Not very important in the grand scheme of things but just need a rant.
My parents are divorced. My mum lives in Yorkshire in the same village as my grandma (My mum's mum) and my dad lives in London about 30 minutes away from me and my sister.
My sister, who lives 10 minutes down the road from me had a baby 2 weeks ago. My mum came down at the time and spent a week. She went home but agreed to come back down for a week when my sister's DH went back to work. All fine to this point...
Last night my grandma was burgled. My mum thinks quite rightly that she shouldn't be left alone for a week, so she rang my dad, from whom she is divorced, and asked him if he would travel 300 miles on the train (he has no car) up to Yorkshire to come and stay with my gran while my mum travels 300 miles down to London by car. So my dad will be up in a semi remote yorkshire village looking after his 80 year old ex mother -in-law with no car while my mum drives 200 miles to 'take my sis out for day trips'. Am I the only one who thinks this is ridiculous? Can my mum not come another time, after all I have 2 children and am therefore experienced at newborns and live 10 MINUTES ROUND THE CORNER!
Nobody has thought to discuss it with my sister, who may not want all the unnecessary fuss.
Not really expecting a response but needed a rant.
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junkcollector · 26/02/2009 13:21
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