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Full Moon Fever - any DH/DP/DWs suffer from this?

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PavlovtheWitchesCat · 31/10/2009 08:03

DH goes very strange around full moon, usually about 3 or so days before, up to a day after.

He has done it again this time. His communication has gone to pot, he is irrational and not making an awful lot of sense when he speaks about well a lot of things.

We argue more around this time. Its like he is having a different conversation to the one we are actually having. It is something i notice more and more and more. He refuses to acknowledge it.

Am i the only one? Are there any other's who's DHs (or indeed DWs) suffere from this? What are their signs?

And more importantly, how on earth do you handle it?

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PavlovtheWitchesCat · 31/10/2009 08:15

No? Just my DH then

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PavlovtheWitchesCat · 31/10/2009 08:23

Perhaps no-one is responding because you are all pinned to the walls by your werewolf partners? Or are helping them shave the palms of their hands?

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PavlovtheWitchesCat · 31/10/2009 08:38
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PavlovtheWitchesCat · 31/10/2009 08:44

blimey, it really isn't as interesting as I thought...

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teameric · 31/10/2009 08:46

my DH looks a bit like a werewolf without his clothes but he dosn't go mental when theres a full moon, that'll be me

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PavlovtheWitchesCat · 31/10/2009 08:57

i should not joke about it really its no laughing matter in this household. this is the most recent conversation...

dh: what is your problem
me: i don't think you are m...
dh: what? well?
me: you are not letting me sp..
dh: you are joking aren't you? all you do is speak
me: you are still not le...
dh: i don't know what is going on
me: and still not le..
dh: you just lay into me
me: sp..
dh: you are so cold
me: WHY WONT YOU LET ME JUST FI...
DH: you don't listen to me
me: YOU. WILL. NOT. LET. ME. FINISH. A. SENTEN..
DH: you got that look you HATE me don't you? You fucking hate me? we really need to have a talk about where this is all going, because you look at me like you hate me, because i cannot go on like this, i do not deserve it, and I do not have to...!' All upset, and storms out...WTF?

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PavlovtheWitchesCat · 31/10/2009 08:59

Its been like this all morning too. I will be unable to have any kind of rational conversation with him. Even the arguments are not making sense

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ICouldHaveWrittenThis · 31/10/2009 09:02

That must be really difficult to deal with, I hope you get revenge with PMT

seriously though, i used to get this really badly when i was younger. I used to go out a lot (most nights) and it got to the point where I couldn't really go out on a full moon as I would feel quite violent and have absolutely no tolerance of anybody. NOT good in a busy club.

took me a while to make the link.

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teameric · 31/10/2009 09:16

It does sound like a male version of PMT!
I've been like this all week
mine always seems to tie in with full moon too, it makes me a bit loony

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teameric · 31/10/2009 09:21

you may find this interesting

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PavlovtheWitchesCat · 31/10/2009 11:05

iys exactly like pmt!

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squashedfrogsandeyeofnewt · 31/10/2009 11:12

I haven't noticed this with DP but my mum says both my dad and brother go a bit funny around the full moon. Not sure it's as extreme as Pavlov's DH though. That must be very frustrating for you.

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Malificence · 31/10/2009 13:09

I used to work in a day centre for adults with severe learning disabilities , for a few days before a full moon the behaviour would be unbelievable.

Also, I was a school dinner lady for over 10 years and the kids would go beserk on windy days - how weird is that?

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OrmIrian · 31/10/2009 13:12

pavlov - that sounds like a conversation in our house last night. Only I was playing the part of your DH

Never thought of blaming it on the full moon......

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alfiesmadmother · 31/10/2009 13:17

I go funny round the full moon, really! I get irrational, emotional and horrible!!

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teameric · 31/10/2009 13:20

have you noticed the moon on the top right hand corner of this page? (under advanced search) if you click on it, it tells you exactly what phase the moon is in at the mo, never noticed it before till I found this thread. Weird.

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