hi
Will keep brief. I am so mad and upset, feel like ending contact but would like your thoughts.
Boyfriend of 18months, recently introduced to do 7 and 5. Home after day out, kids had been little difficult in previous few days. Something happened that frightened dc as he wasn't expecting it, the act itself was not bad, just happened to frighten dc. Dc started to cry and came to me upset. Could see Boyfriend mouth Something in anger, but I didn't hear. My other dc then immediately said, Boyfriend called dc a whingey . I was absolutely floored, dc that it was about didn't hear what was said but looked at me with a Terrible upset face and asked what did Boyfriend call me? I was so angry and upset but didn't want to cause upset in front of dc.
Werr staying at Boyfriend house that evening, there was obvious tension but he didn't say anything or apologise. When kids in bed i brought it up and expressed my feelings, he said he was so sorry and it just came out, he is finding it challenging at times.
I cannot shake what feels like an attack on my dc and my instinct is to protect them. I feel like ending relationship.
What would be your thoughts? This is a one off but I have sensed difficulty/ strain for a while
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Boyfriend foul language to dc
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Whatname2021 · 03/08/2021 12:08
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