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My husband is a cunt

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myhusbandisacunt Wed 29-Jul-15 17:18:59

My husband is a cunt.
#justsaying

I found out on Saturday (whilst on a family holiday) that he has been having an affair for 10 years.
10 fucking pisstaking, lying, cuntish fucking years.

This is why he is a cunt and I hate him.
I also wonder where the actual fuck her (OW) self esteem is hiding, and also wonder why I am such a gullible fucking prick.

I probably won't post again on this thread, but if I do it may not be for ages as I am currently packing all his fucking shit up, I am just taking a break.

I am not a troll, mn can verify this if needs be.

LadyLou30 Wed 29-Jul-15 17:21:34

rant away xx

StillStayingClassySanDiego Wed 29-Jul-15 17:22:23

What bloody awful news, ((( offers a hug))).

You'll get through this, best to shed 12 stone of cunt now and start again, things will get better.

DownWithThisTypeOfThing Wed 29-Jul-15 17:23:00

Oh God you must feel sick!

Don't know what to say because I just can't comprehend the sheer shitbag levels of awfulness and anything will sound glib. This has NOTHING to do with you being gullible - you don't expect to be lied to by a person who's promised to love and honour you.

Have you got people you can rely on?

oabiti Wed 29-Jul-15 17:23:40

Ten years!!! He is a C U Next Tuesday of the highest order!

DragonsCanHop Wed 29-Jul-15 17:24:05

You are not a gullible prick. You married a cunt but you appear to have already realised that.

I hope you aren't packing him up all neat and tidy!

LavenderLeigh Wed 29-Jul-15 17:24:24

You are right to be ranting
Boot the bastard into touch

helenahandbag Wed 29-Jul-15 17:24:56

Ten years?! I'm so sorry this has happened, that's fucking horrible news to receive.

Don't be too careful with his shit when you're packing it up.

flatbellyfella Wed 29-Jul-15 17:25:09

Wow!! Wish you good luck on the outcome of his deceit.

shovetheholly Wed 29-Jul-15 17:26:25

flowers

10 years. I am so, so sorry you're going through this. I can't even imagine what you're feeling right now. Your entire history with this man must have just been rewritten.

Sending you love, support and agreement that he is indeed a wankbag of the first water who isn't worthy to step on your shadow, let alone be in your life.

sleepsoftly Wed 29-Jul-15 17:26:37

Sounds reasonable to me. If he did that he is a cunt. So is OW. Both cunts. The word was made for them.

Turning to more practical matters. Copy all the financial data, remove it temporarily to a friends house and tell him it may follow later if you cannot do it immediately. Do the same with family photographs. Put the suitcases full bin liners in the garden and do not leave them in the hallway. If you do, it is a safety and fire hazard. It doesn't matter if it rains or they get nicked, H&S comes first.

People do horrible things to other innocent people. It doesn't make you gullible. Just cleverly lied to.

Hopefully you will be shagging someone else one day with wanton abandon, and new hopes, dreams and a better life.

juneau Wed 29-Jul-15 17:27:05

10 years? Bloody hell OP. Rant away!

flowers for you.

dingit Wed 29-Jul-15 17:27:46

I clicked on the thread thinking what an awful title, but sadly you are right.
I hope your life turns around, and you find someone who deserves you thanks

Hassled Wed 29-Jul-15 17:30:11

God the shock must be immense - you must be absolutely reeling. Use all the RL support you can muster and rant away here as much as you need.

Manic3mum Wed 29-Jul-15 17:32:22

flowers
this must be very shocking for you. Awful.

goddessofsmallthings Wed 29-Jul-15 17:47:38

10 years? As there are aren't sufficient four letter words to describe him, cunt is as good any and applies to the ow too.

10 years??!!! I'm struggling to get my brain round that so god knows how you'll manage to get yours wrapped round it. Has he had any dc with the ow? Don't feel obliged to answer but do be aware that it is a possibility.

Placing full trust in a partner/spouse/family member etc is one of the greatest gifts you can give them and only an out and out cunt of the lowest order would betray it.

Don't beat yourself up for being gullible, honey, because it's far better to be made a fool of than be a morally defective cunt who puts the needs of their genitalia before loyalty to their spouse.

flowers and wine for you. Come back whenever... you'll always find support here.

LooseSeal Wed 29-Jul-15 17:50:06

Ten years? He is the mayor of cuntville.

flowers

DebbiFolan Wed 29-Jul-15 17:50:15

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FantasticButtocks Wed 29-Jul-15 17:56:13

What a horrible shock sad Hopefully, your fury will drive you though the next steps you need to take. So sorry thanks

HeisenbergSaysHello Wed 29-Jul-15 17:57:17

What a cunt

flowers for you

FenellaFellorick Wed 29-Jul-15 17:58:36

What an absolute bastard
thanks

tilliebob Wed 29-Jul-15 18:24:16

Jesus, I can only imagine the rage you're feeling just now. Use it while you have it. What a total tosser he is!

Pagwatch Wed 29-Jul-15 18:27:15

Still op, at least debifolan has given you the details of Dr Lawrence to cast a spell for you.
So you know that there are lots of cunts out there.

Epilepsyhelp Wed 29-Jul-15 18:30:55

Yep, he's a cunt. First class cunt.

ollieplimsoles Wed 29-Jul-15 18:37:07

shit op flowers

In all seriousness I'm so sorry for you. Hes a massive cunt.

Do you have DC, what are you planning to do now, and how did you find out?

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