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DH-same PJs, no pants, 7 days… am I overrea

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Yousay55 · 06/08/2026 22:48

My dh goes to bed in the same pjs every night -washes them once or twice a week and doesn’t wear anything underneath. We’re on holiday and hasn’t washed them in a week now.
I think it’s pretty awful to wear the same ones without washing them and can’t imagine putting on the same pjs at the end of the day. We’ve had a debate and he thinks it’s what all men do. I think I’m going to buy him a pair to wear everyday day so this doesn’t keep happening!

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Finsku · 07/08/2026 23:33

LemonSnail · 06/08/2026 23:08

I mostly sleep standing up by the side of the bed and then get the carpet cleaned each morning.

🤣🤣🤣 Thanks for making me chuckle! I haven't felt well today and have a long day tomorrow and this thread is cheering me up.

Shloopie · 07/08/2026 23:40

I also have a little shudder at the thought of men in pyjamas. Same with men who carry a canvas tote bag on their shoulder. A man sleeping next to me wearing pyjamas and a little tote bag on his slumbering shoulder would be the stuff of nightmares.

AskAggie · 07/08/2026 23:44

Why? Surely if they don’t wear pyjamas they wear boxers.

MaryBeardsShoes · 08/08/2026 07:37

wishingonastar101 · 07/08/2026 11:26

Never met a man who wears PJs.

How would you know?!? Do you ask every single man you meet ??

MaryBeardsShoes · 08/08/2026 07:39

Hollowvoice · 07/08/2026 17:41

I can't believe so many people are repulsed by a man in pyjamas

Pyjamas are another way MN isn’t like the real world!

daisy187 · 08/08/2026 07:49

Unless he shits himself I don’t see the issue but also, don’t know any man who wears PJs. I live in my pjs when I’m at home but don’t sleep in them but still don’t wash them every day, I’m sat on my settee doing nothing in them and don’t see the need!

FastFood · 08/08/2026 07:58

MaryBeardsShoes · 08/08/2026 07:39

Pyjamas are another way MN isn’t like the real world!

Since I read that soap bars were gross nothing can surprise me anymore.

LemonSnail · 08/08/2026 08:07

AskAggie · 07/08/2026 23:44

Why? Surely if they don’t wear pyjamas they wear boxers.

Nope, my husband and I both sleep naked.

B1anche · 08/08/2026 08:58

FastFood · 08/08/2026 07:58

Since I read that soap bars were gross nothing can surprise me anymore.

Oh no, why are soap bars gross?

Watee · 08/08/2026 08:59

B1anche · 08/08/2026 08:58

Oh no, why are soap bars gross?

Probably because it touches your body. Anything that touches your body on mn is gross and must be washed immediately or thrown away.

B1anche · 08/08/2026 09:01

Watee · 08/08/2026 08:59

Probably because it touches your body. Anything that touches your body on mn is gross and must be washed immediately or thrown away.

Ahh of course. What a disgusting species we are!

AImportantMermaid · 08/08/2026 09:08

I can’t wear pants in bed. I need to air my giblets.

HarshbutTrue2 · 09/08/2026 06:25

It would be really gross if he was wearing a string vest under his pyjamas and not changing that either

Peterbyres1 · 09/08/2026 07:03

Clean pyjamas every day sems a but much! (I wear a t shirt and boxers in bed and probably change them every 3rd/4th night)

BeanQuisine · 09/08/2026 07:34

I have pyjamas but don't wear them in bed, I only wear them in the supermarket.

But I do my supermarket shopping online these days, so just put the PJs on while I'm compiling my order.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 09/08/2026 07:52

I wear pjs for a week but with pants. I wouldn't notice how long DH wears his for but normally he just wears pants anyway unless it's cold.

AlwaysExtraHot · 10/08/2026 09:39

Shloopie · 07/08/2026 23:40

I also have a little shudder at the thought of men in pyjamas. Same with men who carry a canvas tote bag on their shoulder. A man sleeping next to me wearing pyjamas and a little tote bag on his slumbering shoulder would be the stuff of nightmares.

Well, anyone wearing a tote bag in bed would be seriously weird Grinbut what's
the issue with men using canvas tote bags generally?

AlwaysExtraHot · 10/08/2026 09:41

LemonSnail · 08/08/2026 08:07

Nope, my husband and I both sleep naked.

My DP sleeps naked too. And he doesn't wear boxers.

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