The July 19ers - STILL never beaten, and rocking our FJs for a lucky thread

[Frazzlerock]

Here it is! Our lucky one 🤞

[TwittleBee]

Yay a shiny new one! Thank you

So gonna be our lucky one right!?

[Frazzlerock]

YES!

[tigsyboo]

Hey hey!
It's Rachy
New thread new name!! 👌🏼

[edidxb]

Yay! Thanks @Frazzle! It is going to be our lucky one FOR SURE.
But now all the other messages are on the other thread and I can't remember everything I was going to reply to, but I'll say a quick hello instead.
I have so much I can rant about today as I've had a rubbish day but I'll save it for another time.

So I thought I would do a little personal recap instead
Age - 36
TTC DC1
2 missed miscarriages in 2018
Currently live in Dubai but am British through and through!

[BettySwoll0cks]

Lucky foof juice one and all 😂

[edidxb]

Hey @tigsyboo loving all the new names. Maybe I should change my name too? Maybe next week. I'll go for something more catchy than 2 airport codes rolled into one!

[TwittleBee]

Love the new name tigsy !

Also love a recap, thanks for starting edidxb

Age - 25
TTC DC2 since Oct 2017
2 CPs, 1MMC in 2018

[TwittleBee]

betty too much laughter haha

[tigsyboo]

I’m tigsy
Age 35
TTC #1
Have DH and 2 step sons
Fell PG with sheer luck and ignorance in Oct 18
Slow growth and MMC at 9+5

Currently not Oing and stressed about hcg levels. X

[tigsyboo]

Sept 18.... ignore me. Lol

[Frazzlerock]

I am gonna get so confused with new names!

Rachy = tigsyboo
smerlin = Pegase

Okay, my update:

Age: Fucking ancient apparently at a geriatric 39
TTC: DC3 since June 2018
1 MMC Feb 2016, 1MC May 2016, 1 MMC Nov 2018
Riddled with PCOS
Planning a wedding

[BettySwoll0cks]

Age: 39 next month (positively geriatric)
TTC DC2
MMC March 18, CP Aug 18, MMC Dec 18

Hoping that 2019 will be my year 🤞

[tigsyboo]

So..... Dr called (locum 😢)
Says 3.6 is not pregnant and he is happy it's coming down and will retest in 2 weeks.
He says if you have 1 non-ovulating cycle you could have 2/3 - bloody great!!! And won't send me for scan or day 21 until I'm sure I've had a proper AF as he doesn't know if last one counts.
Pissed off now!!
Where is the wine??!

[ratherbeshowjumping]

Love the new name @tigsy

Absolutely love the new thread title too - just got the giggles dropping some fresh eggs round to a neighbour who informed me she'll be having scrambled eggs for tea....

@Frazzle your recap

So, my recap:
Age 25
TTC DC1
MC 23rd Nov '18 8 weeks
Currently a DM to 3 DDogs, 3DHorses, 3DChickens, desperately need to conceive a human to even things out around here!

[ratherbeshowjumping]

@tigsy here you go.
That's fucking shit...!!
Let me know when you need a top up.... x

[tigsyboo]

@ratherbeshowjumping .... I'm ready for the top up

[ratherbeshowjumping]

.....
Honestly @tigsy just have the bottle...

[TwittleBee]

Oh tigsy drink up hun 🍷that is so shit. Hopefully you'll Ov soon though, there's still chance this cycle

[TwittleBee]

Anyone else find it really hard not to comment on the "measuring behind" or "slow growth" or "no hb at 7 weeks" threads? They're always full of such supportive comments and how it will all be fine. I honestly wish someone told me otherwise when I made one of those threads.

[ratherbeshowjumping]

@TwittleBee in honesty I just try to avoid all threads except this one. I saw a name thread earlier asking about the name I was planning on calling our baby if she was a girl. It actually made me tear up.

I should have a little bump by now & bickering with dh over the colour of the nursery... instead I've got fat eating too much shit over Christmas & just spent my weekends injecting DHs sperm up my foof. It's so fucking unfair 😡

[tigsyboo]

I sometimes comment saying 'just be prepared it could go either way'

I'm considering ditching all my vits etc apart from pregnacare

I started taking vit b6 to regulate cycle... now reading it could delay Ov!

[Frazzlerock]

I also avoid all pregnancy topics and anything to do with babies or pregnancy. I've hidden the topics.

Re giving advice on those threads @TwittleBee if they have asked for honest responses and you want to comment then go for it. Tell them we pretty much all experienced the same and had bad news. Depends if they're fishing for just positive responses though. They'll learn soon enough!

My house is finally clean again. I was doing Team TOMM which you may or may not have heard of. Anyway I found it brilliant to help all of us get into the housework. It worked so well that we had to say goodbye to our lovely cleaner, so it saved us money too.
However, since the MC and Xmas, we've all slipped out of routine.
We caught up over the weekend and I've just done the last mucky room - the kitchen! Now the house smells lovely again.

So I thought I'd plonk myself in front of the tellybox and watch Eastenders.
No.
Fucking MOTD is on all night! 😡
EE isn't even on BBC2!
#firstworldproblems

Oh well, I'd better go and hang this lot then....

[ProseccoBee]

My stats:
I’m 31
Ttc baby number one
BFP October third cycle
MC December at 12 weeks


@tigsy keep drinking up! And enjoy.

@twittle I feel really sad when I see those threads and people give the positive advice as I know when your first told or find out what’s happening your mind is all over trying to rationalise it and think it’s easy to clutch straws but all the helpful positive advice is well meaning but sad! But then I suppose as everyone else she’s said they will eventually find out for themselves! I’m also trying to avoid other threads as now the physical stuff of the MC has settled down I think my mind is able to think more about the “I should be 16 weeks now” I should have been doing such a suck this week but instead I’m back here grrrr!!

Well my first day back at work went well everyone pretended they didn’t know and just said kind things like “glad to have you back” “lovely to see you” and Milne dates utter the words “have you had a lovely Christmas” so I survived the day! I”m also catching up on housework now @frazzle but feel it’s never ending just as I’ve completed one room and it’s immaculate I have to go back on myself and start all over again! Ironing is seriously overdue but ironing is my worst chore and I literally can’t face it!

[ProseccoBee]

@frazzle how was your first day back in the office?

[Pegase]

Ooh shiny new thread! Am back at work now (teacher) so am going to miss lots of daytime updates.

kinsters well done on the promotion that's great news! I love Malaysia- would love to move there.


@TwittleBee I saw your update first thing and felt so sorry! I'm sure DP will want to TTC again when you are both fighting fit - understandable to have an extreme reaction when so ill.

@Frazzlerock I am doing teamTOMM slightly too! I must confess we do have a cleaner (just two hours a week) but am trying to keep on top of the other stuff- laundry etc. I am currently rediscovering my obsession with Marie Kondo too.

Username is French for Pegasus. Well there should be an accent but it wouldn't let me add it. Just wanted something horse-related. @ratherbeshowjumping DH bought me a carriage driving lesson for Christmas!!!

So vital stats

Age:35 this month
TTC number 2
One MC in Nov/Dec 2018
Have DH, DD(5) and DCat