We were talking about having a second child last night and I casually said I think I would formula feed (I have ebf my first).
He replied he wouldn’t want another one if I was going to formula feed. This then turned into a big argument which when we got to the bottom of it, what he really meant was he wouldn’t want another baby if even before I’ve got pregnant, I had decided to formula feed I.e. not wanting the best for our baby without even trying.
I would like to bf again and I would try to, but I can see it being so much harder when you’ve got a toddler as well.
He would be supportive if I gave it a go but had a good reason to stop. He’s a nutritionist and has studied in detail how good breastmilk is so I guess it’s important to him.
But, he’s basically saying, the babies life isn’t worth as much if he/she is formula fed, right?? AIBU?
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My DP said he wouldn’t have another baby with me if I was to formula feed.
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Missy450 · 28/11/2017 08:02
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