New man small penis

[fedupdotcomlo]

Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

[ThirtyAndASmidgen]

I once had a boyfriend who had a micropenis. Poor guy but it was a dealbreaker for me as I couldn’t feel anything

[inicecoldblood]

Haha I'm the same as pp would be a dealbreaker for me too.

[fedupdotcomlo]

I was afraid people would say that 😩

[Kittykat93]

My ex had a really small one. And although I always assured him it was absolutely fine and I loved him the way he was, sex just wasn't satisfying enough for me. I ended up just not wanting to sleep with him as it wasn't pleasurable. It's awful as obviously there's nothing they can do about it.

[Blinkme]

I've split with a guy because of this. He was lovely, we were really good friends, I was attracted to him when we went to bed one night, I was really disappointed. It was really small and there is no way he would have kept me satisfied so I walked away, set him up with a friend and they have been together for 10 years, married for 3. What doesn't work for you will work for someone else, let him go.

[scoobydoo1971]

It will be a dealbreaker in the end, in all probability. If it is already enough of a problem that you need to post it on this forum, then his more attractive atttributes will not matter. I had a relationship with two men who were somewhat lacking downstairs...it was disappointing as you compare to other lovers. They may be good in bed in other ways, but if intercourse is something that you really enjoy then it can be frustrating and affect intimacy. My last partner was not well endowed, and I didn't miss the sexual relationship when we broke up as it was a car crash. I suppose you could try sex toys if you really, really like this guy and he is willing to have an open discussion.

[bobstersmum]

I've been out with a guy with a small penis and it didn't actually bother me, what bothered me was he was a total twat. If the guy is genuinely lovely and you are attracted to him then I think it would be a shame to end it because of this. There are other ways he can pleasure you!

[Longsight2019]

How small are we talking?

[goldenorbspider]

You have my sympathy! I dated a really nice guy. He tried so hard in the bedroom but there's just no compensating.

[ThirtyAndASmidgen]

I think my ex might have been a very extreme case because I actually thought it was a clitoris when I first saw it I adore sex but think I could live with smaller than normal if the relationship was wonderful in other ways.

[category12]

Couldn't you use toys etc to make it more fun for you? It seems a shame to give up on it if he's willing to do other things to please you and the the rest of it is good.

[SidsWife]

God no. Not something you can compromise on in my opinion! For me it has to be 6in or more.

[fairgame84]

How small?
I've been with a guy on the smaller side of normal. Sex was better when I put a pillow under my bum to raise my hips.

[Wannabangbang]

Would he be up for trying a strap on?

[Gizmo79]

Must ask same as PP, how small are we talking? If it is just u dear average then there are things that can help- cock sleeves I believe. Never used them myself although perhaps would have been useful on one ex....

[otterhound]

Somewhere on reddit or piston heads is a man posting with the title ‘new woman, massive fanny’

Its not his fault. Plenty of crap humans out there. Little in life is perfect

[ButterflyBitch]

I went out with someone who was really small. Really lovely guy but sex was tricky as I couldn’t feel it either.
He’s been with someone else for years and they have a child together so must work for them!

[NSFW]

Yep, total turn off for me. I'm happy with medium, however latest squeeze is MASSIVE. I've a very happy smile on my face

[Wannabangbang]

And i agree with others depends how small? And how much you like him too

[CalleighDoodle]

I think it depends on what else is on offer from him. As long as he doesn't have personal hang ups about toys and refuses to add some to the sex, and the foreplay is exceptional, why not?

[CalleighDoodle]

but it has been a deal breaker for me

[restingbitchface30]

I had a micro penis once. He said let me know if I hurt u ☹️ However we had a lot of passion. Probs the most passion I had with anyone. It wasn’t why I stopped seeing him though so don’t write anything off yet

[LeekMunchingSheepShagger]

I think it would be a deal breaker for me. I can’t orgasm through penetration with a small penis and it just isn’t satisfying.

[CalleighDoodle]

I had a micro penis once is the best sentence

[Thefaceofboe]

My ex boyfriend of 4 years (my 1st proper boyfriend) had a micro penis, or at least a very very small one. I didn’t know what I was missing till we split up...