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to tell son NOT to post memes of black people

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mazxim · 17/08/2024 13:34

Please help me . Huge row with 11 year old.

His friend posted a meme of a black person with "bombastic side eye".

He wants to repost it to some silly comment.

I said it is wrong and not the right thing to do even if the person "bombastic side eye" posted it himself on tin tok.

Please give me your thoughts.

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Danglers · 17/08/2024 18:49

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LiesLiesEverywhere · 17/08/2024 19:02

Right you are @Danglers

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LiesLiesEverywhere · 17/08/2024 19:10

🤣😂😆🤣😂

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Rewis · 17/08/2024 19:19

Learn something new every day. I'm now a racist cause I used a gif of Serena Williams to a friend who mentioned she won something. Here I thought I was using a gif of the GOAT to hype up a friend.

IdgieThreadgoodeIsMyHeroine · 17/08/2024 19:24

TheGander · 17/08/2024 14:53

He’s already accused her of trying to separate him from his friends . Tweens and teens can be incredibly forceful and manipulative in their quest to be on social media. I wouldn’t kick the OP for that.

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I would.

Demonhunter · 17/08/2024 19:26

Showed my teens this thread and how many people are offended. They started laughing and said "old people man" 😂😂 and have given me a few bombastic side eyes and criminal offensive side eyes when they see me!

Demonhunter · 17/08/2024 19:35

I remember years ago someone on Twitter or FB posting this in relation to a reality show (then poster was black) and it blew up. Loads of people proceeded to use it, memes made, gifs made and many people saying it got them watching Nollywood films for the first time. That surely can't be a bad thing either!
https://youtube.com/shorts/W6oQUDFV2C0?si=9LpDkNpE1Zvqqhm8

Before you continue to YouTube

https://youtube.com/shorts/W6oQUDFV2C0?si=9LpDkNpE1Zvqqhm8

HollyKnight · 17/08/2024 19:59

RIP Danglers

LiesLiesEverywhere · 17/08/2024 20:21

Wait, what happened to @danglers? There wasn’t anything offensive posted was there??

HollyKnight · 17/08/2024 20:36

LiesLiesEverywhere · 17/08/2024 20:21

Wait, what happened to @danglers? There wasn’t anything offensive posted was there??

Nope.

I'm guessing someone decided she was spamming so they nuked her account.

thecatsarecrazy · 17/08/2024 21:02

It's not racist. Ive seen the same with a dog.

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 17/08/2024 23:16

HollyKnight · 17/08/2024 20:36

Nope.

I'm guessing someone decided she was spamming so they nuked her account.

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Uh oh

That's a shame though

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Elsvieta · 18/08/2024 20:28

My thought: why would you let an 11yo have a smartphone?

gentlemum · 18/08/2024 21:38

Because they are white and it's a black person in the meme.

@Sheilawheelss is that a joke??

Josette77 · 19/08/2024 00:45

InkyPinkyPonky24 · 17/08/2024 18:45

@Josette77 Would it not be better to re-educate the other child though? They are still only 11 years old and are still learning.

Sure. They can be educated. Part of that education is using racial slurs has consequences. A consequence is losing friends.

It's not my kids job to teach people not to be racist.

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