For a long time now I've been really saddened that I've not been able to post on the SN boards.
I took a brief foray into there when I was a newb years and years ago now and got my head bitten off because I have my own way of doing things with my children. I thought it would be a supportive, empathetic, inclusive place to be.
It happened at a time I was particularly fragile, so I retreated to the main boards thinking it was just me.
Having got to know some other parents who also have children with disabilities I discovered this was not the case. At least five others have left for the exact same reason.
Tonight I responded to a post which stated that I was somehow failing my children. The thread had been moved from a main board, I repeat I do not routinely go to the SN board due to the way posters have behaved to me there on three occasions now. In return I got a personal attack. Someone else backed me, they got further personal attacks.
Neither me or the others who have been attacked retaliated. We stated our views calmly and logically and got MEGA CAPITALS in return.
It seems to be becoming more and more nasty and confrontational on there as time goes on. My concern is that a parent undergoing the diagnostic process or with a newly diagnosed child is vulnerable, and as even saying you want to explore all options is a heinous crime on there may get attacked at a time that really isn't good for them.
I even specifically tell parents I know in RL not to go there, and why.
Thing is, what can be done?
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GobbySadcase · 13/02/2014 00:34
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