A-ages since I last posted, but thought this might be the place to ask! My DP has two sons, has been very involved in their lives since separating from their mum when they were small. They are both in primary school. Pre-school, they were with us around 75% of time outside time spent with child minder, and since school has started, they come to us every weekend (mostly).
He's a good Dad, generous financially to XDP and very involved in all aspects of the kids lives.
A couple of weeks ago we heard through XDP there was a parent's evening the following week. This was a surprise as he's signed up to the Parentmail email system and we understood he'd get this kind of information directly (nothing had arrived).
He emailed the school, just in case there was some kind of issue:
Dear (school secretary),
I was informed tonight that there is a parent’s evening for DS1 and DS2 next Thursday.
I haven’t been notified of this by the school. Could you make sure I am receiving direct notification of any meetings about the boys and their progress?
Thanks,
(DP)
and this is the response that arrived:
"I will try (DP) but that information goes home via school bags, it's not something that is communicated by Parentmail as it is individual to each child. The boys appointments are 4.30pm for DS1 and 5.50pm for DS2. I will let their teachers know you need to be told of meetings separately.
Probably best for future years to keep an eye on the newsletter and when you see the dates for Parents' Nights pop up remind me and I can let you know what time is allocated - best if you do this as there's no way I'll remember! This is what we do for several parents in similar circumstances to yourself. We will try to keep you in the loop in future.
Kind regards
(school secretary)"
AIBU thinking this response isn't quite right? Surely the school have some kind of obligation to keep him posted about this kind of thing?
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littlejessie · 02/04/2014 12:53
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