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DH-same PJs, no pants, 7 days… am I overrea

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Yousay55 · 06/08/2026 22:48

My dh goes to bed in the same pjs every night -washes them once or twice a week and doesn’t wear anything underneath. We’re on holiday and hasn’t washed them in a week now.
I think it’s pretty awful to wear the same ones without washing them and can’t imagine putting on the same pjs at the end of the day. We’ve had a debate and he thinks it’s what all men do. I think I’m going to buy him a pair to wear everyday day so this doesn’t keep happening!

OP posts:
Finsku · Yesterday 23:33

LemonSnail · 06/08/2026 23:08

I mostly sleep standing up by the side of the bed and then get the carpet cleaned each morning.

🤣🤣🤣 Thanks for making me chuckle! I haven't felt well today and have a long day tomorrow and this thread is cheering me up.

Shloopie · Yesterday 23:40

I also have a little shudder at the thought of men in pyjamas. Same with men who carry a canvas tote bag on their shoulder. A man sleeping next to me wearing pyjamas and a little tote bag on his slumbering shoulder would be the stuff of nightmares.

AskAggie · Yesterday 23:44

Why? Surely if they don’t wear pyjamas they wear boxers.

MaryBeardsShoes · Today 07:37

wishingonastar101 · Yesterday 11:26

Never met a man who wears PJs.

How would you know?!? Do you ask every single man you meet ??

MaryBeardsShoes · Today 07:39

Hollowvoice · Yesterday 17:41

I can't believe so many people are repulsed by a man in pyjamas

Pyjamas are another way MN isn’t like the real world!

daisy187 · Today 07:49

Unless he shits himself I don’t see the issue but also, don’t know any man who wears PJs. I live in my pjs when I’m at home but don’t sleep in them but still don’t wash them every day, I’m sat on my settee doing nothing in them and don’t see the need!

FastFood · Today 07:58

MaryBeardsShoes · Today 07:39

Pyjamas are another way MN isn’t like the real world!

Since I read that soap bars were gross nothing can surprise me anymore.

LemonSnail · Today 08:07

AskAggie · Yesterday 23:44

Why? Surely if they don’t wear pyjamas they wear boxers.

Nope, my husband and I both sleep naked.

B1anche · Today 08:58

FastFood · Today 07:58

Since I read that soap bars were gross nothing can surprise me anymore.

Oh no, why are soap bars gross?

Watee · Today 08:59

B1anche · Today 08:58

Oh no, why are soap bars gross?

Probably because it touches your body. Anything that touches your body on mn is gross and must be washed immediately or thrown away.

B1anche · Today 09:01

Watee · Today 08:59

Probably because it touches your body. Anything that touches your body on mn is gross and must be washed immediately or thrown away.

Ahh of course. What a disgusting species we are!

AImportantMermaid · Today 09:08

I can’t wear pants in bed. I need to air my giblets.

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