I can barely fault him. We've had our problems but we've worked through them and things are much better now than they have been for ages.
We had DS 22 months ago and I didn't have a sex drive for a really long time afterwards. It's gradually come back but we barely ever dtd and it's not because of my lack of sex drive generally any more, it's because I don't fancy OH.
He's always been quite overweight but I've started to find it more and more unattractive.
I'm bigger than I was when we first got together as well, but have been trying to lose weight since having DS. I've asked DH to help me out with my diet by watching what he eats as well but he doesn't want to.
He's snapped at me for mentioning it too often and told me I'm getting obsessed with dieting but that he shouldn't have to and that he doesn't care.
I just don't know what to do I really can't see us having a good physical relationship again. I don't want to break up our family and he's a great partner and dad in lots of ways. But I don't think we have a fulfilling enough relationship
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I don't fancy OH any more :(
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PhyllisStein89 · 05/02/2017 00:20
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