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To absolutely hate this government, and what they are doing to our country? PART 2

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CoventryCity · 22/09/2026 10:14

A continuation of Thread 1.

Strong words but is is how I feel at this point in time. All of them make me feel physically sick. Why? Well many reasons.. Here are just two.

Eg. They won't release sex crime statistics of immigrants / asylum seekers. Why? Other European countries have done, and it is not pretty. Our gvt gives out a leaflet asking them not to rape the locals. Why? Our gvt has said they won't house asylum seekers next to schools and nurseries, why?

Eg. UK now spends more on benefits than it earns in income tax. Labour have increased this - not reduced it. Astonishing. As they say - "Who can we tax in order to pay benefits to others?" That's Labour's Welfare Secretary. He's describing the priorities of Labour MPs.

In the last financial year, the UK government brought in £331 billion in income tax — and spent even more, £333 billion, on welfare, according to the Office for Budget Responsibility's latest economic and fiscal outlook (obr.uk/efo/economic-and-fiscal-outlook-march-2026/#chapter-6).

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hedgeknight · 25/09/2026 10:20

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 09:52

I've no interest in playing games so I wouldn't know. I do like Mumsnet's crosswords though.

It was in the news sections.

General knowledge helps with crosswords

RedTagAlan · 25/09/2026 10:22

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 09:01

How is my drawing attention to an abandoned toddler in waters, relevant to the photo of a deceased child, without a trigger warning? Simple question - don't all rush to answer it at once.

I posted a newspaper article. An article covering a story most of us here are familiar with. And that article has a photo, one of a few different ones, that is, or should be, etched in the collective memory of the free west.

Do you want trigger warnings when you walk into a newsagent and are confronted with front pages like that ?

As PPs have said. It's an article with a photo of a man carrying a child. Then other posters exclaim " but it's a dead child". And there you go, that people know it is a dead child show it is etched into our collective memory. And I reckon it should stay there, in our memory.

This next bit is not directed at you, but at the boat smashers and the "sink them all" crowd.

I think the story should stay a memory. And not be tomorrow's news.

This is a public form after all. And more people will be reading this than posting. So just in case there is anyone reading this, who are calling the RLNI traitors, or supporting the protestors who do say that, then please read about Alan Kurdi, and think if you want this to be repeated in tomorrow's news .

hedgeknight · 25/09/2026 10:23

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 10:01

Many of those in these camps are there because they don't register for asylum in France. They go through the whole of the EU, multiple multiple safe nations but choose to risk death not just for themselves but for their kids as well.

The fundamental principle of seeking asylum applies to everyone

5128gap · 25/09/2026 10:29

TemperanceWest · 25/09/2026 10:08

There is a logical fallacy here. You are framing this as though our government is in favour of mass immigration and is trying to conceal negative impacts to avoid public resistance, that it wants to 'take away' objections

That is exactly what some believe @5128gap They think the government wants to "replace" the population.

This is a Daily Mail headline 👇. In the comments section people are claiming this is deliberate and planned. Some are saying it's the reason people are being advised to stock up in case of emergency. It's crazy what hate will lead people to believe.

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I think there's potential for the government to take steps to counter this, with regular briefings in person from the PM on what is being done, the outcomes, the reasons for set backs, so commitment is demonstrated, and there is no information vacuum to be filled by this sort of nonsense.
However, its difficult to get an accurate gauge of the extent of concern and strength of feeling in the mainstream. Coming on to these threads gives a skewed view, but in reality, it's the same handful of posters. In real life, I find people are not preoccupied with this issue, and certainly the protests are not well attended. So perhaps this would be disproportionate.

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 10:36

hedgeknight · 25/09/2026 10:23

The fundamental principle of seeking asylum applies to everyone

Only if the country is party to the refugee convention. No every country is. India isn't. They'll provide life saving maritime aid and then sent and redirect any boats away.

Thezookeepersneice · 25/09/2026 10:38

5128gap · 25/09/2026 10:29

I think there's potential for the government to take steps to counter this, with regular briefings in person from the PM on what is being done, the outcomes, the reasons for set backs, so commitment is demonstrated, and there is no information vacuum to be filled by this sort of nonsense.
However, its difficult to get an accurate gauge of the extent of concern and strength of feeling in the mainstream. Coming on to these threads gives a skewed view, but in reality, it's the same handful of posters. In real life, I find people are not preoccupied with this issue, and certainly the protests are not well attended. So perhaps this would be disproportionate.

I agree with this - and I also think it’s a difficult balance. Rishi Sunak stood in front of that “stop the boats” lectern, giving updates, and it only made immigration more of a talking point, and, in my opinion, added fuel to the fire.

I genuinely don’t know how we have a pragmatic, humane conversation about immigration while there is so much hysteria and hyperbole, and it seems so easy for bad faith actors to whip people into a frenzy.

My instinct though, is that in the real world most people do see this as a complex issue that successive political parties have tried and failed to solve, rather than a sinister Government ploy, and also as less important than the cost of living or the NHS.

hedgeknight · 25/09/2026 10:38

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 10:36

Only if the country is party to the refugee convention. No every country is. India isn't. They'll provide life saving maritime aid and then sent and redirect any boats away.

The UK is and that is what matters.

We can't turn boats back without co-operation, hence the France deal.

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 10:40

5128gap · 25/09/2026 10:29

I think there's potential for the government to take steps to counter this, with regular briefings in person from the PM on what is being done, the outcomes, the reasons for set backs, so commitment is demonstrated, and there is no information vacuum to be filled by this sort of nonsense.
However, its difficult to get an accurate gauge of the extent of concern and strength of feeling in the mainstream. Coming on to these threads gives a skewed view, but in reality, it's the same handful of posters. In real life, I find people are not preoccupied with this issue, and certainly the protests are not well attended. So perhaps this would be disproportionate.

If people don’t care as you say then yes of course Labour would be fine to not care either. If you really think it’s only ‘the same handful of posters’ and that’s it, it’d be interesting to see Labour follow that.

I doubt that’s the case hence appointing Mahmood and voting through stricter policies.

Whether it helps them we’ll see.

To add filling up the media with briefings probably won’t help you, since the numbers fluctuate and a week can be over 1000.

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2026 10:40

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 10:01

Many of those in these camps are there because they don't register for asylum in France. They go through the whole of the EU, multiple multiple safe nations but choose to risk death not just for themselves but for their kids as well.

But they’re all “fighting age” men, aren’t they?

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 10:45

hedgeknight · 25/09/2026 10:38

The UK is and that is what matters.

We can't turn boats back without co-operation, hence the France deal.

But you can deny them their asylum claim and send back to home country?

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 10:47

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2026 10:40

But they’re all “fighting age” men, aren’t they?

If they are or aren't, so what?

hedgeknight · 25/09/2026 10:48

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 10:45

But you can deny them their asylum claim and send back to home country?

Yes, as long as you adhere to non-refoulement principle.

Nobody is saying everyone should be granted asylum.

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2026 10:50

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 10:47

If they are or aren't, so what?

If they’re all “fighting age” men they’re not choosing to risk death for their kids. If women and children are involved then it’s not all “fighting age” men. I really do wish people like you would make up their minds. I can’t keep up with it, it’s giving me whiplash.

shecanbe · 25/09/2026 10:51

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 08:32

You can't transfer it to all of them but it's more likely that they aren't very lovely fellows. In a group there'd be more bad people.

If you look at the USA a certain group despite only making up 13% of the population commit 50% of the homicides. That's a fact straight from the FBI. So read into that what you may.

People raised in a country, carry and have that culture through them.

Even in the Nordic nations those born in the country but from foreign backgrounds have higher per capita crime rates. Facts simply don't care about your feelings.

Are these the 'cold hard facts' you want me to respond to @Brudffaa ?

Firstly, who are the 'certain group?' That might help.

Secondly, can you not think of any intersecting realities that might contribute to higher crime rates for 'certain groups' in the US? Poverty, educational disadvantage, regional disparities, urban v. rural distributions, structural racism - off the top of my head - that might contribute to disproportionate crime rates?

And by 'certain group,' am I to assume you mean an ethnic group? In which case, were many of the 'certain group' not born in the US anyway? Immigrant, first gen, fifth gen - who exactly are this 13% of the US population?

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 10:51

hedgeknight · 25/09/2026 10:20

It was in the news sections.

General knowledge helps with crosswords

It certainly does.

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 10:52

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 10:47

If they are or aren't, so what?

I don’t think some can get it’s mostly men, and women and children who are at higher risk. They seem confused about it. But it’s one of the simpler parts to get.

LakieLady · 25/09/2026 10:52

Papyrophile · 24/09/2026 21:56

Meanwhile, I still think that Islam remains a pre-historic religion with caveman attitudes to women.

There are many different branches of Islam and they vary a lot. Some of them are very strict, and some are much more liberal. You can't judge the whole of Islam by the practices of (eg) the Wahhabi branch of Islam, which is at the more extreme end.

A former colleague was a Muslim convert. He belonged to a branch of Islam that didn't require extremes of dress for women, practise FGM or anything else that would be at odds with most UK cultural norms. He was married to a Muslim woman and his in-laws would offer alcohol to non-Muslim guests, although they didn't drink it themselves. And he used to bring lovely leftovers cooked by his Muslim MIL into work for us all to share!

RedTagAlan · 25/09/2026 10:54

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 09:05

Deterrence against traffickers is hard and may not work long term. Supply chains get re established. So after a lull there can be a week with 1000 entering as we just had.

The demand for what is being sold is incredibly high. With any highly lucrative business someone will fill it.

How about if Farage was to stop yelling " Open borders. free money. free houses, free medical", do you think that might help reduce demand ?

We could do a trial with that. Maybe ask Farage to yell " The borders are closed, no free money subsistence only, crappy accommodation, low asylum grant rate unless genuine, DO NOT COME"...

Do you think that might help reduce demand at all ?

I think it is worth a try to find out.

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 10:58

RedTagAlan · 25/09/2026 10:22

I posted a newspaper article. An article covering a story most of us here are familiar with. And that article has a photo, one of a few different ones, that is, or should be, etched in the collective memory of the free west.

Do you want trigger warnings when you walk into a newsagent and are confronted with front pages like that ?

As PPs have said. It's an article with a photo of a man carrying a child. Then other posters exclaim " but it's a dead child". And there you go, that people know it is a dead child show it is etched into our collective memory. And I reckon it should stay there, in our memory.

This next bit is not directed at you, but at the boat smashers and the "sink them all" crowd.

I think the story should stay a memory. And not be tomorrow's news.

This is a public form after all. And more people will be reading this than posting. So just in case there is anyone reading this, who are calling the RLNI traitors, or supporting the protestors who do say that, then please read about Alan Kurdi, and think if you want this to be repeated in tomorrow's news .

It's other people who have made something out of my post. Twisting it to come up with all sorts of things I'm meant to have said or done. I've moved on.

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2026 10:59

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 10:52

I don’t think some can get it’s mostly men, and women and children who are at higher risk. They seem confused about it. But it’s one of the simpler parts to get.

That’s not why I’m confused.

2dogsandabudgie · 25/09/2026 10:59

RedTagAlan · 25/09/2026 05:53

I posted a link to an article that had a similar story that was being discussed, and my comment "People do see many things in different ways"., and from that one comment, you deduced that I don't " get the full picture "?

I think you have made a few leaps of logic there. I should have expanded sorry. It's an observation on how different media can, and does, shape opinion. And perhaps how it can reinforce existing prejudices.

Do you remember Aylan Kurdi ? The little boy whose death, for a little while, stopped the world. I do. And it stopped me in my tracks. And for lots of people, including me, I am still stopped in my tracks over those photos. And it appears a lot of media sources maybe are too. And lets throw in this thing called compassion, and an ability to see a much bigger picture. A global picture.

Alan Kurdi: Did the photo of a dead child on a beach change anything? | News World | Metro News

Quote " It does beg the question why would a parent risk their children's lives with this dangerous crossing."

I think to answer that, I won't say " because English is the most taught language", but I will try to paint a bigger picture.

Imagine you are in far off land. A family member is maybe being hunted for political, conscription, or religious reasons. Or maybe you are desperate to escape poverty. To want a better life. To get away, get a job to send money home to loved ones. Maybe to try to get settled, and hope loved ones can join you later.

So you call in the local fixer who can arrange things. And he shows you newspaper articles etc to try to sell you a product. And remember, the fixer wants to make as much money as possible.

What newspapers articles will he show ? How about GB news or the like. Farage on the front page, headlines are " UK has open borders", "Migrants get free money, free houses, 4 star hotels, free medical, chain migration".

What product will those grandparents, extended family etc decide to buy ? And who will they send ?

Do you think if Farage and palls really cared about migration, the best thing for them to do is to stand on a world soapbox and yell mistruths and lies so loudly that they can be heard by people in persecuted and impoverished communities worldwide ? Or should he maybe tone it down a little, so he is not helping the traffickers sell their product?

That is the big picture I see. Can you see the same picture as me ?

I do remember that harrowing photo. That was the photo that made everyone think enough is enough. It was supposed to be the turning point to stop criminals trafficking people and cramming them on to small boats. And yet here we are 11 years later and it is still happening.

I remember when it was lorries that the criminals used. Then there were 2 horrific incidents where over 100 economic migrants suffocated in the back of lorries. There was such outrage over that and that route in to the UK was swiftly stopped.

If the Government wanted to stop these crossings they could do.

RedTagAlan · 25/09/2026 10:59

TemperanceWest · 25/09/2026 09:41

I am not a sick fucker so no I haven't. But there is this thing called the Internet which provides useful info. Here you go:

mobilegamer.biz/reform-uk-launched-a-stop-the-boats-game-within-its-ios-and-android-app/

Trump has similar on the official Whitehouse site. Round up the migrants, build the wall. That sort of thing.

No need to download. They work right there on the page.

On the official government WH site.

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 11:03

2dogsandabudgie · 25/09/2026 10:59

I do remember that harrowing photo. That was the photo that made everyone think enough is enough. It was supposed to be the turning point to stop criminals trafficking people and cramming them on to small boats. And yet here we are 11 years later and it is still happening.

I remember when it was lorries that the criminals used. Then there were 2 horrific incidents where over 100 economic migrants suffocated in the back of lorries. There was such outrage over that and that route in to the UK was swiftly stopped.

If the Government wanted to stop these crossings they could do.

The crossings won't be stopped because no government wants to stop them.

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2026 11:05

If the Government wanted to stop these crossings they could do.

Then why have successive governments failed? If it’s so easy why didn’t Sunak do it? It would probably have won him the last election. And please don’t mention Rwanda because it wouldn’t have worked.

Thezookeepersneice · 25/09/2026 11:05

2dogsandabudgie · 25/09/2026 10:59

I do remember that harrowing photo. That was the photo that made everyone think enough is enough. It was supposed to be the turning point to stop criminals trafficking people and cramming them on to small boats. And yet here we are 11 years later and it is still happening.

I remember when it was lorries that the criminals used. Then there were 2 horrific incidents where over 100 economic migrants suffocated in the back of lorries. There was such outrage over that and that route in to the UK was swiftly stopped.

If the Government wanted to stop these crossings they could do.

This is a genuine question, and I’m struggling to articulate it in a way that doesn’t feel loaded, but do you honestly think that for 11yrs both Conservative and Labour governments have had the capability to stop these crossings and deliberately chosen not to do so? I’m just really struggling to see how, or why, that would be the case.