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To feel relieved the school has now completely banned phones

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Eastie77Returns · 04/09/2026 14:15

DD’s school has completely banned phones for all incoming Y7 pupils and this will last for the entirety of their time at the school going toward. Existing pupils are still allowed to bring phones in but have to keep to the old rule (if they are seen or heard they are confiscated for 20 days).

DD is Y9 so she will be able to follow the old rule but DS, who starts secondary next year, will not be able to take one in. I honestly feel a massive sense of relief. He doesn’t have a phone at the moment and I was planning to get him an old style Nokia as he isn’t bothered about tech or latest phones. However I was a bit worried that he’d feel left if all his friends had iPhones etc. The school seems pretty serious about it all, all pupils and parents have to sign an agreement and any child caught with a phone will be excluded - no questions asked. The mother of DS’ best friend has now decided she will not send her DS to the school as originally planned as she thinks the ban is reckless and dangerous?! AIBU to think the ban is fine and makes complete sense plus millions of children managed to get to and from school safely without phones a generation ago!

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Newname26 · Today 00:08

I don't get it either, the crazy thing is we can't be far off the second generation to grow up with phones.
Those parents are going to be even less likely to support blanket phone bans than the older generation who didn't.

I asked on a previous thread when did phones become the norm for teens, the answer was early 2000s.
Those kids will now be mid 30s, some will have secondary aged kids.

BySharpBee · Today 00:15

MargaretThursday · 05/09/2026 10:58

As someone who was at school in the 80s/90s I would use one several times a term.
Using a payphone to call home (and to call 999) was part of one of the Brownie badges and I can also remember it being taught in primary school. It was considered something important we should know.

At school we had a phone box and I remember calling for things like

Wanting to join an afterschool activity
After school club cancelled.
Staying on with a friend after school
Going to the library to do some homework
Going to a friend's house
Sport's match finished (for that we used to let the phone ring three time, come off and then do the same again to save the 10p)
Forgotten something
"How's granny?"
If a friend was off ill, we'd often crowd into the phone box to call them at break.

If I'd gone to town with friends, I might call to say I was on the way home, or plans had changed or permission to get something etc.

All those things would probably be done by a WhatsApp message now which is far simpler!

Such a good point re. ringing 999 👏. I hadn't thought of that, but you're absolutely right, needing to call because of being a victim of or witness to an unfolding emergency is SO important

Newname26 · Today 00:55

BySharpBee · Today 00:15

Such a good point re. ringing 999 👏. I hadn't thought of that, but you're absolutely right, needing to call because of being a victim of or witness to an unfolding emergency is SO important

One of my kids had a Biff n Chip book with a tale of vandalised phone boxes, it seemed dated 10 years ago.
I couldn't think where our nearest was never-mind the second or third nearest

concertinacornflake · Today 01:19

Rubyscurls · Yesterday 23:44

This would put me off a school. I’m with your friend. I don’t understand this recent crop of threads, which bear little resemblance to real life with posters purporting that they have no idea why there would ever be a situation in which a pupil may need to use a phone out of school! If so many parents really didn’t want their secondary children to have a phone, they’d just not provide them with one! There’s a concern about social media, which most parents are concerned about, but that’s not the same thing. It’s just really really odd.

I am also surprised by the posters who want to make all kids travel independently without access to any type of phone. I've never met anyone who holds that view IRL.

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