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Pictures - opinions on these texts please

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newnamechange84 · 24/05/2017 22:24

Just a small snapshot of what my 'd'p sends his 'friend'. Friend or more? Opinions please - this is a long running problem

Pictures - opinions on these texts please
Pictures - opinions on these texts please
Pictures - opinions on these texts please
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JoyceDivision · 24/05/2017 22:26

Pack his bags. You deserve better. xx

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pinkyredrose · 24/05/2017 22:27

I'd say your relationship is over.

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Justmadeperfectflapjacks · 24/05/2017 22:27

Can you not read op???!!

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Plumkettle · 24/05/2017 22:27

What? He says that you're not his life partner? Confused
Sorry but he's not your dp

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Lottie991 · 24/05/2017 22:28

Get rid of him,

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QuiteLikely5 · 24/05/2017 22:28

Respectfully, this looks like teen text messages!

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MrTumblesbitch · 24/05/2017 22:28

Oh love, that must be a shock. I wouldn't be able to stay after seeing that. Does he know you have seen these messages?

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feelingoldandtired · 24/05/2017 22:29

I'd be packing his bags or throwing them out of the window ! 💔

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newnamechange84 · 24/05/2017 22:32

Thanks ladies. He's been texting this girl - 8 years younger for months now. Exaggerates the arguments we have, tells her she looks stunning constantly etc. I'm going to post more pics, I need to get this out. Be as severe as you want. He can be an amazing man, and has been, but this? I've paid for a £2000 holiday to Disneyland Paris for us and my three kids and his two next month. This will definitely out me. I love him sooo much but he's not going to be the man I marry is he?

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Bobbins43 · 24/05/2017 22:32

Jesus. That's awful. I'm sorry, OP.

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Bobbins43 · 24/05/2017 22:32

He doesn't think he is, either

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newnamechange84 · 24/05/2017 22:33

Not all in order

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Pictures - opinions on these texts please
Pictures - opinions on these texts please
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MumIsRunningAMarathon · 24/05/2017 22:33

Ugh! He's just waiting for the green light and he'll be all over her!!

Telling her he's home alone.....hint hint

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newnamechange84 · 24/05/2017 22:34

One of those wasn't relevant!! Sorry! He says just friends and I know her bf has cheated on her and he keeps slagging off cheaters! I know they haven't physically done anything

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worrier6 · 24/05/2017 22:35

Wow awful hope your ok :(

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GottonamechangeNow17 · 24/05/2017 22:35

Oh love: sending you love and strength xx

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TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 24/05/2017 22:35

Ok, I'm firmly of the belief that men and women can be friends but I have NEVER texted my male friends like that! Get rid.

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newnamechange84 · 24/05/2017 22:36

I'll be honest, I'm breaking my heart here. He's going to be like this forever isn't he?

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newnamechange84 · 24/05/2017 22:36

I found these on his ipad. The ipad he 'lost'. He's out tonight, I knew he had it and found it in the boot of his car.

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MrsELM21 · 24/05/2017 22:36

Shock goodness OP, that's terrible, LTB for sure

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worrier6 · 24/05/2017 22:37

Has he done this before

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pinkyredrose · 24/05/2017 22:37

Yes he is.

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Shodan · 24/05/2017 22:37

Oh dear.

Sorry OP, it reads as though he is trying very hard to make something happen with this woman. I don't think she's up for it, although she seems to enjoy being flirted with.

He's not the one for you- leave him to his pathetic attempts to get into other women's knickers and get on with having a happy life without him.

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newnamechange84 · 24/05/2017 22:37

Sorry for all these messages but I'm nothing short of very distressed. I've got three kids, my DD who has ASD is SO attached to him, she loves him and it will break her little heart

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newnamechange84 · 24/05/2017 22:39

He's definitely trying to make something happen isn't he? I can't see any messages from the last two weeks obviously deleted. She's a gorgeous 23 year old size 6 and I'm a fucking frumpy size 14 mum of three with some health problems

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