My friends 50th.
She was my best pal through uni. And afterwards. We lived together in a flat share too for a few years.
Saw her normally over the past year (2 or 3 times) text her happy birthday last week and she replied really friendly like 'thanks, hope we can meet up soon!'.
I go on Facebook today and her and all of our friends are away celebrating her 50th in a hotel. I am gobsmacked. There are even people there who are more my friends than hers. Our old work colleagues. Our joint friends.
I just can't understand it. It's bizarre. She's must have known about it for months. We caught up before christmas and nothing was mentioned.
She does have a history of occasionally singling one person out and excluding them for a while. She likes to be the organiser of weekends away etc.
Im wondering if it's my turn. She's done it to another of our friends and we all noticed and just purposefully made sure that person was forwarded on the invitation every event that was organised.
Can you help me understand what's gone on here? It's so weird. Am I the pariah this time?
Even my Mum said to me 'oh Kerry's 50th looks fab, why didn't you go?' As she had seen pics on Facebook. So awkward.
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yesitssea · 05/02/2022 23:42
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