DD1 friend passed away very suddenly after battling cancer. He was only 16.
DD and her friends only found out on Tuesday that it was terminal and only expected to have a few weeks. He died in his sleep the next morning.
DD seems to be holding it together, and his friends are all suppperigee each other. I on the other hand just cannot pull myself together.
I feel such a fraud to have been hit so hard by his passing.
I guess like many of us I have experienced loss but never with someone so young.
I cannot stop thinking of his poor parents and the overwhelming grief they must be experiencing.
He was such an unbelievably positive kid who dealt with it all with such bravery and humour. He truly was an inspiration to his friends and anybody who had the great fortune of spending time with him.
It feels like a different kind of grief. I think I'm crying for his parents, for a life he will not live. But also (shamefully) for myself. The fear that it could just as easily be my child and my loss.
Just looking for some perspective. Maybe someone who has experienced similar might have wise words to help me pull myself together.
I guess I feel as if it is not my loss and am being completely and utterly selfish feeling as bereft as I do
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DD's friend passed away yesterday and I can't stop crying
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drivinmecrazy · 20/04/2017 10:48
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