hi, i'm sure i am quiet popular on mn for going on about ds2, i apologise in advance, its just that i am finding this parenting thing ever so difficult with him...with ds1 it was almost a breeze...or was it?ds1 was text book style and i could figuare him out and solve the problem but ds2's solution to everything is ME CARRYING HIM...AND GIVING HIM UNDIVIDED ATTENTION! i had started weaning him onto solids from about 3 weeks ago and it all began smoothly...i have given him pureed veges and tastes of many fruits, baby rice and cereal and he seemed to enjoy most of it, he loved weetabix and carrots. but for the past 3-4 days he has given up on all meals, closing his mouth and throwing his head back and crying. he only takes water and bf regularly. i have noticed that he is okay to take food in his hand, like toast and he enjoys feeding himself, although most of it ends up ouside his mouth! i have heard of blw but haven't looked into it yet...will do now after this post...maybe there is an answer there for me. i have also noticed that his poo has been very runny and green, pls bear in mind he is exclusively bf. i am just so disappointed as i thought i was doing well with the weaning and now i am not sure...he does this-he leaves me quiet blank and bewildered . on top of this he crys almost all the time and i need to be near him, almost touching for him to stop and this is draining as there is ds1 to also give attention to, he is very forgiving but equally demanding. and i am such a fussy mum, i just cant let it be, i have to teach my ds1 right from wrong, tell him why there is rainbow in the sky and show him how to put his shoes on....i feel like if i dont teach him, who will?and i dont want strangers to teach him...like in a nursery, when i am there and i know for sure i will give him my undivided attention with out judging him...but all this takes energy and i am empty, refuelling with diet coke and choclates and tea when ever i can. and to top that theres a house to run...and pls dont say partner as we know almost all of them are useless and only useful when you are constantly on their back and then you become a nag so i'd rather not. i feel like crying....really loud and getting this frustration out from inside me so i can carry on..but i dont even have time for that...i am always out and abou as this is my only sanity saver and both kids demand less of me when we are out, but the house then falls apart and i eventually have to pck up the pieces...so i fear even going out...i am going on, i must stop.
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Cant figuare out ds2 and feel weepy and pathetic! am just looking for a kind shoulder to lean on...
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kutilputil · 14/06/2009 20:23
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