Family life has been tough for the last few months and it has all come to a head tonight...
To cut a long story short, DH has been depressed/stressed for some time and has been very moody with me and the children. We are all walking on eggshells around him and each other - he is unable to cope with conflict in any way.
DD (6) has always been 'spirited' but recently she has been having huge tantrums which, if he is around, he needs to leave the house for as he can't cope.
DS (10) has also had a behaviour change recently and has become aggressive / shouty with me and his DS.
Tonight DD started with a tantrum which, despite me trying to resolve, ended up with DH demanding I leave him to 'sort it out'. Minutes later I hear him smack her (door was closed and I heard the crack), so I ran upstairs and shouted at him "what are you doing"? She was screaming and then DS came in, shouted at his Dad and then shoved him, shouting "Don't hit my sister".
DH looked shocked, took his wedding ring off, said "that's it" and has left.
I don't know what to do, children are still very upset saying they have lost their Daddy and I'm trying to hold everyone together...
I'm lost.... what should I do??
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DH smacked DD and has left
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Crumb502 · 17/11/2016 21:01
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