My partner is a useless dad. He adores his six year old son and financially takes very good care of him but past that he doesn't have a clue! He finds being a dad very very hard, he still isn't comfortable with his son. He sees him a few hours a week and is very happy with it being this way. The issue is, the ex although is a good mum she's so different to me and him, she's an introvert, not good socially, doesn't like sport or being outdoors and it's rubbing off on the son. We had him on Christmas Eve and he sat watching Tv all day and didn't want to go outdoors or play at all. It makes it very hard for me to bond with him, I'm not a natural with kids but I'm good if we have a common interest to occupy us and spark conversation, but only having him over once a week it's very hard to have an influence on him. I just don't understand how my partner doesn't want to make changes? My partner is amazing at sport, and he wants his son to be too yet won't do anything to encourage or teach the boy. If I had a kid we would live at the park! My partner just does as the ex instructs and doesn't want to make an effort to try anything different. Is it easier for me to just accept not my kid, not my problem? And no, my partner can't even handle a conversation about it without getting stressed out, I've tried many times.
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At what point do you just let go/give up???
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Frankelly66 · 26/12/2016 23:57
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