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AIBU?

Early morning sex ...

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Sodamntiredasalways · 19/02/2018 00:02

I get one lie in a week, a Sunday. The rest of the week I'm up for work or training (5:30/6am) and DH is still in bed. Apart from Saturday when we train together. DH has developed this habit of wanting sex at 6am on a Sunday morning. The sun wakes him up .... but apparently it doesn't Monday to Friday AIBU to want to scream at him to bugger off and let me sleep or should I appreciate the affection? He will persist every 15 minutes until I finally wake up and begrudgingly agree. So I can't pretend to be asleep. (This is lighthearted, I love him and we have a great physical relationship - I just was one lie in a week) thoughts ?

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GetsPostByOwl · 19/02/2018 00:18

Mine loves morning sex. I don't. Smelly breath, sweaty from sleeping, not as..... fresh as one would want to be. It's gross.
At night however, I'll be fresh out of the bath, raring to go and..... Nothing. Nada. Zilch. He won't take the hint.

Sodding men!

Fluffyears · 19/02/2018 00:19

He will persist every 15 minutes until I finally wake up and begrudgingly agree you know that is rape?

MotherforkingShirtballs · 19/02/2018 00:20

I hate early morning sex, DH has long since learned that any attempts will be met with a brusque "bugger off" for the same reasons given by Owl.

iceycage · 19/02/2018 00:21

If you don't want to have sex, you don't have sex. It's that simple.

I can't imagine it's not obvious to your DH that you aren't keen. If it were me he'd have been kicked in the balls many many many times.

LittlePaintBox · 19/02/2018 00:40

Tell him you don't want it early morning on a Sunday. He may not yet have picked that up.

I realise we're all meant to be revved up and raring to go all the time nowadays, but you have other needs, one of which is sleep.

And yes, pestering for sex is pestering for sex, whether it's the office creep or your DH.

GnotherGnu · 19/02/2018 00:43

Are you in the UK? There's no sun round here till after 7 at the moment.

Tell him that you do not want to be woken up before 8 on Sunday, remind him of that on Saturday night, and tell him that if dares to wake you up for sex he'll have to go without for at least a week.

zzzzz · 19/02/2018 00:55

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DannyLaRuesBestFrock · 19/02/2018 00:58

I don't think I could have sex with someone I knew was only doing it to appease me.

ReanimatedSGB · 19/02/2018 01:01

Well, yeah, consent has to be enthusiastic, not 'just pull my nightie down when you've finished.' And if OP's said no, still asleep, go away, and his dick is still being shoved at her, then that is rape.

zzzzz · 19/02/2018 01:02

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UnrelentingFruitScoffer · 19/02/2018 01:06

@Fluffyears - No it is not. And you know that. What’s your agenda here ? Spread a bit of hatred ?

Ivebeenaroundtheblock · 19/02/2018 01:10

Littlepaintbox has it spot on.
Saturday night synopsis (dare not wake me on Sunday am before 8)
and let him know being a sex pest is not sexy and will result in no sexy time until next Sunday PAST 8.

PositivelyPERF · 19/02/2018 01:15

That would seriously fuck me off! No pun intended. Buy a blackout blind and have it put up while he’s out. Any man would be seeing the fucking light alright if he tried to wake me for sex at 6am. Priorities. 😴

AjasLipstick · 19/02/2018 01:19

Zzz no because she's being COERCED into agreeing.

Haven't you ever read any articles other than those which appear in the Daily Mail?

LemonysSnicket · 19/02/2018 01:22

Anything before 9.30 am on a Sunday morning is illegal here.

Butterfly1066 · 19/02/2018 01:22

It might be irratating but rape it isn't

LemonysSnicket · 19/02/2018 01:23

I read an article once saying men are horniest on a morning and women in mid afternoon. I agree with it.
On a night I’m tired, in the morning we smell... afternoon delight anyone?

timeisnotaline · 19/02/2018 01:38

I don’t understand morning sex - does everyone jump up and brush their teeth first? But that’s not relevant here as if I loved morning Sex but I got one lie in a week and my dp thought to wake me for sex I would explain in one syllable words that there might never be sex again. I like lie ins :)

taylorj86 · 19/02/2018 02:16

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swanmills · 19/02/2018 02:21

Taylorj86 your husband has sex with you while he thinks you're asleep? Is this serious or are you being deliberately provocative ?

snakeshun · 19/02/2018 02:29

He's a sex pest. I'd tell him to fuck off and never wake me again.

Time40 · 19/02/2018 02:37

I don’t understand morning sex - does everyone jump up and brush their teeth first?

Yes. And have a pee.

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taylorj86 · 19/02/2018 02:41

swanmills what are you doing here? my sex life is none of your business, I haven't asked about yours so please be respectful.

swanmills · 19/02/2018 02:43

Taylor um.... i am responding to your post. Which is a fairly common theme amongst mumsnet. Post/read/respond and the likes.

Please don't talk to me about being " respectful" when you literally just described rape which is obviously a hugely sensitive subject.

Whiterabbitears · 19/02/2018 02:46

Morning sex is vile, bad breath and stale undercarriage - gross. DH always has a stonking morning hard on but if I breathe on him it puts him off! OP YANBU to want that lie in, tell him its not on because its not fair of him to pressure you like that.

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