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AIBU?

Staying at in laws-AIBU?

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Snowflakes1122 · 17/04/2017 09:33

We are currently staying at in laws. Every morning without fail DH, FIL and the kids all get breakfast. DH and FIL get full on eggs, bacon the works etc and the kids whatever they want.
It's like I'm bloody invisible! I've been helping myself to some old cornflakes but they are all gone now. I don't even like them!

So this morning I've been sat watching everyone else eat lovely food and have coffees brought starving and 31 weeks pregnant. I wanted to cry!

I can't go into their kitchen and start making something as that offends MIL

AIBU to be pissed off, hormonal and upset? Why does she leave me out? Confused

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ineedaholidaynow · 17/04/2017 09:34

What does your DH do when this happens?

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SoloDance · 17/04/2017 09:35

How strange. Why haven't you asked for some breakfast?

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ememem84 · 17/04/2017 09:35

Can't you just say what you want?

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EduCated · 17/04/2017 09:35

Ask your DH where your breakfast is.

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JennyOnAPlate · 17/04/2017 09:36

Why haven't you asked where yours is?

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Moanyoldcow · 17/04/2017 09:36

What? She makes breakfast for EVERYONE except you?

March in there now and ask her what she's made for you. If she blusters cut her off and tell her what you'd like.

That's fucking outrageous. My DH would never have allowed that but my PIL would never behave like that either.

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SoloDance · 17/04/2017 09:36

Do they think you don't want any breakfast? Have you told your DH or MiL that you do?

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greenworm · 17/04/2017 09:36

Huh? Do you mean you all sit at the table and everyone gets given breakfast except you? Why?

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CaptainBrickbeard · 17/04/2017 09:37

Why doesn't your DH say something? How can he just sit there and eat whilst his pregnant wife goes hungry? Does MIL think you don't want anything? Why is she leaving you out? And why are none of you saying anything??

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SheldonsSpot · 17/04/2017 09:37

Your DH is a twat.

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HeddaGarbled · 17/04/2017 09:37

Good grief, how come your H hasn't noticed that you haven't got any breakfast? Don't be a martyr - tell him.

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FloatyCat · 17/04/2017 09:39

Ask very loudly "what's for my breakfast?".
Seriously I would leave in inlaws, it's an odd way to treat you.

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Chloe84 · 17/04/2017 09:39

Your DH lets his 31 week pregnant wife get left out of breakfast? He is a fucking twat. Take him aside right now and tell him if this doesn't change, you're going home, never coming back and PIL are never welcome in your home again.

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qwertyuiopasdfghjkl · 17/04/2017 09:39

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user1471558436 · 17/04/2017 09:39

Your DH should give you his meal

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SomethingBorrowed · 17/04/2017 09:39

Eh? Do you just sit there in silence? Why doesn't you say anything? Or your DH?
This sounds bizarre.

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SoloDance · 17/04/2017 09:40

Good plan, qwerty.

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RedandWhiteStripe · 17/04/2017 09:40

What did your DH say when you asked him about it?

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AmserGwin · 17/04/2017 09:40

Wtf?? Say something or go in and make your own, and offend MIL by doing it if you have to

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Nocabbageinmyeye · 17/04/2017 09:40

Wtf??? What is your dh saying??? I'd honestly get dressed, head off somewhere nice and alone for breakfast then come back when I was calm and pack my bags and not return. How rude!!

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EatDessertFirst · 17/04/2017 09:41

Wow. You have a DH problem. Lovely he is to gobble a full english while his 31 week pregnant wife gets nothing. My flabber is ghasted.

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SoloDance · 17/04/2017 09:41

Your DH should ask his mum where your breakfast is.

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NavyandWhite · 17/04/2017 09:41

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PurpleDaisies · 17/04/2017 09:42

Have you raised this with your inlaws?

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halobean · 17/04/2017 09:43

Leave and never go back.

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