Ok so IABU and I don't really want there to be any impact as that would mean her baby is unhappy but...
WIBU to want to stamp my foot a bit and tantrum 'it's not fair!'?
I have ebf on demand, very much baby driven parenting, carrying her everywhere because she doesn't much like being put down (screams if you try). She is in a side of bed cot or our bed each night. I've done all I can to meet her needs so she doesn't scream the house down is happy and secure.
My friend has instilled a routine at 2 weeks, night weaned/ sleep trained from 8 weeks and has had her in her own room from 12 weeks.
The outcome just seems so unfair.
My baby is lovely, very alert and lively and is happy most of the time, but we still have to keep her entertained fairly labour intensively and she hasn't slept for more than 3 hours at a stretch in 5 months.
Friend's baby could be an advert for Gina Ford. Content, calm, sleeps through. She wakes up at 5am but "we just leave her to chat to herself until 7"!
If i left my DD for more than 10 mins we would be at defcon 1, full screaming, real tears, purple face.
2 different parents, 2 different babies, 2 different approaches and 2 different outcomes.
What if i listened to the wrong advice? What if I have 'made a rod for my own back'?
AIBU to even just a little bit hope that friend's DD is a really badly behaved, insecure nuisance as a todler?
AIBU?
To want this mum to get her comeupance
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