Culture moves on all the time.

What people miss is the familiarity of their childhoods and the recent past. But it all moves on, always has always will.

What the plastic patriots really mean is brown people, of course.

What a lazy and ignorant summery of British culture. How clever of you to cherry pick the 'royal family' and 'fish and chips' and laugh at the foolish British for thinking they had a culture. I don't think any of my ancestors in rural farming Norfolk, the crofters in the Scottish highlands, those in west Wales or those from county Kerry would have picked any of the things you mentioned as their culture, strangely enough. They knew what their culture was because they lived immersed it in every day and had for generations. We know what it was and is still.

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 14:53

blondeseaside · Today 14:51

I never gave any statistics based on colour. If I were to look at stats, I would look at who was born here, and who has arrived recently illegally.

No, Japanese culture is not Western culture, however, we know that they are generally a law abiding, respectful cohort of people, and they don't class women as sub-humans.

I guess I would need to split the world's countries into two categories -

A) Countries where women are equal to men and can do everything that men can.

B) Countries where women are treated as a sub human class, have very few rights, and in some cases are not educated, allowed to sing, enter parks, show their faces, go out without a chaperone etc, etc.

Unfortunately, the men who are entering Britain illegally right now tend to come from pot B. This scares the shit out of me, and it would scare me just as much if they were white. This is not a colour thing, it's a culture thing.

I think you need to look a little deeper at the Japanese cultural place of women. It's certainly not Afghanistan, but there's a lot of hidden sexism and sexual abuse.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:53

But you haven't answered my question at all. Is there such a thing as an indigenous culture, anywhere in the world?

They won’t answer this. They never do.

Figtreegirl · Today 14:53

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:48

So in your view nobody has a culture because they can probably all be traced back to somewhere different?

Nobody has a permanent culture. Culture changes all the time.

LittleRobins · Today 14:54

These are simply the changes we are seeing in our lifetime. Throughout history people have hated change with towns turning into cities, industrialisation, the building of canals and railways, the introduction of aeroplanes etc etc. We don’t have to like it but change is inevitable.

Dontlletmedownbruce · Today 14:58

People are angry but as always, doing fuck all about it and taking no responsibility. Today people can't get part time jobs cos the majority of people fell over themselves to go to the self service tills when they came out. Everyone bought a smart phone. People made SM accounts. As far as i can see, no one cares how much packaging they use. People get stuff they don't need shipped across the world to save £5 not caring about the environmental impact. Women have about 50 skin products they don't use without caring where it came from. People buy out of season fruit because we want to. People use chatGBT to type single sentence messages cos they are that lazy, knowing it uses a lot of energy. The world sold its soul to US tech in the past 30 years. Ultimately people don't care about the impact of anything they do and would rather moan about their own expenses going up than make a change. Those that resist changes are sneered at and called old fashioned or worse. Why weren't we out protesting against replacing humans with computers when it first began? No one gave a shit then.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:58

Figtreegirl · Today 14:53

Nobody has a permanent culture. Culture changes all the time.

So you have no issue with (eg) Australia not ‘giving the land back’ to Aboriginals?

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 14:58

@Figtreegirl it's foolish how you scoff and deride British culture. It's just as ignorant as if you sniggered at Indian culture as not being real or definable simply because tikka masala and cricket came from Britain.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 14:59

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 14:42

But that's just the thing, it isn't my interpretation. It's British culture as according to historians, sociologists, British cultural scholars etc. It has been defined at great length time and again, some people have made it their life's work.
And I very clearly started that no culture is fixed and immutable. I said in an earlier post that is always growing.

Willfully misunderstanding someone is a poor way to try and win a debate, everyone here can see you doing it. My words are right above for all to see. Obviously you have some deep need to believe that there is no traditional British culture in any clear or definable way, and only you can know why it is so important to you to hold on to that fallacy.

I'm sorry, but you're showing your ignorance. There is no single, universally accepted, definitive scholarly account of what constitutes "British culture". Nor has "British culture" remained stable and immutable over time.

There are interpretations, observations and opinions. Points of agreement and points of disagreement. Things which remain stable and things which evolve and change over time. Aspects which are accepted by the majority and aspects that are accepted by smaller groups. Differences shaped by factors such as geography, history, identity and socio-economic class.

You are seeking to massively oversimplify something that is inherently complex. I understand why you want to do that. But it doesn't work.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:59

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 14:59

I'm sorry, but you're showing your ignorance. There is no single, universally accepted, definitive scholarly account of what constitutes "British culture". Nor has "British culture" remained stable and immutable over time.

There are interpretations, observations and opinions. Points of agreement and points of disagreement. Things which remain stable and things which evolve and change over time. Aspects which are accepted by the majority and aspects that are accepted by smaller groups. Differences shaped by factors such as geography, history, identity and socio-economic class.

You are seeking to massively oversimplify something that is inherently complex. I understand why you want to do that. But it doesn't work.

So does anywhere have a culture?

blondeseaside · Today 15:00

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 14:53

I think you need to look a little deeper at the Japanese cultural place of women. It's certainly not Afghanistan, but there's a lot of hidden sexism and sexual abuse.

I'm aware of that. And the fact that most married men take a mistress. But women have autonomy and rights. They aren't stoned to death if they are married and get raped by another man (for eg). They are not in the dark ages, they are in Pot A, not Pot B.