My daughter died on Christmas day, and I am struggling this year.

[VilootShesCute]

She was 9 years old and it was 6:50am 8 years ago Christmas day she went peacefully in my arms.

I can talk about it to family and friends but this year, I don't know, it's just hitting me harder. I don't want to put too much on to anyone else close to me so am trying to be strong but Christ, it is not easy. Please can I ask everyone to just think of my beautiful girl on Christmas day and without sadness, send love to her wherever she may be.

[Whatslovegottodo]

I will give your daughter a thought on Christmas Day.
Would you like to share anything about your lovely daughter?
Wishing you a peaceful Christmas.

[0phelia]

Oh my gosh so sorry. Tears in my eyes for you.

[QODRestYeMerryGentlemen]

💐

[cherrycrumblecustard]

Oh, this is just the saddest thing

How AWFUL what happened, if you don't mind me asking? X

[CheckpointCharlie2]

viloot I will also think of her. How heartbreaking for you.
Unmumsnetty hug (hug) to you.

[VilootShesCute]

Thank you Whats. I know it's a strange thing to ask of strangers but I have been around here for so long it doesn't feel that way...sometimes. My special girl was amazing. She never complained, she always cuddled. I miss her so very much. It never gets easier, just different.

[wrapsuperstar]

If you wanted, it would be great to hear about your lovely little girl.

Will certainly think of her and you and send a great deal of love.

[KavvYourselfAMerryLittleXmas]

Love to you and to your beautiful girl. She will not be forgotten

[EstelleRoberts]

I will think of your darling daughter on Christmas Day, and will send loving, healing thoughts to her and you.

There are no words I can say that will ease your pain, but I so wish there were.

[VilootShesCute]

She got pneumonia, was poorly for 4 days and then Christmas morning it all became too much for her little body to take.

[SingaSong12]

Would you be happy to pray for her (and you)? I won't be at all offended if you prefer me not to.

In any case my best wishes and I will think about you both

[VilootShesCute]

Oh thank you all. I feel very lonely in my grief sometimes, like its all so unreal. But my other children mean it's a necessity to not run away or hide in a hole somewhere. Despite wanting to many times.

[Rainbowqueeen]

for you and your gorgeous girl.

I will be thinking of both you and her on Christmas day

I hope that helps you. My very best wishes to you and your family

[Blossomdeary]

She will be in my thoughts on Christmas Day. I am sure you will have wonderful memories of your dear daughter and the love lives on.

[VilootShesCute]

Singa that is lovely. Thank you.

[mortificado]

I'll be thinking of you and your little girl on Xmas day, I'll light a candle for her too if that's ok.
I'm very sorry for your loss. But I hope you have a lovely day on Xmas.

[Rachie1986]

I shall be praying for you and thinking of you and your beautiful daughter.

[CheckpointCharlie2]

Oh viloot my dd was hospitalised with pneumonia when she was four over Christmas four years ago too. She came through but I'll never forget it. I'm so gutted for you.

[Nuggy2013]

You'll both be in my thoughts

[8FencingWire]

I'll be thinking of you and your little girl on Christmas day, I'll light a candle and send you both our love.
I'm doing this now, but I'll remember you on Christmas day too.

Are you getting any support?

[Gobbolinothewitchscat]

viloot - I'm so sorry. I know that's such a trite thing to say but please know I'll be thinking about you and your lovely girl on Christmas Day

[Bestthingever]

Bless you. It's not a strange thing to ask at all. In fact it's one of the nice things about MN that you can reach out and always find someone there. I know someone who lost their dm and dh on Christmas Day (different years - a horrible coincidence) and I know how they struggle. I will think of you and your lovely little girl. Please accept a virtual hug from me.

[Wolfiefan]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Christmas must be so hard. Trying to make it nice for your other children and missing her all the while. I shall be thinking of you.

[Ihopeyouhadthetimeofyourlife]

My little sister died on Christmas Day 38 years ago. I always buy a single white carnation to remember her by. This year I will think of your little girl too

[Howlongtillbedtime]

I am so sorry for your loss . My son died at the beginning of Dec 15 yrs ago .

What plans have you got for the day ?

Whatever you fee like doing is the right thing .