Was going to NC but fuck it
I’m approaching 30 and I’ve been single for a couple of years now. I’m definitely attracted to a specific type of man, I.e. someone who’s “dominant”, has a good job and wants to play the traditional “man” role. (Also being tall and good looking helps ).
When I say traditional “man” role I mean be earning at least equal to me and be the main “provider” of the family if we were to have kids in future (I’d want to go PT). I also find it attractive when men are assertive and protective of their families and have strong morals/are chivalrous.
It seems these type of men are becoming either vanishingly rare or the ones that do exist are total dickheads! I OLD and 50% of the men I meet (and I screen them extensively first ) turn out to be very passive and (I’ll be flamed for this) want me to pay half on a first date .
Has anyone got a “traditional” DH/DP or does anyone dare to admit this is what they want?
Do these men still exist (non dick head ones) and how can I make sure I attract them?
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Do old fashioned men still exist?
BooFuckingHoo2 · 11/08/2020 09:33
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