To be hugely pissed of with my radical feminist friend.

[NambaJam]

She was at my house this morning and felt it her place to lecture me that because I am married I am in servitude. (WTF!) And another lecture that allowing my husband to have PIV sex with me was tanatamount to him sexualy assaulting me on a regular basis.

Now I can utterly accept her not wanting to have PIV sex. But who the fuck is she to tell me I damn well shouldnt? She then banged on that it was abusive due to the risk of unwanted pregnancy. (DH has had the snip, so no risk) I happen to like being penetrated and will happily penetrate myself for enjoyment.
Sex for me is a very varied thing and involves many things.

I know that some feminists have strong views on marriage, but again its my life and MY choice. And I certainly dont live in any kind of bloody servitude.

[PetisaPumpkinHead]

What's PIV sex?

[needanewname]

What is piv?

[needanewname]

Glad it's not just me!

[NambaJam]

PIV = Penis in vagina.

Sorry should have said in post :)

[iMemoo]

Penis in vagina?

[cakeoclock]

PIV? Penis in vag? She sounds like an idiot. Ignore her and let her know you will be enjoying a bit of PIV tonight just to annoy her.

[Booooooyhoo]

penetrative something vaginal?

[Hammy02]

All I can picture is the character 'Millie Tant' from Viz.

[AKissIsNotAContract]

Tell her you do PIBUM too

[TheVermiciousKnid]

[hhmm]

[ElsieOops]

YABVU to be pissed off - you should have just rolled on the floor laughing at her being ridiculous... assuming this actually happened.

[ThePumpkinKing]

I don't know ScaredBear , PITA maybe

[Booooooyhoo]

xpost.

isn't penis in vagina sex the whole reason the human race exists? does she know how she was made?

[manicbmc]

Isn't the whole point in feminism that we have the choice? It is our choice to do what makes us happy and if that happens to make a man happy too, then great.

Your friend sounds like a misery. If she can't accept a fellow woman's choices then she can hardly call herself a feminist.

[WhollyGhost]

[[hhmm] here too

[troisgarcons]

PIV? This is a problem? Have I been doing it all wrong? Where is the P supposed to go if not in the V?


"wanders off bemused and about to burst into hysterical laughter"

[Putrifyno]

[NambaJam]

ScaredBear :) oh the many options! Sex to me dosent need me to have DH penetrate me. But its nice when he does :)

Fingers, lips, tounge, hands, and just about anything else our warped minds can come up with all count as sex to me

[iggi999]

It's mot her feminist views that are at fault here surely, but her rudeness at commenting on your life without invitation.
Eg as a vegetarian, I think my friends are wrong to eat meat but as I have some manners and respect others' pov, I would not come round to your house and tell you this!

[Georgimama]

Where is the P supposed to go if not in the V?

armpit, perhaps.

[PetisaPumpkinHead]

at "Where is the P supposed to go if not in the V?"

[omnishambles]

2 out of 10

[RubyLovesMayMay]

Love, your friend is not a radical feminist...she's a loon